maybe it was because he cheated on me and videotaped it in november

maybe it was because girl kept callin one night beggin 4 sex, and he cheated on me with her last year

maybe it was because i was funkin around, but not like that

Ok maybe 2 times last year, and 3 this year

but this last time..i just couldnt do it..took me to his house..i couldnt get hard or anything, i even cried. He took me back home. 10 minutes later comes my boyfriend asking me where the hell i been at, and that's he's been looking all over for me.

So that's my story, and I'll never cheat on that man again.

Sure u won't, sure u won't

I suggest abandoning monogamy, and then the problem vanishes.

Ok, no it doesn't. But at least it has a direction. . .

no that's 4real. he is the best bf i ever have, and probably ever will. i just did it because i was mad 4 what he did and i was feelin left out of the "game" so 2 speak.
But now i c that it is just not worth it. I never cried b4 while cheating.

I'll always tell my man I have sex with others !! And so does he ! We made up a set off rules for sleeping around and that works fine.

tackam said:

There you go; that is what I meant in that other thread.

paisleykids4 said:

Are you a gay man who cheated on your boyfriend with a woman? Or are you a woman who cheated on your boyfriend with another woman? You have both cheated on each other with the same woman now?

Vibrator said:

I was just as confused.

minneapolisgenius said:

no im a male who has a bi boyfriend

If it happened once before it will happen again.

paisleykids4 said:

I'm sorry to hear all this. I wish U all the hapiness in the world, whether U stay with him or find someone new.

althom said:

What are you so shocked about? your cheating on your wifey.

Paisley said:

No! I just find this whole thread shocking.

althom said:

Yeah some people are such sinners.

CAMILLE4U said:

thanx alot. Im stopping my cheating shit, it's just not worth it no more. I just hope my boyfriend can du the same thing 4 me. Probaly not, but he wont let me go either, and i dont think i want 2 go.

At first he was just a 1 night stand, then it turned in2 love after a couple months...now were in eachother 2 far...we called eachother every single day since the first time we met on the phone line in August.

Paisley said:

Yep