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EvilWhiteMale said: Am I wrong?
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the fear of love...
I ain't afraid of love. shit, i been fightin it for years. But really, maybe when it comes to relationships i'm a little reticent about giving in to it. After all i hate to be disapointed and i always want to have the same feeling for that particular woman for all time. But alass, familiarity breeds contempt, i'm slow to change (creature of habit) and quick to be bored. i am KING BAD!!!
you are NOT... 
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MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld wrote: I did not say you were wrong or right...I just said it was a typical man answer But would you agree that sometimes a simple fuck is better than getting involved in the trials and tribulations of a relationship with feelings that often get hurt and crushed? "You need people like me so you can point your fuckin' fingers and say, "That's the bad guy." "
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EvilWhiteMale said: MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld wrote: I did not say you were wrong or right...I just said it was a typical man answer But would you agree that sometimes a simple fuck is better than getting involved in the trials and tribulations of a relationship with feelings that often get hurt and crushed? Yes I agree it is true to some extent | |
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 "You need people like me so you can point your fuckin' fingers and say, "That's the bad guy." "
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I've held off posting my feeling on this thread for a few days but I'm going to pour my heart out now to those who want to read this. I never was afraid of love before, maybe because I was too young or most likely because I didn't understand what love was.
I do love someone who I am afraid to love. He doesn't love me, he never could. He's everything I want in a partner, well almost everything, but he wouldn't be happy with me. It all happened on accident. How we met, how we exist now. I thought it would be harmless. When I realized it wasn't it was way to late to change anything. I'm scared now, scared of what will become of me, scared I will end up unsatisfied and bitter, or worse I will end up at his feet taking whatever he can give and hating myself for being that way, for holding him back. I've been there before. I've never felt so all encompassed by anything in my life. The emotions I am feeling are way too strong to contain, but he does not accept them, but I am terrified that if he did except them I'd be lost. He could destroy me. Everyday I wait for the final blow. We are connected in such a way that when he pulls away from me from our "relationship" I feel it inside me, I know, even though he is very far away from me. With him time and space do not exist. I could not directly tell him this, he wouldn't believe me. 
It's late. I'm rambling. I hope this made some sense, if not I'm sorry. I think I'll go cry now.  edit[This message was edited Fri Jul 25 23:46:43 PDT 2003 by Sweeny79] In spite of the cost of living, it's still popular. |
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Sweeny, no dude is worth crying for like this. If you know a relationship isn't gonna work out and you're all stressed about it, then maybe it's time to create a little space so you can move on. You gotta be like me and just don't give a fuck about these things. If they happen, they happen. Don't stress. "You need people like me so you can point your fuckin' fingers and say, "That's the bad guy." "
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EvilWhiteMale said: Sweeny, no dude is worth crying for like this. If you know a relationship isn't gonna work out and you're all stressed about it, then maybe it's time to create a little space so you can move on. You gotta be like me and just don't give a fuck about these things. If they happen, they happen. Don't stress.
I hear you but I never felt anything like this, I doubted I ever would. I never felt like I deserved what I am feeling now. I don't want to walk away. I want to have hope that things will work out. In spite of the cost of living, it's still popular. |
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EvilWhiteMale said: Sweeny, no dude is worth crying for like this. If you know a relationship isn't gonna work out and you're all stressed about it, then maybe it's time to create a little space so you can move on. You gotta be like me and just don't give a fuck about these things. If they happen, they happen. Don't stress.
You hush! Let her feel how she feels, until she doesn't feel it anymore, ok? There's a song in my head now that I want to sing to you, EWM, and it goes a lil somethin like this: Let her cryyy, cause she's a laaady Let her dreeeaaammm, cause she's a child Let the rain fall down upon her She's a free and gentle flowerrr growin' wiiild  | |
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AnotherLoverToo said: EvilWhiteMale said: Sweeny, no dude is worth crying for like this. If you know a relationship isn't gonna work out and you're all stressed about it, then maybe it's time to create a little space so you can move on. You gotta be like me and just don't give a fuck about these things. If they happen, they happen. Don't stress.
You hush! Let her feel how she feels, until she doesn't feel it anymore, ok? There's a song in my head now that I want to sing to you, EWM, and it goes a lil somethin like this: Let her cryyy, cause she's a laaady Let her dreeeaaammm, cause she's a child Let the rain fall down upon her She's a free and gentle flowerrr growin' wiiild Thanks anotherlovertoo 
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Sweeny79 wrote: I hear you but I never felt anything like this, I doubted I ever would. I never felt like I deserved what I am feeling now. I don't want to walk away. I want to have hope that things will work out. I know what it's like to really fall for someone and not be able to get a hold of that person, but sometimes things aren't meant to be. Or maybe it's just bad timing. The point is that you have to be realistic about things. Look at it all rationally and really figure out if it's gonna happen. If things look good, then feel it out and go for it. But if not, then you should really try to move on asap, before you hurt yourself worse. "You need people like me so you can point your fuckin' fingers and say, "That's the bad guy." "
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EvilWhiteMale said: Sweeny79 wrote: I hear you but I never felt anything like this, I doubted I ever would. I never felt like I deserved what I am feeling now. I don't want to walk away. I want to have hope that things will work out. I know what it's like to really fall for someone and not be able to get a hold of that person, but sometimes things aren't meant to be. Or maybe it's just bad timing. The point is that you have to be realistic about things. Look at it all rationally and really figure out if it's gonna happen. If things look good, then feel it out and go for it. But if not, then you should really try to move on asap, before you hurt yourself worse. I know that, I know that, I'm emotional but I'm not dumb I need a drink!In spite of the cost of living, it's still popular. |
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Sweeny79 said: AnotherLoverToo said: EvilWhiteMale said: Sweeny, no dude is worth crying for like this. If you know a relationship isn't gonna work out and you're all stressed about it, then maybe it's time to create a little space so you can move on. You gotta be like me and just don't give a fuck about these things. If they happen, they happen. Don't stress.
You hush! Let her feel how she feels, until she doesn't feel it anymore, ok? There's a song in my head now that I want to sing to you, EWM, and it goes a lil somethin like this: Let her cryyy, cause she's a laaady Let her dreeeaaammm, cause she's a child Let the rain fall down upon her She's a free and gentle flowerrr growin' wiiild Thanks anotherlovertoo
I got a feeling you understand All I understand is that it's silly for someone to tell you not to feel something that you feel. You will be just fine, Sweeny.  | |
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AnotherLoverToo said: Sweeny79 said: AnotherLoverToo said: EvilWhiteMale said: Sweeny, no dude is worth crying for like this. If you know a relationship isn't gonna work out and you're all stressed about it, then maybe it's time to create a little space so you can move on. You gotta be like me and just don't give a fuck about these things. If they happen, they happen. Don't stress.
You hush! Let her feel how she feels, until she doesn't feel it anymore, ok? There's a song in my head now that I want to sing to you, EWM, and it goes a lil somethin like this: Let her cryyy, cause she's a laaady Let her dreeeaaammm, cause she's a child Let the rain fall down upon her She's a free and gentle flowerrr growin' wiiild Thanks anotherlovertoo
I got a feeling you understand All I understand is that it's silly for someone to tell you not to feel something that you feel. You will be just fine, Sweeny. I hope your right, thanks again  In spite of the cost of living, it's still popular. |
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AnotherLoverToo wrote: You hush! Let her feel how she feels, until she doesn't feel it anymore, ok?
There's a song in my head now that I want to sing to you, EWM, and it goes a lil somethin like this: Let her cryyy, cause she's a laaady Let her dreeeaaammm, cause she's a child Let the rain fall down upon her She's a free and gentle flowerrr growin' wiiild Listen, I'm not telling her not to feel what she feels. It's good to get things off your chest and let out your emotions. I'm just saying that if the situation is a dead end it's best to turn around before you get stuck in a darker place. "You need people like me so you can point your fuckin' fingers and say, "That's the bad guy." "
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EvilWhiteMale said: AnotherLoverToo wrote: You hush! Let her feel how she feels, until she doesn't feel it anymore, ok?
There's a song in my head now that I want to sing to you, EWM, and it goes a lil somethin like this: Let her cryyy, cause she's a laaady Let her dreeeaaammm, cause she's a child Let the rain fall down upon her She's a free and gentle flowerrr growin' wiiild Listen, I'm not telling her not to feel what she feels. It's good to get things off your chest and let out your emotions. I'm just saying that if the situation is a dead end it's best to turn around before you get stuck in a darker place. I understand what you meant EWM, I was not offended. Thanks for responding to my post. I kinda needed to hear what you had to say. In spite of the cost of living, it's still popular. |
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Sweeny79 wrote: I understand what you meant EWM, I was not offended. Thanks for responding to my post. I kinda needed to hear what you had to say. No problem I've just been where you are myself and I've seen people go through it too. It's a shit-ass feeling, but it'll pass. Just do what's best for yourself and understand that when the time is right, you'll hook up with the right person...though you may have to get out of Jersey. "You need people like me so you can point your fuckin' fingers and say, "That's the bad guy." "
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EvilWhiteMale said: AnotherLoverToo wrote: You hush! Let her feel how she feels, until she doesn't feel it anymore, ok?
There's a song in my head now that I want to sing to you, EWM, and it goes a lil somethin like this: Let her cryyy, cause she's a laaady Let her dreeeaaammm, cause she's a child Let the rain fall down upon her She's a free and gentle flowerrr growin' wiiild Listen, I'm not telling her not to feel what she feels. It's good to get things off your chest and let out your emotions. I'm just saying that if the situation is a dead end it's best to turn around before you get stuck in a darker place.  Darlin', I wasn't really mad atcha. I just wanted to SSSIIINNNGGG
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EvilWhiteMale said: Sweeny79 wrote: I understand what you meant EWM, I was not offended. Thanks for responding to my post. I kinda needed to hear what you had to say. No problem I've just been where you are myself and I've seen people go through it too. It's a shit-ass feeling, but it'll pass. Just do what's best for yourself and understand that when the time is right, you'll hook up with the right person...though you may have to get out of Jersey. It is a shitty feeling, my chest actually hurts now and,thanks it's been about five seconds since I heard a Jersey joke. In spite of the cost of living, it's still popular. |
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AnotherLoverToo wrote: Darlin', I wasn't really mad atcha. I just wanted to SSSIIINNNGGG
"let her cryyy, cause she's a layday..." Sounds like spankin time.  "You need people like me so you can point your fuckin' fingers and say, "That's the bad guy." "
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Sweeny79 wrote: It is a shitty feeling, my chest actually hurts now and,thanks it's been about five seconds since I heard a Jersey joke.
Hey, would you expect any less from me? "You need people like me so you can point your fuckin' fingers and say, "That's the bad guy." "
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EvilWhiteMale said: Sweeny79 wrote: It is a shitty feeling, my chest actually hurts now and,thanks it's been about five seconds since I heard a Jersey joke.
Hey, would you expect any less from me? Of course not! In spite of the cost of living, it's still popular. |
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EvilWhiteMale said: Sometimes it's better just to fuck.
evilmale yeah it's better 2 phuck but after a while phucking can be so empty at times  | |
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True. But sometimes an empty fuck is better than a stressful and hurtful love. "You need people like me so you can point your fuckin' fingers and say, "That's the bad guy." "
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love is scary for a lot of people. when you say i love u to someone you have just open up a door to alot of emotions.please make sure u know for sure of what u r feeling before saying it..because once it is out there u can't take it back. | |
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1niteofpurple67 said: love is scary for a lot of people. when you say i love u to someone you have just open up a door to alot of emotions.please make sure u know for sure of what u r feeling before saying it..because once it is out there u can't take it back.
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I agree, being in love is a frightening thing.. You never know if you are gonna get shit on or messed around with.
But being in love also has its advantages. What feelin is better than being in love.. . Nobody wants to get their heart broken that goes without saying, but what is life without taking a chance on loving someone and feeling those feelings.. I would of course only take that chance of loving if you know the feelings are mutual or if the person is good enough to give your heart too.. I mean if you know the guy/girl is a piece of crap.. then dont' set yourself up to be let down! Even if your heart has been broken once before, that dont mean everyone there after that one person is gonna stomp all over your heart.. I say give it a try! | |
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endorphin74 said: it is harder to love then to hate, MUCH harder
when you hate it doesn't matter what the other person feels, there is no risk but when you love, you take a huge risk, the other person may not feel as much love or may feel nothing and then you are left with some hard feelings to work through that being said, though...it's worth the risk and worth the occasional sorrow...without the lows you can't appreciate the highs :worshiP: THE UNOFFICIAL ORG SEX THERAPIST
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