2day I was talking with one of my old friends who just so happened 2 be a guy. He's a good looking guy who I always been attracted 2, but I noticed how he didn't get a whole lot of play back in the dayz, because he was a good going church boy. We talked the usual friendly talked and somewhere down the line he told me he was married. I wasn't shocked by the statement, cuz you know I automatically had it in mind that he must've been, but what shocked me was how he told me, he had more women coming after him more then ever before and it's all, because they noticed the big ol' wedding band on his finger .

Then not to long ago from that, my other friend which is a female friend was just saying how she doesn't like 2 date a man unless he's married... my eyes where like :Shokced: and when I asked her why, she really didn't give me any good explanations. Just something she always did. I mean I just don't get it, why do some people get married if they still just gon fool around like they're single? Doesn't wedding vows mean a thing these days . I don't know about y'all, but personally I don't care how good the man looks, I want a man of my own, I couldn't see myself creeping around at night just to see the person I'm supposedly be with I know adultry been going on for ages, but it's still a shocked to me, especailly with these two revelations that where just made 2 me from 2 different people...

What do y'all think about this?

4 the adrenaline rush, i suppose...

They want what they can't have and see it as a challenge or they are scared of commitment and they subconsiously know that a married man will never fully commit to them. thats my

Sweeny79 said:

CO-SIGN

Well put!

AnotherLoverToo said:

Thank you as you can tell I watch a lot of Dr.Phil













Just kidding I can't stand that fat bald headed fuck.

Hey, Sweeny, you've also got a great Ani lyric Sig! I am gonna be paying more attention to you!

Handclapsfingasnapz said:

Let a women mess around with my husband, I swear she will regret the day she ever laid eyes on his ass, I said if I found out my man was cheating on me, I wouldn't divorce him, but I would never let him forget about it either

That's bizzare. I've never understood that. I think the underlying question is, why do some people look for drama in thier lives?

AnotherLoverToo said:

Thanks.

I know I rock no applause needed.

no changed my mind applaud me now.

tackam said:

to punish themselves cause they are full of self hate.
my minor was psychology.

Sweeny79 said:

What if I told you he was married, would you like him then?

Mmmm...good question!

cuz sometimes they may B sweet temptation


(cue Sexy MF)

SexGod said:

maybe

People, including yourself seem to think more people cheat these days than in the past. I would bet that it is pretty much the same percentile through the ages that have had extra marital affairs. It's just nowadays, people feel the need to get thier 15 minutes of fame by going on a talk show...

Sweeny79 said:

You read my mind word for word...I absolutely agree with you 110%

MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said:

that's cuz your a smart chick,just like me

Sweeny79 said: