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U Sexless Piece of Shit! Ever meet someone that just is not on your page sexually..and it frustrated the hell out of you to no end?! I know a woman that doesn't have sex in the mornings, doesn't like quickies, is not spontaneous, and only can do it when the "right" time presents itself! I don't know about you folks, but me!...there is no set time to have or have not!! If the situation allows us to have a quickie, then by all means, let me nudge those panties out of the way, if we are all alone and wake up butt ass naked together with nothing to do this morning...let's get down (uh don't forget the courtesy of brushing your damn teeth..ahem). Do you mean to tell me that if I see you four times in the past ten days...and just because the time or situation wasn't right according to your book of "The right time to have Sex" is in place...we are not going to do this!?!
Well...what I am getting at is this...how many of you put up with this sexless mentality or state of mind? The man who does not read good books has no advantage over the man who cannot read them. -- Mark Twain.
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DexMSR said: Ever meet someone that just is not on your page sexually..and it frustrated the hell out of you to no end?! I know a woman that doesn't have sex in the mornings, doesn't like quickies, is not spontaneous, and only can do it when the "right" time presents itself! I don't know about you folks, but me!...there is no set time to have or have not!! If the situation allows us to have a quickie, then by all means, let me nudge those panties out of the way, if we are all alone and wake up butt ass naked together with nothing to do this morning...let's get down (uh don't forget the courtesy of brushing your damn teeth..ahem). Do you mean to tell me that if I see you four times in the past ten days...and just because the time or situation wasn't right according to your book of "The right time to have Sex" is in place...we are not going to do this!?!
Well...what I am getting at is this...how many of you put up with this sexless mentality or state of mind? Could be that she was brought up to be ashamed of her body or sex or views it as "dirty", etc. Try to make sex fun for her, more comfortable. One thing I should also say, though, is not to push her too hard to conform to your standards of what is the "normal" place and time for it, or amount of sex. The more you make her feel weird, the less she'll put out and the more inhibited she'll probably be. To answer your question: I'd put up with it for awhile, if I thought it had potential to get better or if there were lots of other things in the relationship that made up for it. [This message was edited Thu Jun 12 21:04:40 PDT 2003 by AnotherLoverToo] | |
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We're all different. Oh shit, my hat done fell off | |
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INSATIABLE said: We're all different.
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althom said: INSATIABLE said: We're all different.
what? Oh shit, my hat done fell off | |
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INSATIABLE said: althom said: INSATIABLE said: We're all different.
what? Just laughing at your comment. | |
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DexMSR said: Ever meet someone that just is not on your page sexually..and it frustrated the hell out of you to no end?! I know a woman that doesn't have sex in the mornings, doesn't like quickies, is not spontaneous, and only can do it when the "right" time presents itself! I don't know about you folks, but me!...there is no set time to have or have not!! If the situation allows us to have a quickie, then by all means, let me nudge those panties out of the way, if we are all alone and wake up butt ass naked together with nothing to do this morning...let's get down (uh don't forget the courtesy of brushing your damn teeth..ahem). Do you mean to tell me that if I see you four times in the past ten days...and just because the time or situation wasn't right according to your book of "The right time to have Sex" is in place...we are not going to do this!?!
Well...what I am getting at is this...how many of you put up with this sexless mentality or state of mind? Actually, I'm hearing you on this one Dex mate. Kinda similar situation... one time years ago I was going out with a woman who just seemed to be utterly unsexual. Meaning, she never expressed any kind of desire, or interest in sexual relations... she expected me to do all the work, to initiate things, and she'd lie there like a sack of potatoes the whole time. We were both attracted to each other, but she just had a really difficult time expressing herself sexually, and showing her desires. It was pretty frustrating... I think she had basically intellectualized sex so much, and was nervous about it, so it killed any passion for lovemaking... anyway it was weird, and kinda frustrating. What can ya do... mad isn't it? Anyway that was ages ago, I'm married (to someone else) now, so naturally sex is less important nowadays compared to, say, a nice cup of tea. Mm! | |
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DexMSR said: Ever meet someone that just is not on your page sexually..and it frustrated the hell out of you to no end?! I know a woman that doesn't have sex in the mornings, doesn't like quickies, is not spontaneous, and only can do it when the "right" time presents itself! I don't know about you folks, but me!...there is no set time to have or have not!! If the situation allows us to have a quickie, then by all means, let me nudge those panties out of the way, if we are all alone and wake up butt ass naked together with nothing to do this morning...let's get down (uh don't forget the courtesy of brushing your damn teeth..ahem). Do you mean to tell me that if I see you four times in the past ten days...and just because the time or situation wasn't right according to your book of "The right time to have Sex" is in place...we are not going to do this!?!
Well...what I am getting at is this...how many of you put up with this sexless mentality or state of mind? Fuck that bitch!!! 
Oh, wait... you have to do it on her terms... 
Has she been talkin' to my wife???  |
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moderatorAhhh a thread dedicated especially for my boyfriend
 
Much love  Pochacco | |
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wow...are you guys a bunch of frustrated Orgers needing some freak, wild sex...  | |
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I guess you beter start looking for some1 more compatible to your wishes Dex. | |
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Pochacco said: Ahhh a thread dedicated especially for my boyfriend
Much love PochaccoMINE TOO! In spite of the cost of living, it's still popular. |
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billyjackbitch said: I guess you beter start looking for some1 more compatible to your wishes Dex.
I don't have the energy to look anymore...I just let it happen in regards to women these days...not even pressed! Whap! The man who does not read good books has no advantage over the man who cannot read them. -- Mark Twain.
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DexMSR said: Ever meet someone that just is not on your page sexually..and it frustrated the hell out of you to no end?! I know a woman that doesn't have sex in the mornings, doesn't like quickies, is not spontaneous, and only can do it when the "right" time presents itself! I don't know about you folks, but me!...there is no set time to have or have not!! If the situation allows us to have a quickie, then by all means, let me nudge those panties out of the way, if we are all alone and wake up butt ass naked together with nothing to do this morning...let's get down (uh don't forget the courtesy of brushing your damn teeth..ahem). Do you mean to tell me that if I see you four times in the past ten days...and just because the time or situation wasn't right according to your book of "The right time to have Sex" is in place...we are not going to do this!?!
Well...what I am getting at is this...how many of you put up with this sexless mentality or state of mind?  Are you talking about me?? I used to be just like that, but several years ago I met a guy who put sex in a whole new realm for me. He made it totally mental/emotional for me and I could no longer apply my rules, preconceptions, logic, and fears to it. It was a classic case of free your mond and your a * * will follow! | |
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ian said: DexMSR said: Ever meet someone that just is not on your page sexually..and it frustrated the hell out of you to no end?! I know a woman that doesn't have sex in the mornings, doesn't like quickies, is not spontaneous, and only can do it when the "right" time presents itself! I don't know about you folks, but me!...there is no set time to have or have not!! If the situation allows us to have a quickie, then by all means, let me nudge those panties out of the way, if we are all alone and wake up butt ass naked together with nothing to do this morning...let's get down (uh don't forget the courtesy of brushing your damn teeth..ahem). Do you mean to tell me that if I see you four times in the past ten days...and just because the time or situation wasn't right according to your book of "The right time to have Sex" is in place...we are not going to do this!?!
Well...what I am getting at is this...how many of you put up with this sexless mentality or state of mind? Actually, I'm hearing you on this one Dex mate. Kinda similar situation... one time years ago I was going out with a woman who just seemed to be utterly unsexual. Meaning, she never expressed any kind of desire, or interest in sexual relations... she expected me to do all the work, to initiate things, and she'd lie there like a sack of potatoes the whole time. We were both attracted to each other, but she just had a really difficult time expressing herself sexually, and showing her desires. It was pretty frustrating... I think she had basically intellectualized sex so much, and was nervous about it, so it killed any passion for lovemaking... anyway it was weird, and kinda frustrating. What can ya do... mad isn't it? Anyway that was ages ago, I'm married (to someone else) now, so naturally sex is less important nowadays compared to, say, a nice cup of tea. Mm! Well, yes, if someone has almost zero sex drive and doesn't participate when having it, then I can understand the frustration. But Dex has admitted that he's a sex addict and that his drive is higher than most men, lol, so I don't know that what he considers "normal" actually is  . And from his post, it seemed like she has sex with him, but just doesn't like quicky or morning sex.
The bigger question maybe is: how important is sexual compatibility in a relationship? I would say extremely!  | |
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MBlaineEverywhere said: Are you talking about me?? I used to be just like that, but several years ago I met a guy who put sex in a whole new realm for me. He made it totally mental/emotional for me and I could no longer apply my rules, preconceptions, logic, and fears to it. It was a classic case of free your mond and your a * * will follow!That's very cool, MBlaine! | |
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AnotherLoverToo said: ian said: DexMSR said: Ever meet someone that just is not on your page sexually..and it frustrated the hell out of you to no end?! I know a woman that doesn't have sex in the mornings, doesn't like quickies, is not spontaneous, and only can do it when the "right" time presents itself! I don't know about you folks, but me!...there is no set time to have or have not!! If the situation allows us to have a quickie, then by all means, let me nudge those panties out of the way, if we are all alone and wake up butt ass naked together with nothing to do this morning...let's get down (uh don't forget the courtesy of brushing your damn teeth..ahem). Do you mean to tell me that if I see you four times in the past ten days...and just because the time or situation wasn't right according to your book of "The right time to have Sex" is in place...we are not going to do this!?!
Well...what I am getting at is this...how many of you put up with this sexless mentality or state of mind? Actually, I'm hearing you on this one Dex mate. Kinda similar situation... one time years ago I was going out with a woman who just seemed to be utterly unsexual. Meaning, she never expressed any kind of desire, or interest in sexual relations... she expected me to do all the work, to initiate things, and she'd lie there like a sack of potatoes the whole time. We were both attracted to each other, but she just had a really difficult time expressing herself sexually, and showing her desires. It was pretty frustrating... I think she had basically intellectualized sex so much, and was nervous about it, so it killed any passion for lovemaking... anyway it was weird, and kinda frustrating. What can ya do... mad isn't it? Anyway that was ages ago, I'm married (to someone else) now, so naturally sex is less important nowadays compared to, say, a nice cup of tea. Mm! Well, yes, if someone has almost zero sex drive and doesn't participate when having it, then I can understand the frustration. But Dex has admitted that he's a sex addict and that his drive is higher than most men, lol, so I don't know that what he considers "normal" actually is . And from his post, it seemed like she has sex with him, but just doesn't like quicky or morning sex.
The bigger question maybe is: how important is sexual compatibility in a relationship? I would say extremely! Whap whap The man who does not read good books has no advantage over the man who cannot read them. -- Mark Twain.
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DexMSR said: Ever meet someone that just is not on your page sexually..and it frustrated the hell out of you to no end?! I know a woman that doesn't have sex in the mornings, doesn't like quickies, is not spontaneous, and only can do it when the "right" time presents itself! I don't know about you folks, but me!...there is no set time to have or have not!! If the situation allows us to have a quickie, then by all means, let me nudge those panties out of the way, if we are all alone and wake up butt ass naked together with nothing to do this morning...let's get down (uh don't forget the courtesy of brushing your damn teeth..ahem). Do you mean to tell me that if I see you four times in the past ten days...and just because the time or situation wasn't right according to your book of "The right time to have Sex" is in place...we are not going to do this!?!
Well...what I am getting at is this...how many of you put up with this sexless mentality or state of mind? not for a second. if the xhemistry isn't there then maybe you should just go. your. own. ways. | |
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AnotherLoverToo said: ian said: DexMSR said: Ever meet someone that just is not on your page sexually..and it frustrated the hell out of you to no end?! I know a woman that doesn't have sex in the mornings, doesn't like quickies, is not spontaneous, and only can do it when the "right" time presents itself! I don't know about you folks, but me!...there is no set time to have or have not!! If the situation allows us to have a quickie, then by all means, let me nudge those panties out of the way, if we are all alone and wake up butt ass naked together with nothing to do this morning...let's get down (uh don't forget the courtesy of brushing your damn teeth..ahem). Do you mean to tell me that if I see you four times in the past ten days...and just because the time or situation wasn't right according to your book of "The right time to have Sex" is in place...we are not going to do this!?!
Well...what I am getting at is this...how many of you put up with this sexless mentality or state of mind? Actually, I'm hearing you on this one Dex mate. Kinda similar situation... one time years ago I was going out with a woman who just seemed to be utterly unsexual. Meaning, she never expressed any kind of desire, or interest in sexual relations... she expected me to do all the work, to initiate things, and she'd lie there like a sack of potatoes the whole time. We were both attracted to each other, but she just had a really difficult time expressing herself sexually, and showing her desires. It was pretty frustrating... I think she had basically intellectualized sex so much, and was nervous about it, so it killed any passion for lovemaking... anyway it was weird, and kinda frustrating. What can ya do... mad isn't it? Anyway that was ages ago, I'm married (to someone else) now, so naturally sex is less important nowadays compared to, say, a nice cup of tea. Mm! Well, yes, if someone has almost zero sex drive and doesn't participate when having it, then I can understand the frustration. But Dex has admitted that he's a sex addict and that his drive is higher than most men, lol, so I don't know that what he considers "normal" actually is . And from his post, it seemed like she has sex with him, but just doesn't like quicky or morning sex.
The bigger question maybe is: how important is sexual compatibility in a relationship? I would say extremely! Absolutely. It's very important. Especially when you are young... maybe when I'm in my 50s I won't care quite as much. | |
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But why stay with her long enough to know...you should have sussed her out much earlier than that and kicked her to the kerb! | |
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