Don't let him pressure you, if he cares for you he will wait.

Lleena said:

Exactamundo!!! If a girl that I cared for said she's not ready for sex I never try to push her towards changing her mind. I would want both of us to be comfortable and truely enjoy it!!! If you know how to control your sexual desires, then you'll know when it's time!

Sweeny79 said:

Pehaps even more so Sweeny!

pejman said:

BTW for the sake of this topic...please ignore my signature..

pejman said:

I like the sig!!!
i hear ya Pej, I think he will wait if he can

Sweeny79 said:[quote]pejman said:[quote]

pejman said:

BTW for the sake of this topic...please ignore my signature..

I like the sig!!!
i hear ya Pej, I think he will wait if he can



thanks, Good Luck!!!

pejman said:

chemistry is HUGE... ur absolutely right!!

Sweeny79 said:

Ok! Here's some advice from a guy.
If that's the way he treats you by saying that you have to go that next step and there's no other way...then he's not right for you. In fact he's a arsehole!
Sex should not be used, in any way, as a form of blackmail. If he has to use that kind of bullshit to show his love for you, then he's just using you I'm afraid.
Sex comes in many different forms, from the one night stands right through to the relationship that you are hoping to have. I'm not saying what you have to do...I think you probably already know.
You seem like a very lovely girl who deserves better from a partner.

althom said:

Oh Althom come here you big sweet metal man

Sweeny79 said:

So if someone RAMS u GOOD ..they LOVE u ??

But what if they RAM everyone GOOD ?

origmnd said:

then they love everybody

pejman said:

REDFEATHERS said:

Sweeny79 said:

Sweeny79 said:

If he is TELLING YOU IT IS THE ONLY WAY...DUMP HIS ASS...FOR BEING SO FUCKING SHALLOW...HE'S ON A QUEST...AND IT AIN'T FOR LOVE!

Sweeny79 said:

Different strokes 4 different folks. Some would say yes, some would say no. But check this out. U all know that my oppions on sex are strong and many, but honestly, I hardly ever assosiate the 2. Sex is making babies, and if U want to abuse it(like many people abuse things ie Alcohol and drugs) it can also be made simply for fun. Makin babies and fun, nothing else although it's nice to have fun with someonme U love.

Do U want to know what I think is the best way to prove your love for someone? Build a relationship to the point where U both trust eachother beyond measure, and then say 'I love U.' Simple huh?

CAMILLE4U said:

Why don't you think sex is a manifestation of love?







[This message was edited Wed Jul 2 9:14:41 PDT 2003 by Sweeny79]

DigitalLisa said:

well said little girl.

Sweeny79 said:

Good question.

I quess I think that some people have sex in ways that others don't like and that shouldn't get in the way of a mariage. Lets say the women likes it fast, frantic and noisy yet the man likes it smooth and slow (bump and grind). There not compaterble sexually, but if they love eachother why should it keep them apart?

CAMILLE4U said:

well as in all things, there has to be a compromise.
they would have to take turns pleaseing the other.
But, let me get this straight,that the husband and wife in your senerio,should be aloud to fuck other people?

Sweeny79 said:

No way. OK, lets put it another way. Say the man gets a desease which makes him impotent (that happened 2 a friend of a friend) so they can't have sex at all. Does that mean they should seperate? I like sex, I just don't think it's part of love. I view that same as I would buying my girlfriend an ice cream!

Paisley said:

co-sign

CAMILLE4U said:

Your CRAZY! Icecream is way more important than sex!



[This message was edited Wed Jul 2 10:53:11 PDT 2003 by Sweeny79]

Balieys V blow job = ICE CREAM
Chocolate V anal = SEX