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PrintableI am gonna put a completely different spin on this.
I have read all the posts..whether HRB is 14 or not, doesnt matter, we are part of a community, she DARES to post and is probably learning and teaching as she does, like all of us...so please do not judge her on age alone. When I was 13, my friend at school (of the same age) had to deal with her mum dying of ovarian cancer...Kirsty joked and kidded around at school and it seemed, she didn't give a shit about it...Of course, this wasnt true, this was her way of dealing with it and trying to be strong. Some people were sympathetic, others thought she was a cold bitch. Her mum did die very soon, (at a crucial age in her life - course, nobody's mum should die, but she was going through puberty and her dad was left to deal with EVERYTHING) years later she went to hospital cos she couldnt cope mentally, she had kept her grief hidden away for so long. 
What I am saying is please don't judge people straight away or presume they are taking the piss or couldnt care...some people post for answers, others for fun, or out of curiosity, there could be hundreds of reasons, but dont criticise someone immediately cos of their threads, naiivety or attitude, there may be more to it that we know nothing about.  and  [This message was edited Fri Jun 6 16:12:54 PDT 2003 by REDFEATHERS] | |
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REDFEATHERS said: I am gonna put a completely different spin on this.
I have read all the posts..whether HRB is 14 or not, doesnt matter, we are part of a community, she DARES to post and is probably learning and teaching as she does, like all of us...so please do not judge her on age alone. When I was 13, my friend at school (of the same age) had to deal with her mum dying of ovarian cancer...Kirsty joked and kidded around at school and it seemed, she didn't give a shit about it...Of course, this wasnt true, this was her way of dealing with it and trying to be strong. Some people were sympathetic, others thought she was a cold bitch. Her mum did die very soon, (at a crucial age in her life - course, nobody's mum should die, but she was going through puberty and her dad was left to deal with EVERYTHING) years later she went to hospital cos she couldnt cope mentally, she had kept her grief hidden away for so long.
What I am saying is please don't judge people straight away or presume they are taking the piss or couldnt care...some people post for answers, others for fun, or out of curiosity, there could be hundreds of reasons, but dont criticise someone immediately cos of their threads, naiivety or attitude, there may be more to it that we know nothing about. and
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REDFEATHERS said: I am gonna put a completely different spin on this.
I have read all the posts..whether HRB is 14 or not, doesnt matter, we are part of a community, she DARES to post and is probably learning and teaching as she does, like all of us...so please do not judge her on age alone. When I was 13, my friend at school (of the same age) had to deal with her mum dying of ovarian cancer...Kirsty joked and kidded around at school and it seemed, she didn't give a shit about it...Of course, this wasnt true, this was her way of dealing with it and trying to be strong. Some people were sympathetic, others thought she was a cold bitch. Her mum did die very soon, (at a crucial age in her life - course, nobody's mum should die, but she was going through puberty and her dad was left to deal with EVERYTHING) years later she went to hospital cos she couldnt cope mentally, she had kept her grief hidden away for so long.
What I am saying is please don't judge people straight away or presume they are taking the piss or couldnt care...some people post for answers, others for fun, or out of curiosity, there could be hundreds of reasons, but dont criticise someone immediately cos of their threads, naiivety or attitude, there may be more to it that we know nothing about. and
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HerRoyalBadness said: REDFEATHERS said: I am gonna put a completely different spin on this.
I have read all the posts..whether HRB is 14 or not, doesnt matter, we are part of a community, she DARES to post and is probably learning and teaching as she does, like all of us...so please do not judge her on age alone. When I was 13, my friend at school (of the same age) had to deal with her mum dying of ovarian cancer...Kirsty joked and kidded around at school and it seemed, she didn't give a shit about it...Of course, this wasnt true, this was her way of dealing with it and trying to be strong. Some people were sympathetic, others thought she was a cold bitch. Her mum did die very soon, (at a crucial age in her life - course, nobody's mum should die, but she was going through puberty and her dad was left to deal with EVERYTHING) years later she went to hospital cos she couldnt cope mentally, she had kept her grief hidden away for so long.
What I am saying is please don't judge people straight away or presume they are taking the piss or couldnt care...some people post for answers, others for fun, or out of curiosity, there could be hundreds of reasons, but dont criticise someone immediately cos of their threads, naiivety or attitude, there may be more to it that we know nothing about. and
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Red, U're my bliss Well ya know what Ms Badness, you werent going to say ANY of the things that the smart and more mature folkies have said, so stop making it seem like all the sensible and considerate stuff thats been written is what you meant in the first place. Im done. & | |
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i side with the chick who started thi sthread.
she's cool. the one whom this thread is about is either someone's idea of a joke or really a immature baby girl who wastes space on the Org when relevant things need 2 b said. then again...its only a website so who gives a fuck? im'a go 2 the mall now in the real world  www.riotcitywrestling.com
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I side with nobody, cos I wasnt around when the cancer thread started, but I everyone here!  | |
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CherrieMoonKisses said: You know Cloudbuster, i really dont mind if it does get locked...I wanted to get that out of my system. She always posts mindless things, and that "Cancer" thread of hers that got locked really pissed me off.
You should care Starting threads flaming someone, when you know we'll have to deal with it later is just blatant disregard for the people who run this site. Losing your temper is one thing - we all do that - but intentionally creating work for the moderators when you know we'll end up cleaning up your shit later on is just cheeky as fuck.
That's just ruined my nice Saturday morning cup of tea, and made me all grumpy  And I'm a real pain in the arse when I'm grumpy 
Seriously though, please be a little more considerate. If HRB fucks up, it's our job to deal with it, not yours. Her thread about cancer was pretty fucking stupid, so we locked it as soon as we spotted it. Now back to my tea! | |
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