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Do your flaws make you distant? For example. Let's say I have a "small" problem, if you know what I mean. And I'm afraid of the reactions or implications that this "small" problem will bring with the women I would like to get closer to. So I don't. I distance myself from them so I won't get hurt, or humiliated.
I do believe that if I didn't have that flaw, it would've made it much easier to get more intimate with women I like. Do you think that a person who doesn't think he/she has such flaws, have an easier time getting intimate with others? | |
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It's your fear of rejection, not the 'flaw' that makes you react that way.
True you may not have that fear if you didn't have the 'flaw', but you can also have the flaw without the fear, it's all about how you look at a situation. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
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Heavenly said: For example. Let's say I have a "small" problem, if you know what I mean. And I'm afraid of the reactions or implications that this "small" problem will bring with the women I would like to get closer to. So I don't. I distance myself from them so I won't get hurt, or humiliated.
I do believe that if I didn't have that flaw, it would've made it much easier to get more intimate with women I like. Do you think that a person who doesn't think he/she has such flaws, have an easier time getting intimate with others? Just growl and make mean faces when you whip it out... that should make it okay. SUPERJOINT RITUAL - http://www.superjointritual.com
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IceNine said: Heavenly said: For example. Let's say I have a "small" problem, if you know what I mean. And I'm afraid of the reactions or implications that this "small" problem will bring with the women I would like to get closer to. So I don't. I distance myself from them so I won't get hurt, or humiliated.
I do believe that if I didn't have that flaw, it would've made it much easier to get more intimate with women I like. Do you think that a person who doesn't think he/she has such flaws, have an easier time getting intimate with others? Just growl and make mean faces when you whip it out... that should make it okay. I'm not very big, and very skinny, so if I growl it'd probably look like those tiny puppies that bark at you as if they could do any damadge. lol | |
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Heavenly said: it'd probably look like those tiny puppies that bark at you as if they could do any damadge. lol You'd be surprised. I'm pretty puny but at least on one occasion have left a strong impression with my growl!
For me, I have some attributes I'm very conscious of, and yes, they make me want to distance myself. Life it ain't real funky unless you got that orgPop. | |
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It's all about other people's perspective, no matter how you
choose to look at it yourself. I mean, I have flaws, several and I guess those prohibit me from doing all the things I would like to do, yes. But at the end of the day, I notice that when I run into someone with some of the same "flaws", or other flaws, I don't really mind at all. For a long time I've considered myself to be quite awfull and unattractive so in return I would only hook up with people that looked pretty darn bad. In fact, a lot of times the friends of my partners used to say "what the hell are you doing with ***, you are far to handsome for them". So now I've finally arrived at a point where I consider myself to be quite ok. Nothing really special, but ok. Think about it this way, if it wasn't for other people or some obstacle in getting close to someone else, would you still want to change that "flaw"?? Besides, I've noticed that most people you end up getting close to usually don't mind the "flaws" you worry about but point out other flaws to you that you hadn't considered at all before. So at the end of the day you have to ask yourself if you will let this drive you insane or if you're just gonna look for a way to get through life without too many hassles and with someone you can love and trust without having to worry about your flaws all the time. I've never bitched to anyone about their flaws, altho they have been manyfold. What's the use? If I don't like someone because of their flaws, than why do I hang around them? If it makes me uncomfortable I should say something about it and if it totally stresses me out I should just end the relationship. People that keep bitching about your flaws and yet don't cut you loose usually have some major issues with their own self-esteem and belitteling their partner usually makes them feel more secure about themselves and in a twisted way it makes people think you won't leave them and look for someone better. and true love lives on lollipops and crisps | |
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Heavenly said: For example. Let's say I have a "small" problem, if you know what I mean.
compared to whom?! you know that it's all in what you do with it! so don't sweat it, approach a woman you like with all the confidence you can muster right now, and i bet you things will work out fine. | |
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I know my flaws make me distant, only I lost some of them so I would get more comfy with people. Only nw I want them back
U are a good person no matter what Heavenly, I had the great experience of having u as my guest for one week and I know it to be the truth. And no matter what, I love u Jen | |
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Moderator | Heavenly said: For example. Let's say I have a "small" problem, if you know what I mean. And I'm afraid of the reactions or implications that this "small" problem will bring with the women I would like to get closer to. So I don't. I distance myself from them so I won't get hurt, or humiliated.
I do believe that if I didn't have that flaw, it would've made it much easier to get more intimate with women I like. Do you think that a person who doesn't think he/she has such flaws, have an easier time getting intimate with others? to everything you just said. In spite of the cost of living, it's still popular. |
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flaws...are poetic | |
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Everybody has flaws I find it best to admit to mine...and if people do not like me for who I am flaws and all well I say FUCK EM.
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MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said: Everybody has flaws I find it best to admit to mine...and if people do not like me for who I am flaws and all well I say FUCK EM.
I love me so there is not reason other people can't I've got tons ! Oh shit, my hat done fell off | |
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INSATIABLE said: MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said: Everybody has flaws I find it best to admit to mine...and if people do not like me for who I am flaws and all well I say FUCK EM.
I love me so there is not reason other people can't I've got tons ! HA ME TOO!!! | |
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MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said: Everybody has flaws I find it best to admit to mine...and if people do not like me for who I am flaws and all well I say FUCK EM.
I love me so there is not reason other people can't Very nice. This is my current position on the matter as well. I'm an ugly girl. And people love me anyway. They have good reasons. | |
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Moderator | tackam said: MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said: Everybody has flaws I find it best to admit to mine...and if people do not like me for who I am flaws and all well I say FUCK EM.
I love me so there is not reason other people can't Very nice. This is my current position on the matter as well. I'm an ugly girl. And people love me anyway. They have good reasons. I'm trying to get there,it's a long hard journey though and I've seen the pics you posted your not ugly! Your pretty! In spite of the cost of living, it's still popular. |
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Sweeny79 said: tackam said: MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said: Everybody has flaws I find it best to admit to mine...and if people do not like me for who I am flaws and all well I say FUCK EM.
I love me so there is not reason other people can't Very nice. This is my current position on the matter as well. I'm an ugly girl. And people love me anyway. They have good reasons. I'm trying to get there,it's a long hard journey though and I've seen the pics you posted your not ugly! Your pretty! Feelin' ya on the journey. . .old behaviors are really hard to change. Somebody told me once that I ought to treat myself with the same compassion that I treat other important people in my life, and that idea stuck. But I do forget on occasion. And I respectfully disagree on the ugly issue, but appreciate the compliment nonetheless. | |
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Moderator | tackam said: Sweeny79 said: tackam said: MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said: Everybody has flaws I find it best to admit to mine...and if people do not like me for who I am flaws and all well I say FUCK EM.
I love me so there is not reason other people can't Very nice. This is my current position on the matter as well. I'm an ugly girl. And people love me anyway. They have good reasons. I'm trying to get there,it's a long hard journey though and I've seen the pics you posted your not ugly! Your pretty! Feelin' ya on the journey. . .old behaviors are really hard to change. Somebody told me once that I ought to treat myself with the same compassion that I treat other important people in my life, and that idea stuck. But I do forget on occasion. And I respectfully disagree on the ugly issue, but appreciate the compliment nonetheless. Your welcome (but I'm right ) [This message was edited Sun Jul 13 20:48:23 PDT 2003 by Sweeny79] In spite of the cost of living, it's still popular. |
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tackam said: MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said: Everybody has flaws I find it best to admit to mine...and if people do not like me for who I am flaws and all well I say FUCK EM.
I love me so there is not reason other people can't Very nice. This is my current position on the matter as well. I'm an ugly girl. And people love me anyway. They have good reasons. You are beautiful in your own special and unique way...remember it is not just the outside but inside too... | |
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MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said: tackam said: MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said: Everybody has flaws I find it best to admit to mine...and if people do not like me for who I am flaws and all well I say FUCK EM.
I love me so there is not reason other people can't Very nice. This is my current position on the matter as well. I'm an ugly girl. And people love me anyway. They have good reasons. You are beautiful in your own special and unique way...remember it is not just the outside but inside too... so true | |
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tackam said: MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said: Everybody has flaws I find it best to admit to mine...and if people do not like me for who I am flaws and all well I say FUCK EM.
I love me so there is not reason other people can't Very nice. This is my current position on the matter as well. I'm an ugly girl. And people love me anyway. They have good reasons. sweets, I personally find you stunningly gorgeous... NO LIE Oh shit, my hat done fell off | |
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tackam said: MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said: Everybody has flaws I find it best to admit to mine...and if people do not like me for who I am flaws and all well I say FUCK EM.
I love me so there is not reason other people can't Very nice. This is my current position on the matter as well. I'm an ugly girl. And people love me anyway. They have good reasons. I've seen you post that remark before! Your reality is distorted! You are NOT ugly I have seen your Pics. Whomever or whatever made you to believe that is crap. Fix it! | |
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We all think we have flaws...that's just human nature.
There are things about myself that I don't like...looks, voice...whatever. I know that I'm not the sexiest guy around but I also know that I'm not butt ugly. I wouldn't have girls find me attractive it that were the case. You just have to forget about your little "flaws" and move along with life. | |
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Don't look at me
Every day is so wonderful And suddenly, it's hard to breathe Now and then, I get insecure From all the fame, I'm so ashamed I am beautiful no matter what they say Words can't bring me down I am beautiful in every single way Yes, words can't bring me down So don't you bring me down today To all your friends, you're delirious So consumed in all your doom Trying hard to fill the emptiness The piece is gone and the puzzle undone That's the way it is You are beautiful no matter what they say Words won't bring you down You are beautiful in every single way Yes, words won't bring you down Don't you bring me down today… No matter what we do (no matter what we do) No matter what they say (no matter what they say) When the sun is shining through Then the clouds won't stay And everywhere we go (everywhere we go) The sun won't always shine (sun won't always shine) But tomorrow will find a way All the other times We are beautiful no matter what they say Yes, words won't bring us down We are beautiful no matter what they say Yes, words can't bring us down Don't you bring me down today Don't you bring me down today Don't you bring me down today | |
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althom said: We all think we have flaws...that's just human nature.
There are things about myself that I don't like...looks, voice...whatever. I know that I'm not the sexiest guy around but I also know that I'm not butt ugly. I wouldn't have girls find me attractive it that were the case. You just have to forget about your little "flaws" and move along with life. Where do people get there ideas on "ugly" hollywood? So far the ones who have posted this stuff aren't even what society (bull shit that it is) deems as "ugly"! I have your pics too and your beautiful. | |
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MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said: Don't look at me
Every day is so wonderful And suddenly, it's hard to breathe Now and then, I get insecure From all the fame, I'm so ashamed I am beautiful no matter what they say Words can't bring me down I am beautiful in every single way Yes, words can't bring me down So don't you bring me down today To all your friends, you're delirious So consumed in all your doom Trying hard to fill the emptiness The piece is gone and the puzzle undone That's the way it is You are beautiful no matter what they say Words won't bring you down You are beautiful in every single way Yes, words won't bring you down Don't you bring me down today… No matter what we do (no matter what we do) No matter what they say (no matter what they say) When the sun is shining through Then the clouds won't stay And everywhere we go (everywhere we go) The sun won't always shine (sun won't always shine) But tomorrow will find a way All the other times We are beautiful no matter what they say Yes, words won't bring us down We are beautiful no matter what they say Yes, words can't bring us down Don't you bring me down today Don't you bring me down today Don't you bring me down today I hate that song! | |
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Paisley said: MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said: Don't look at me
Every day is so wonderful And suddenly, it's hard to breathe Now and then, I get insecure From all the fame, I'm so ashamed I am beautiful no matter what they say Words can't bring me down I am beautiful in every single way Yes, words can't bring me down So don't you bring me down today To all your friends, you're delirious So consumed in all your doom Trying hard to fill the emptiness The piece is gone and the puzzle undone That's the way it is You are beautiful no matter what they say Words won't bring you down You are beautiful in every single way Yes, words won't bring you down Don't you bring me down today… No matter what we do (no matter what we do) No matter what they say (no matter what they say) When the sun is shining through Then the clouds won't stay And everywhere we go (everywhere we go) The sun won't always shine (sun won't always shine) But tomorrow will find a way All the other times We are beautiful no matter what they say Yes, words won't bring us down We are beautiful no matter what they say Yes, words can't bring us down Don't you bring me down today Don't you bring me down today Don't you bring me down today I hate that song! TO BAD I IT AND I AM LISTENING TO IT NOW | |
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MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said: Paisley said: MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said: Don't look at me
Every day is so wonderful And suddenly, it's hard to breathe Now and then, I get insecure From all the fame, I'm so ashamed I am beautiful no matter what they say Words can't bring me down I am beautiful in every single way Yes, words can't bring me down So don't you bring me down today To all your friends, you're delirious So consumed in all your doom Trying hard to fill the emptiness The piece is gone and the puzzle undone That's the way it is You are beautiful no matter what they say Words won't bring you down You are beautiful in every single way Yes, words won't bring you down Don't you bring me down today… No matter what we do (no matter what we do) No matter what they say (no matter what they say) When the sun is shining through Then the clouds won't stay And everywhere we go (everywhere we go) The sun won't always shine (sun won't always shine) But tomorrow will find a way All the other times We are beautiful no matter what they say Yes, words won't bring us down We are beautiful no matter what they say Yes, words can't bring us down Don't you bring me down today Don't you bring me down today Don't you bring me down today I hate that song! TO BAD I IT AND I AM LISTENING TO IT NOW Oh shit, my hat done fell off | |
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INSATIABLE said: MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said: Paisley said: MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said: Don't look at me
Every day is so wonderful And suddenly, it's hard to breathe Now and then, I get insecure From all the fame, I'm so ashamed I am beautiful no matter what they say Words can't bring me down I am beautiful in every single way Yes, words can't bring me down So don't you bring me down today To all your friends, you're delirious So consumed in all your doom Trying hard to fill the emptiness The piece is gone and the puzzle undone That's the way it is You are beautiful no matter what they say Words won't bring you down You are beautiful in every single way Yes, words won't bring you down Don't you bring me down today… No matter what we do (no matter what we do) No matter what they say (no matter what they say) When the sun is shining through Then the clouds won't stay And everywhere we go (everywhere we go) The sun won't always shine (sun won't always shine) But tomorrow will find a way All the other times We are beautiful no matter what they say Yes, words won't bring us down We are beautiful no matter what they say Yes, words can't bring us down Don't you bring me down today Don't you bring me down today Don't you bring me down today I hate that song! TO BAD I IT AND I AM LISTENING TO IT NOW why ya always being mean to me? | |
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Paisley said: INSATIABLE said: MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said: Paisley said: MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said: Don't look at me
Every day is so wonderful And suddenly, it's hard to breathe Now and then, I get insecure From all the fame, I'm so ashamed I am beautiful no matter what they say Words can't bring me down I am beautiful in every single way Yes, words can't bring me down So don't you bring me down today To all your friends, you're delirious So consumed in all your doom Trying hard to fill the emptiness The piece is gone and the puzzle undone That's the way it is You are beautiful no matter what they say Words won't bring you down You are beautiful in every single way Yes, words won't bring you down Don't you bring me down today… No matter what we do (no matter what we do) No matter what they say (no matter what they say) When the sun is shining through Then the clouds won't stay And everywhere we go (everywhere we go) The sun won't always shine (sun won't always shine) But tomorrow will find a way All the other times We are beautiful no matter what they say Yes, words won't bring us down We are beautiful no matter what they say Yes, words can't bring us down Don't you bring me down today Don't you bring me down today Don't you bring me down today I hate that song! TO BAD I IT AND I AM LISTENING TO IT NOW why ya always being mean to me? dudette, check the quotes! I'm puking at the garbage song! [This message was edited Sun Jul 13 21:52:47 PDT 2003 by INSATIABLE] Oh shit, my hat done fell off | |
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ok granted Christina sings it, but I love the lyrics to it...it makes me feel better sometimes. | |
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