EvilWhiteMale said:

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i wasn't aware i was insulting ya bro

i was just responding to the slack attitude

of this thread

u could say i am loving you, cos i am trying to

make ya see a better way

it's not that i am hating you but rather the lifestyle

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cheap thrills are just that

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youngsoulrbel wrote:

i wasn't aware i was insulting ya bro

i was just responding to the slack attitude

of this thread

u could say i am loving you, cos i am trying to

make ya see a better way

it's not that i am hating you but rather the lifestyle

..

cheap thrills are just that


Of course, but I'm just talking about a few occasions. It's not like I just throw my dick out there to the world. But you must understand that if a hot girl works her way down there (even on the first time) it's very hard to resist.

EvilWhiteMale said:

But you don't "respect" her if she does it the first time, do you?

Not unless we've known each other for a while.

MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said:

How do you go from saying that to "where's althom"

althom said:

EvilWhiteMale said:

Do you see how hypocritical you are sometimes? We've had this discussion before...the way you differentiate between the "good" girls and the "bad" girls, how you look down on strippers and (female) porn stars, yet you want to fuck them and you don't seem to have trouble still respecting yourself.

MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said:

AnotherloverToo wrote:

Do you see how hypocritical you are sometimes? We've had this discussion before...the way you differentiate between the "good" girls and the "bad" girls, how you look down on strippers and (female) porn stars, yet you want to fuck them and you don't seem to have trouble still respecting yourself.


There's nothing hypocritical about it. There are always those you wanna marry and those who you just wanna bang. Girls do the same thing. They wanna marry the stable and respectable guy, but they wanna have the sexual flings with the "bad boys". There's no differnce.

EvilWhiteMale said:

I strongly disagree. But quite honestly, I'm too tired to go into it and I also know that your mind seems to never be open to anything different.

What am I wrong about?

depends on how fine he is

He has to smell good down there. be very clean. and shaved. Im not a fan of hair. (im shaved all the way )

but i would not go down on the first date. And I would only do it after we have atleast had sex once.


gee am i too picky?


but only if your clean!!

The thing is this, if you wanna have sex with someone the first time you meet them or the millionth time, if you wanna have sex with this person you will, having some rule on its ok to kiss on date 1 and on date 2 we can do this, and on date 3. who cares go with what you feel is right, if thats no sex then ok " no sex" if its naughty time then hell go 4 it, isnt it all about how you feel ?

MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said:

Never ever?

I both 'suck it' and appreciate a 'lickity lick' (rotflmao), but there is no set lenghth of time I have in mind before engaging in either activity. Whenever I feel close enough to somebody to want to be sexually intimate with them. Could be hours, or months, or never.

Would you let her do it?

Evil,honey. I know this is only our first date but if you want i can go down...

at the above two posts.

Well in the past there were times i didn't even date a guy.. It just happened.. (OK I am not proud of things i did when i was younger)...

BUT anyway.. If i am dating him then i wouldn't be able to put a time frame on it.. I guess when it just felt right!

EvilWhiteMale said:

Nothing,some women just have a hard time handling what men are really like and get pissed off when you tell them the truth.

tackam said:

that's what I'm saying.

Sweeny79 said:

If you're referring to my posts here, that's not at all what the situation is. EWM and I have a history of trading opinions on several topics re: sexuality of men and women. I have no problem with being given his or other guys' opinions or "truth", but I point out double standards and hypocrisy, too.

I don't see my comments as being hypocritical or double standards. It's how the majority of people think, and there's nothing wrong with it. Does it make me an asshole if I would fuck a porn star but not wanna marry her? That's silly.

Sweeny79 wrote:

Nothing,some women just have a hard time handling what men are really like and get pissed off when you tell them the truth.

True, but women think the same way too.

EvilWhiteMale said:

Practically everything.

I personally have no problem giving a guy a hummer on the first date. I gave my ex one and we ended up being together for six years. Folks have too many hangups about sex. Some chicks like sex as much as much as some guys do but get wrapped up in what "society" thinks. There are a bunch of folks I wanna bone that I wouldn't want to marry either.

EvilWhiteMale said:

Again, I'm not going to get into this with you because I have to go to work and it's just not worth it. (BTW, to those who don't realize it, I'm not talking about sucking guys off, the original question, I'm addressing what I have observed are EWM's double standards about what's ok sexually for men to do and be vs.women) We've reviewed this topic and several others in the past--hell, we've been talking for over a year now, EWM, can you even believe it?

No harm meant, and maybe we can discuss this later. Although as stubborn as we both are, I have a feeling that nothing much will get through!

Well, I would definitely like to continue this debate. I'll catch you at a better time.


You know I'm right though.

EvilWhiteMale said:

Some women do, but most do not. Women want love more than sex. And also to be fair, I should tell you this, if a girl is going down on you on the first date she is either a whore or is desperate for you to like her and she thinks that, that is the only way to get your attention. I realize there may be the rare circumstance when something happens on the first date and the women is not a whore or deperate, but those circumstances are not commonplace in anyone's life. I don't mean to generalize, I know women who look at sex as just fun too, but most of us just don't think that way.

That's fine. I was just debating the whole "hypocracy" thing which I don't agree with.