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Printableimnotsayinthisjust2bnasty said: it depends on what country the wedding took place. for example, in america some countries vows are not recognized and vice versa so if something were to happen between a "married" person and yourself it wouldn't count as an affair. also, time zone plays a part in this. if you were to sleep with a married man/woman in australia and then fly back to the states...well, because of the time differences, when you get back to the states it is not yet the date of when you cheated...therefore it never really happened!
it's all in the rationalization!  :LOL:... great answer...  Mr. Ellis Dee-licious, the Official NPGigolo 
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Muse2noPharaoh said: Then I would make it my full time job to believe ...
that he isn't lieing when he says he would NEVER do that to me! That she never understood him. That he stays for the sake of the kids... That he fully intends to divorce her. That she is such a bitch! Because I know I am special!  blind faith... :LOL:... Mr. Ellis Dee-licious, the Official NPGigolo
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Then I would make it my lifes mission to scream and cry woe is me to the world. Begging everyone to hate the mean evil man who took advantage of me and lied and now  won't see me anymore because she found out.
Or had to simply stay with the bitch because she may harm their children. I'll blame God and everything but myself because Bullshit is what makes the world go round! Or at the very least is what fertilizes it. 
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Muse2noPharaoh said: Then I would make it my lifes mission to scream and cry woe is me to the world. Begging everyone to hate the mean evil man who took advantage of me and lied and now
won't see me anymore because she found out.
Or had to simply stay with the bitch because she may harm their children. I'll blame God and everything but myself because Bullshit is what makes the world go round! Or at the very least is what fertilizes it.
I'll wonder endlessly why why Why I can't be happy in love! you got something you need to talk about..? ... Mr. Ellis Dee-licious, the Official NPGigolo
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I'll acquire a shrink.
Begin taking antidepressants. Grow old and bitter and wretched. I'll stop giving a damn about my appearance. Get fat aquire several animals and drown my sorrows in wine and cigarettes. Never once will I consider my actions or to make a few changes that may change the coarse of my life. WHY? Because I am a victim! Feel my pppaaaiiinnn! The END   | |
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Muse2noPharaoh said: I'll acquire a shrink.
Begin taking antidepressants. Grow old and bitter and wretched. I'll stop giving a damn about my appearance. Get fat aquire several animals and drown my sorrows in wine and cigarettes. Never once will I consider my actions or to make a few changes that may change the coarse of my life. WHY? Because I am a victim! Feel my pppaaaiiinnn! The END so, which step are you at now..? Mr. Ellis Dee-licious, the Official NPGigolo
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EllisDee said: Muse2noPharaoh said: Then I would make it my lifes mission to scream and cry woe is me to the world. Begging everyone to hate the mean evil man who took advantage of me and lied and now
won't see me anymore because she found out.
Or had to simply stay with the bitch because she may harm their children. I'll blame God and everything but myself because Bullshit is what makes the world go round! Or at the very least is what fertilizes it.
I'll wonder endlessly why why Why I can't be happy in love! you got something you need to talk about..? ... I have been in the salon industry for 17 years! I have heard this one verbatim a Gazillion times! | |
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EllisDee said: Muse2noPharaoh said: I'll acquire a shrink.
Begin taking antidepressants. Grow old and bitter and wretched. I'll stop giving a damn about my appearance. Get fat aquire several animals and drown my sorrows in wine and cigarettes. Never once will I consider my actions or to make a few changes that may change the coarse of my life. WHY? Because I am a victim! Feel my pppaaaiiinnn! The END so, which step are you at now..? Varying steps depending on their background ... relationships with there fathers etc. Some recover ... Most follow to the end! | |
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Muse2noPharaoh said: Varying steps depending on their background ... relationships with there fathers etc. Some recover ... Most follow to the end! thought maybe you were sharing life experiences with us for a second... my b... Mr. Ellis Dee-licious, the Official NPGigolo
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namepeace said: The modern Hebrew scholar Heschel had an interesting perspective on God's commandment against adultery. He said it was not designed to restrict a individual's behavior, but rather, that God intended to encourage men and women to go out and find their own happiness, their own "someone."
Lord knows that's easy for Heschel to say, but it's an interesting angle on your question. Acknowledge the attraction, but move on and do your own "dang." Yeah, I'd have to disagree with Heschel. Enough Bible verses are devoted to maintaining the analogy between Christ and His Church, and a marriage. Infidelity doesn't exactly come off as being tolerated. | |
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And, it's my policy to not mess with wives. Shoot, single women are enough trouble. ...
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ThreadBare said: And, it's my policy to not mess with wives.
 ... not even your own..? Mr. Ellis Dee-licious, the Official NPGigolo
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once they've got the ring on their finger...u step back. until then they're fair game. they wouldn't get with ya if they were happy where they were...but you have to respect the sanctity of marriage, even if they don't.
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Many years ago, I learned the answer to this the hard way (and why must I always find things out the hard way, why can't I take someone else's word for it?!  ) :
stay away from the marrieds! 
You think you are in control, you think you can walk away with no lasting, heartbroken feelings? Or maybe you think s/he's gonna leave their partner for you? Nine times out of ten--nope, ain't gonna happen! You think you're "special" and "different" than the others who've been burned? Okay...but don't say nobody ever warned you | |
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EllisDee said: ThreadBare said: And, it's my policy to not mess with wives.
... not even your own..?Dude, I'm still workin' on getting one of my own. | |
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MrBliss said: do you chase after them anyway?
or do you respect their marriage? do you have boundaries? or are you just out for what you can get? me... i'd back the fuck up u should RESPECT that Marriage & back tha Hell up... there is A LOT of EyeCandy out there but that's all it is (4 me) EyeCandy. & what i mean by that is just look admire & move on... Peace ... & Stay Funky ...
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i am not the person to answer this question...
about 4 years ago i met a man...didnt want him for shit...thought he was totally not my type...but he kept pushing...i was waitressing and i saw him once a week...he was sweet...but i kept saying no.,...he just didnt interest me... one day i finally said alright...i will have dinner with you and your brother...they were there together every week... i had a lot of fun...and he started calling me...i grew to really like him...and we started seeing each other on a regular basis...i told him i would never fall in love because men in general are just assholes...(that was my view back then)...so we would just hang out...i FINALLY kissed him 6 months into the relationship...i know that because he had marked down the date that we went out the first time...remember he was only here once a week... after i kissed him...the next week --- we ...well...you know...i hadnt had sex in over 2 years and he was a hell of a wake-up call ...after that i was pretty much hooked...
i left town with him for the weekend...and his brother was talking and let it slip that he was married...i tried to leave...but we were in the middle of nowhere...so i had to listen to how sad the marrage really was...etc etc... anyway...i was in love...and i stayed...she found out and threatened to take everything he had in court...i got my heart broke and now he is with another woman and him and his wife are divorced...he was really a great guy and i miss him too this day... so would i date a married man...no i would never set out to do that ...ever...but i didnt know...so am i still wrong ??? and if i hadn't backed off because i knew i was wrong...would i have ended up with the only man i have ever truely loved ??? guess we will never know...but i sure do miss him :BAWL: THE UNOFFICIAL ORG SEX THERAPIST
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MrBliss said: if you think someone's hot, and you find out that they're married
do you chase after them anyway? or do you respect their marriage? do you have boundaries? or are you just out for what you can get? me... i'd back the fuck up Find who they're married to and kill them. 
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