Ok guys remember my post last week about "getting over someone?" well my cell phone rang about 15 minutes ago and I didn't recognize the number so I didn't answer it, but I was curious. So I called the number back and the voice mail came on and the guy who's number it was is Gary, who is friends with my ex! Gary is also married and I've only met him once --i've nevr given him my number and there's never been a reason for him to call me before. I'm thinking maybe it was my ex was hanging out with gary and calling me from gary's cell??? What the fuck? I just need to know for my own peice of mind. Why is he doing this to me and why can't he call from his own cell? Now maybe you understand why I can't move on...urgh!
[This message was edited Sun Jul 13 17:32:28 PDT 2003 by purplegypsy]

purplegypsy said:

Try to stop obsessing and get on with your own thang, otherwise you'll drive yourself crazy. Stuff like this is what makes women act stupid--we have better things to do.
[This message was edited Sun Jul 13 18:16:04 PDT 2003 by AnotherLoverToo]

A lot of times a guy will try to get back with his ex, when he isn't getting any at the moment. He starts thinking, "ya know, she wasn't so bad", and then calls her just to keep her dangling on the line, so that on the days when he doesn't score, he can always get some from you. Not that he is doing this on purpose, sometimes it is subconsciously. Either that, or his friend is trying to get a thing going on with you on the sly. Just let him go. Women are so needy and ready to forgive, just so they are not alone. Be strong. Don't take any crap, and demand respect! You can do better than him. You have already been there, done that!!! Build up your self-esteem. Don't be like one of those women on jerry springer "But Jerry... I love him!" If he does call you, just cut it short, and say you have a date. If you are not strong enough, don't pick up the phone! Stay strong!

everything they just said. Get as far away as you can from that fucker. He is not worth it.

purplegypsy said:

sounds like my moms friends ex-husband. This guy is such a dick he'll slash his own tires and say it was her which is a bunch of bullshit.