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From my own experience, give her time and just let her do what she wants 2 do. Sure, U may miss her if she's apart from U but U will appreciate it in the long run. Let her do her thing, the heart goes fonder when Ur apart. Ive never done this and Ive repeatedly fucked up. I fuck up a lot even though Im not a bad person. What Ive just told U is probably what I feel is the right thing 2 do, I dunno. But this is what Im going 2 do next time around. Dont worry, U'll both be fine Im sure. | |
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Paisley said: Listen to your
the never lies, there you will find the true answer. -------------------------------------------------
MENACE TO SOBRIETY  | |
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pejman said: Paisley said: Listen to your
the never lies, there you will find the true answer.It's knowledge sweetie, plain and simple knowledge.  | |
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this girl is no good for you and is going to cause you a lot of misery. I have wasted actual years of my life on situations like this - and I wish I could have that time back.
there's a girl out there who's going to treat you right - she's probably much closer than you think. drop this current one, relax a while and let a good thing come to you - it always does. | |
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milty said: here's the problem: my girlfriend and i almost broke up recently and we have decided to keep the relationship going. she has decided to reclaim, she says, her life and take care of herself while we still go out.
at the moment i feel kind of left out of her life as she is treating me very business like, if you know what i mean. she's tough as nails sometimes. everything seems to be on her terms lately and it feels like i have no say nor can i change her mind on anything. when we decided to keep the relationship going i told her that i wanted to do whatever i could to keep it going. she's in counselling and i told her that if she wants me too, i would go with her. i told her maybe we shouldn't see each other every single damn day. some space is good i told her. but when i want to see her she refuses to come over to mine. if there are any love doctors out there, what do i do? Milty...i love the little kitty in your avatar. As for your problem, i can't help ya man...my girl has me pussy whipped.  "Waiting to be banned" | |
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JDINTERACTIVE said: From my own experience, give her time and just let her do what she wants 2 do. Sure, U may miss her if she's apart from U but U will appreciate it in the long run. Let her do her thing, the heart goes fonder when Ur apart. Ive never done this and Ive repeatedly fucked up. I fuck up a lot even though Im not a bad person. What Ive just told U is probably what I feel is the right thing 2 do, I dunno. But this is what Im going 2 do next time around. Dont worry, U'll both be fine Im sure.
whew, I'm glad I'm not the only nutcase romantic around here who said to wait it out a bit 
I'm trusting milty will make the right choice though, regardless of our crazy advice... | |
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endorphin74 said: JDINTERACTIVE said: From my own experience, give her time and just let her do what she wants 2 do. Sure, U may miss her if she's apart from U but U will appreciate it in the long run. Let her do her thing, the heart goes fonder when Ur apart. Ive never done this and Ive repeatedly fucked up. I fuck up a lot even though Im not a bad person. What Ive just told U is probably what I feel is the right thing 2 do, I dunno. But this is what Im going 2 do next time around. Dont worry, U'll both be fine Im sure.
whew, I'm glad I'm not the only nutcase romantic around here who said to wait it out a bit
I'm trusting milty will make the right choice though, regardless of our crazy advice... I know. I just think its best. 4give me if Im wrong.  | |
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I agree with JD - back off and give her the space she needs. It may not be what you want, but it is the best choice. I mean, like, where is the sun? | |
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Natsume said: I agree with JD - back off and give her the space she needs. It may not be what you want, but it is the best choice.
girls are such pains in the ass sometimes btw hi pan   | |
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Christopher said: Natsume said: I agree with JD - back off and give her the space she needs. It may not be what you want, but it is the best choice.
girls are such pains in the ass sometimes btw hi pan Christopher will U go out with me?
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JDINTERACTIVE said: Christopher said: Natsume said: I agree with JD - back off and give her the space she needs. It may not be what you want, but it is the best choice.
girls are such pains in the ass sometimes btw hi pan Christopher will U go out with me?
umm yeh sure... where we going? | |
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Christopher said: JDINTERACTIVE said: Christopher said: Natsume said: I agree with JD - back off and give her the space she needs. It may not be what you want, but it is the best choice.
girls are such pains in the ass sometimes btw hi pan Christopher will U go out with me?
umm yeh sure... where we going? 
U just sooo dont get it do U! 
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JDINTERACTIVE said: Christopher said: JDINTERACTIVE said: Christopher said: Natsume said: I agree with JD - back off and give her the space she needs. It may not be what you want, but it is the best choice.
girls are such pains in the ass sometimes btw hi pan Christopher will U go out with me?
umm yeh sure... where we going?
U just sooo dont get it do U!
Heartbreaker i like so got it
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Christopher said: Natsume said: I agree with JD - back off and give her the space she needs. It may not be what you want, but it is the best choice.
girls are such pains in the ass sometimes btw hi pan 
asshat! I mean, like, where is the sun? | |
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Natsume said: Christopher said: Natsume said: I agree with JD - back off and give her the space she needs. It may not be what you want, but it is the best choice.
girls are such pains in the ass sometimes btw hi pan
asshat! ommggg you are buggin son!, how is "CHOKERVILLE" aka FREMONT? | |
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Christopher said: Natsume said: Christopher said: Natsume said: I agree with JD - back off and give her the space she needs. It may not be what you want, but it is the best choice.
girls are such pains in the ass sometimes btw hi pan
asshat! ommggg you are buggin son!, how is "CHOKERVILLE" aka FREMONT? THE BEST, and you know it! I can tell you are jealous And today, whilst shopping in the mall, I heard Beyonce 4 times (  ) as well as some 702
 I mean, like, where is the sun? | |
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Natsume said: Christopher said: Natsume said: Christopher said: Natsume said: I agree with JD - back off and give her the space she needs. It may not be what you want, but it is the best choice.
girls are such pains in the ass sometimes btw hi pan
asshat! ommggg you are buggin son!, how is "CHOKERVILLE" aka FREMONT? THE BEST, and you know it! I can tell you are jealous And today, whilst shopping in the mall, I heard Beyonce 4 times ( ) as well as some 702
did you get the urge to dance like she doess in the video?(btw fuck is that about) 702 lol i hope it was steelo or get it together... | |
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Christopher said: Natsume said: And today, whilst shopping in the mall, I heard Beyonce 4 times (
) as well as some 702
did you get the urge to dance like she doess in the video?(btw fuck is that about) 702 lol i hope it was steelo or get it together... What, with a fur coat, a thong, and stilettos? DUH!! 
And it was "Where my girls at" EHEHEHE I mean, like, where is the sun? | |
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Natsume said: Christopher said: Natsume said: And today, whilst shopping in the mall, I heard Beyonce 4 times (
) as well as some 702
did you get the urge to dance like she doess in the video?(btw fuck is that about) 702 lol i hope it was steelo or get it together... What, with a fur coat, a thong, and stilettos? DUH!!
And it was "Where my girls at" EHEHEHE i like when im at the grocery store or the mall and like... snoop or some rap comes on esp in a snooty area lol its hilarious!... | |
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Christopher said: i like when im at the grocery store or the mall and like... snoop or some rap comes on esp in a snooty area lol its hilarious!...
:snooty: but :TJMAXXX: okay I am sooo going to bed. Goodnight chops!! I mean, like, where is the sun? | |
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Natsume said: Christopher said: i like when im at the grocery store or the mall and like... snoop or some rap comes on esp in a snooty area lol its hilarious!...
:snooty: but :TJMAXXX: okay I am sooo going to bed. Goodnight chops!! you BASTID! tjmaxxx is pure evil !!! im going there today to fight over an old ass tommy hilfiger shirt and a pair of young ass nautica shorts! | |
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well, she pissed me off now. i told her i wanted to see her and she gave me some blah blah story about how busy work is and she didn't want to be stressed out. maybe i pushed her a bit. i told her that her job was getting in the way of her most important relationships, me and her family (btw, she works for her dad as well). i told her that if she wants to see me she knows where i am and that i'm tired of walking around on egg shells with her.
i haven't heard from her since. | |
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milty said: well, she pissed me off now. i told her i wanted to see her and she gave me some blah blah story about how busy work is and she didn't want to be stressed out. maybe i pushed her a bit. i told her that her job was getting in the way of her most important relationships, me and her family (btw, she works for her dad as well). i told her that if she wants to see me she knows where i am and that i'm tired of walking around on egg shells with her.
i haven't heard from her since. I am serious when I say that you should drop her like Charles Nelson Riley's pants at a gay mixer... FAST! SUPERJOINT RITUAL - http://www.superjointritual.com
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liberation said: milty said: here's the problem: my girlfriend and i almost broke up recently and we have decided to keep the relationship going. she has decided to reclaim, she says, her life and take care of herself while we still go out.
at the moment i feel kind of left out of her life as she is treating me very business like, if you know what i mean. she's tough as nails sometimes. everything seems to be on her terms lately and it feels like i have no say nor can i change her mind on anything. when we decided to keep the relationship going i told her that i wanted to do whatever i could to keep it going. she's in counselling and i told her that if she wants me too, i would go with her. i told her maybe we shouldn't see each other every single damn day. some space is good i told her. but when i want to see her she refuses to come over to mine. if there are any love doctors out there, what do i do? Milty...i love the little kitty in your avatar. As for your problem, i can't help ya man...my girl has me pussy whipped. ahhh 
my too fav words from a man pussy whipped 
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dude you need to seriously check your self
if she is treating you like that now... FUCKIN RUN... RUN VERY FAST.. your gonna have welcome written all over your body | |
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milty said: well, she pissed me off now. i told her i wanted to see her and she gave me some blah blah story about how busy work is and she didn't want to be stressed out. maybe i pushed her a bit. i told her that her job was getting in the way of her most important relationships, me and her family (btw, she works for her dad as well). i told her that if she wants to see me she knows where i am and that i'm tired of walking around on egg shells with her.
i haven't heard from her since. How long ago was that? | |
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IceNine said: milty said: well, she pissed me off now. i told her i wanted to see her and she gave me some blah blah story about how busy work is and she didn't want to be stressed out. maybe i pushed her a bit. i told her that her job was getting in the way of her most important relationships, me and her family (btw, she works for her dad as well). i told her that if she wants to see me she knows where i am and that i'm tired of walking around on egg shells with her.
i haven't heard from her since. I am serious when I say that you should drop her like Charles Nelson Riley's pants at a gay mixer... FAST! If she cannot tell you the truth or tell you how she is really feeling, then drop her. You dont need someone to keep you hanging like that and feeling shit about it. Either talk to her OR resign yourself to the fact that you are better off without her. [This message was edited Sat Jul 5 8:15:00 PDT 2003 by REDFEATHERS] | |
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milty said: here's the problem: my girlfriend and i almost broke up recently and we have decided to keep the relationship going. she has decided to reclaim, she says, her life and take care of herself while we still go out.
at the moment i feel kind of left out of her life as she is treating me very business like, if you know what i mean. she's tough as nails sometimes. everything seems to be on her terms lately and it feels like i have no say nor can i change her mind on anything. when we decided to keep the relationship going i told her that i wanted to do whatever i could to keep it going. she's in counselling and i told her that if she wants me too, i would go with her. i told her maybe we shouldn't see each other every single damn day. some space is good i told her. but when i want to see her she refuses to come over to mine. if there are any love doctors out there, what do i do? For a relationship to last, a couple must go through great travails and hardships. It is like a process of forging steel links together. The iron must be heated to a high degree and then plunged into cold water. A relationship alternates between the heat of passion and love and the chilling times of tragedy, conflict and adversity. An enduring relationship becomes like tempred steel. For a relationship to work, there must be a basic compatibility of values, outlook and purpose. Ultimately, all relationships are temporary. False attachment to another can become an addiction, a voluntary bondage derimental to clear perception. We should not bind another to ourselves, should not define ourselves by marriage, should not force another to stay with us. BUT IF BY CHANCE ALLOWS US TO WALK TOGETHER, WHO IS ANYONE TO CHALLENGE OUR CHOICE OF WALKING COMPANIONS? BUT WHEN IT IS TIME TO PART, THEN IT IS TIME TO PART. THERE SHOULD BE NO REGRETS. You need to evaluate this on your own Milty and make a choice, I don't beleive that any orgers have a specific answer for you, only guidance. Take a hard look at your situation. Hope this helps a little.  | |
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Voog said: For a relationship to last, a couple must go through great travails and hardships. It is like a process of forging steel links together. The iron must be heated to a high degree and then plunged into cold water. A relationship alternates between the heat of passion and love and the chilling times of tragedy, conflict and adversity. An enduring relationship becomes like tempred steel.
For a relationship to work, there must be a basic compatibility of values, outlook and purpose. Ultimately, all relationships are temporary. False attachment to another can become an addiction, a voluntary bondage derimental to clear perception. We should not bind another to ourselves, should not define ourselves by marriage, should not force another to stay with us. BUT IF BY CHANCE ALLOWS US TO WALK TOGETHER, WHO IS ANYONE TO CHALLENGE OUR CHOICE OF WALKING COMPANIONS? BUT WHEN IT IS TIME TO PART, THEN IT IS TIME TO PART. THERE SHOULD BE NO REGRETS. You need to evaluate this on your own Milty and make a choice, I don't beleive that any orgers have a specific answer for you, only guidance. Take a hard look at your situation. Hope this helps a little. thanks for the good words Voog. today is a bad day again but it looks like its going to be OK tonight. i wonder what tomorrow is going to be like. funny that your from Canada. she's going to Canada for three weeks on Monday for work. | |
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