We are afriendly bunch here at the org,so be friendly tell

me about your first sexual experience. How old were you?

Who was it with? Did you regret it?


I've only been with one person,I love him to death but I

sometimes wish I would have experienced life more before

I "settled" down.

Anyone share my feelings?

15
With a big jerk
Yes I regret it, more than you know

Dunno...it went by too quickly for me to have an accurate memory of it... :O

wellbeyond said:

You're a one pump chump? Please say it ain't so!

By the way...don't regret not having more "experiences"...(actually, never regret anything...only make sure you learn from every decision you make and attempt to see the positive that it posesses)...What's important is the connection, comfort, love, respect & intimacy you share with your partner/spouse...the existence of those things will guarantee a fulfilling, satisfying and erotic love/sex life with your partner...where there's love and trust, there's freedom...and where there's freedom, there are no inhibitions...nothing's better than that...

CarrieLee said:

Emphasis on "FIRST" time...8)

Just effin wit ya!

Eye no, dahlink...

Sweeny79 said:

Define "sexual experience."

hmm. well im not saying how old i was but my first experience was awesome!
where i was living at tthe time..we could wade across the mississippi river to this isalnd that about a mile long and about 1/2 mile wide..and of course we used to always have lil parties out there and whatnot...so my boyfreind and i got "the island" ( as we always called..and i swear it was OURS lol )all ready...chopped up wood..got all the tents set up..had a canoe with all our stuff in it...waded over to the island..lit the fire we built..which was huge!!..had a super fun night then we set up our tent..and it had a big window in the top so when we looked up we could see the stars and full moon that was in effect that night and then..well...i think you can guess the rest.
but alas...all good things must come to an end...he ended up slepping with my best gyrlfreind like 6 months later...it was kinna a disater from there on out lol

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I ate a tube of toothpaste afterwards, I think that sums it
up pretty accurately.

matt said:

The first time you did "it" Not the other stuff...

My first time I was too young! I was drunk on the
beach looking up at the stars wondering when the
whole experience was gonna end! I was more in awe of
the stars going around in circles in the sky than the
guys performance! That should tell ya how exciting it was for me!

violett said:

That kinda stuff is what made me so scared of giving it up! I waited till a week b4 my 20th birthday. My Boyfriend was a virgin 2. But we dated 2 YEARS b4 we did anything! I was trying to wait until marriage. I know this is the man 4 me we have been 2gether 6 years total,but I want sex all the time and he doesn't. There are so many differences between us that way. When I think about it, I wonder if I would have been happier if I would have known more about men and sex b4 I found my honey.

luv4thepurple1 said:

Wow that's horrible!

It was horrible.

I used to go to an arcade ( I was 18 ) and on my way out one night a guy offered me a ride and I knew what he was after and after 18 years of virginity I was ready to at least try something. So he offered to have me hang out with him at the hotel he managed and I agreed and went with him to his hotel room.

At the time I was still heavily involved in the church so just imagine the guilt issues that went along with this. So he offers me a wine cooler and drank half of it and got buzzed. He broke out some weed, which freaked me out cuz I had never done drugs. He smoked his weed and felt me up while he jacked off. I just sat there terrified just waiting for him to get done. It was the most unsexiest experience. I had him drop me a few miles from my house and the experience was so horrible and I was so full of guilt that I cried all the way home...
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

You deserve so much better.

applekisses said:

I'm happy to report that the guilt is gone and I have the experience to know how to have a great time without creeps like that in my life.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

GOOD! You deserve to be wined and dined, baby!

I'm still waiting for my first time




















NOT!!! :p

hmm...bad experience, not worth mentioning.

my first time, I was only 15 and it happened with my then, future x-husband. It didn't feel good, it was in his bedroom, nobody was home, and it sucked! I regretted it, he didn't know what he was doing, it was not that awkward cause we were under the sheets, I just know that people really should wait and not have sex until they are more mature and have a better understanding of what you are actually doing and sharing, I can't say I learned. Years later, I had another similar experience and I laid there just thinking "hurry up" why do women do this? tsk, tsk.

15, on a soft blanket at night on the beach...

I was 17 and I had been seeing the guy for a year 1/2 . We found ourselves alone and decided to take a bath and well ya know...Wet is Wet!!! ...It was as great as a first time could be and we were together for 2 more years!!! I can't imagine a better first time for me.

17
my first boyfriend
no regrets

15

I lied and told the girl I had done it before.

It was awkward but I wouldn't have changed a thing.

A couple of years later I told her the truth.

16, with a state champion wrestler, in a YMCA somewhere in Germany... wonder if it scarred him for life?!?!

Wow Guys thanks for making me feel better!

Sorry I drudged up all of these bad memories!

I'm glad I waited!

So if there are any virgins out there take this thread as a

warning make sure u know what your doing b4 u give it up!

Thanks 2 all who shared your stories