I know this thread will probably get locked since everyone probably wont agree with what I'am about to say and I can accept that but I'm going to speak my mind anyway. When I watched the press conference that Kobe gave yesterday I almost cried, he looked so sad and my heart really went out to him. Yeah what he did was wrong and he knows that but I believe that he is truly sorry for what he did and for putting his wife through hell. My eye's swelled-up when he was talking about how much he loved his wife and that she is a blessing to him and that she is his world, you could tell that he was speaking from his heart and to see him wipe away tears was very touching for me. I have always hated to see a man cry, it always tears me up inside.

This sucks and all and I love the Lakers but how much does a man love a woman especially his WIFE when he can't be loyal. Why the fuck even get married. Just stay single and get around. As far as the sexual assault charge thats a another issue. That should never happen wether married or single.

pejman said:

Well you know the old saying "temptation is very hard to resist".

Temptation is a muthafuka!! But if I were that rich I'd watch myself so as not to get caught in a costly trap!!

Paisley, first of all, threads don't get locked because not everyone agrees--they do get locked if the same subject gets brought up time and time again...

Secondly--if you believe a man is innocent just because he cries, that's crazy. I'm sure he was crying because his ass got caught.

AnotherLoverToo said:

True true I was crying my ass off to the judge and he didn't budge!!! hey that ryhmed!!

Paisley said:

Paisley, you're amazing. I'm sure he hopes someone like you is on the jury--someone swayed by emotion so much that they don't look at the facts!

AnotherLoverToo said:

I know he's not innocent and so does he, I just find it very sad to see a man cry, what can I say I have a very kind

Paisley said:

Hoping and knowing are two different things dear.

pejman said:

What kind of "trap" is it when a grown, married man decides to fuck someone other than his wife? It's his own trap...

We're all human, we all make mistakes. But the people who are blindly sticking up for him are also bashing this girl, which isn't fair.

AnotherLoverToo said:

Your right I can't argue that! It is his trap indeed.

AnotherLoverToo said:

Paisley said:

This is not directed at you, but I think it's funny how we say that about men, but it's a double standard for women. We expect our women to be faithful, but when a man cheats, he was "tempted" or being "a man"

Paisley said:

I felt bad and uncomfortable for him watching that newsconference, too. It's never pleasant to watch things like that.

Janfriend said:

AnotherLoverToo said:

So true

pejman said:

You are so cute!

pejman said:

pejman said:

It's easier said then done darlin.

AnotherLoverToo said:

i'd have to agree. what always kills me is that people can have seemingly everything (in his case, a great career, more money than he could ever spend, a gorgeous wife...), and still they are looking for something else. i guess that proves that attachment to "stuff" is not where it's at.

Not sure who that person is (a basketball player, I'm guessing?) - but is this a big story in the USA at the moment? You all seem to be talking about it a lot...

I'm curious to hear why. A guy has an extra-marital affair... is this news? Surely it's his business who he fucks and who he doesn't. I can see the front-page headlines now:

MAN HAS SEX WITH WOMAN SHOCKER!
Pages 1, 2, 4, 5, 6, and 32

In conclusion, who gives a shit, and why? Explain.

Paisley said:

How would you feel if you had the chance to see the tears of th woman he had raped?

ian said:

he's been indicted on sexual assault charges

irresistibleb1tch said:

Ah I see.

Ubiquity said:

Rape? yeah ok!

Paisley said:

How am I supposed to interprete that?

thi is him ian

pejman said:

Cheers! I'm playing NBA Street 2 on Xbox at the mo, I'll see if I can find him on it

ian said:

If U do keep an on him.

CAMILLE4U said:

That's just wrong