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Printablesag10 said:[quote]AzureStar said:[quote] sag10 said: AzureStar said: sag10 said: AzureStar said: sag10 said: Anji said: AzureStar said: Am I being careful? Unfortunately, no. :eek
:OMFG: Woman what is wrong with you?  Sometimes I don't think... I know, I know. At least I'm not the only one not thinking... he's to blame, too.  Oh no you don't... You need to take full responsibility... who is the older one? I am not taking full responsibility for anything... no way. He should know better anyway... I know, I know... AnotherLover isn't quite sure what to do with me, either... I'll go buy some junk later and have it on hand. Okay? It's just... I don't know. It will make me feel better if you take responsibility for your life, and actions. Didn't you read that book? Yes, I read the book... but it is hard for me to do certain things I guess... and, a lot of times I just don't think or do what I should do, you know? Yes, I know... Just promise me you will get protected..I would hate for my dear friend to get some kind of disease or another child... Enough said. I will get protected... and, I wouldn't mind another child... but, now is not the time. Thanks, you...  | |
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AzureStar said:[quote]sag10 said:[quote] AzureStar said: sag10 said: AzureStar said: sag10 said: AzureStar said: sag10 said: Anji said: AzureStar said: Am I being careful? Unfortunately, no. :eek
:OMFG: Woman what is wrong with you? Sometimes I don't think... I know, I know. At least I'm not the only one not thinking... he's to blame, too. Oh no you don't... You need to take full responsibility... who is the older one? I am not taking full responsibility for anything... no way. He should know better anyway... I know, I know... AnotherLover isn't quite sure what to do with me, either... I'll go buy some junk later and have it on hand. Okay? It's just... I don't know. It will make me feel better if you take responsibility for your life, and actions. Didn't you read that book? Yes, I read the book... but it is hard for me to do certain things I guess... and, a lot of times I just don't think or do what I should do, you know? Yes, I know... Just promise me you will get protected..I would hate for my dear friend to get some kind of disease or another child... Enough said. I will get protected... and, I wouldn't mind another child... but, now is not the time. Thanks, you...  Azure ^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^
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pejman said: Because I wanna have a bunch of lil mini Peji's jumping all over me and tuggin on my ear lobes...  | |
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Anji said: I understand why many people have children, and what makes them feel that their lot are an invaluable source of happiness, but what happens if you're already happy? Why would you want to have children then? Aren't they just an incredible drain? Don't get me wrong; I like cute, fat, sumo-wrestler style babies, but that's not the point.
 the reason why I want 2 have a baby, is so that who ever I'm in love with I will always have apart of him with me even if we don't stay 2gether our love would live 4ever inside the life we created and the chance 2 see what me and him look like 2gether as one soul and boby, this is why I want 2 give life  | |
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AzureStar said:[quote]sag10 said:[quote] AzureStar said: sag10 said: AzureStar said: sag10 said: AzureStar said: sag10 said: Anji said: AzureStar said: Am I being careful? Unfortunately, no. :eek
:OMFG: Woman what is wrong with you? Sometimes I don't think... I know, I know. At least I'm not the only one not thinking... he's to blame, too. Oh no you don't... You need to take full responsibility... who is the older one? I am not taking full responsibility for anything... no way. He should know better anyway... I know, I know... AnotherLover isn't quite sure what to do with me, either... I'll go buy some junk later and have it on hand. Okay? It's just... I don't know. It will make me feel better if you take responsibility for your life, and actions. Didn't you read that book? Yes, I read the book... but it is hard for me to do certain things I guess... and, a lot of times I just don't think or do what I should do, you know? Yes, I know... Just promise me you will get protected..I would hate for my dear friend to get some kind of disease or another child... Enough said. I will get protected... and, I wouldn't mind another child... but, now is not the time. Thanks, you... A) Refer back to the ovulation thread... B) Get a love glove for that willy, girl! You don't need any diseases!  | |
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Anji said: I understand why many people have children, and what makes them feel that their lot are an invaluable source of happiness, but what happens if you're already happy? Why would you want to have children then? Aren't they just an incredible drain? Don't get me wrong; I like cute, fat, sumo-wrestler style babies, but that's not the point.
Personaly, I don't see any reason why I would ever have a baby. First of all, I don't have the lifestyle for it, nor do I enjoy being responsable for another person's upbringing. A child would ruin my career and hobbies as well as future plans to travel. I don't want to be tied down and have obligations (my dog is quite enough). I think of my parents, and although they are good loving parents, I find their dedication and attachement to their kids (me and my sister) pathetic. It seems that their kids was their life, and now that they are living on their own, they are sometimes lonely. I don't mean to sound like a total insensitive person, but I don't ever want my life to be THAT sad. Its a personal choice and being a parent is definitively not for me. | |
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Actually I love children, and hope to one day meet someone to share my life with and provide enough to raise a large family.
Anji said: ufoclub said: mmm... the only purpose of life on earth is to propogate itself until the our cycle's time is up...
everything else we do is just a complication or repression of the urge to reproduce and keep our thing going... Are you devoid of emotion, dude? My art book: http://www.lulu.com/spotl...ecomicskid
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ufoclub said: Actually I love children, and hope to one day meet someone to share my life with and provide enough to raise a large family.
Anji said: ufoclub said: mmm... the only purpose of life on earth is to propogate itself until the our cycle's time is up...
everything else we do is just a complication or repression of the urge to reproduce and keep our thing going... Are you devoid of emotion, dude? Its not for everyone. Although I have no doubt that you will be a great father, not everyone shares your thought. It doesn't mean that someone is devoid of emotion and cold; its being smart enough to realize for yourself what is best for you. | |
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I come from an abusive home, and for the longest time was TERRIFIED of having kids. I even seriously contemplated getting a vasectomy...and I'm unmarried.
This is somewhat Buddhist in nature, but I think the purpose of our lives is self-discovery. Human nature is ever-evolving. Once you think you have yourself figured out, you start to search for something else to make you feel "complete," as that emptiness creeps back in. I think the task of childrearing is an important part of this process. You discover things about yourself THROUGH your children. And you discover things about the nature of existance through kids. Buddha always said that children were naturally enlightened, and that to achieve enlightenment, one must become like a child. Read the books of Thich Nhat Hahn for more on this... Despite my abusive past, I think I will be a wonderful father, and I now feel confident that I will not make the same mistakes that my parents made. All I need now is to get my career going. Oh, and a woman who I can see myself having a child with... | |
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Don't have kids. Don't want kids. I want my freedom. | |
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IF I have kids it'll definitely be later in life, I'll be approaching 40. BUT I'm not sold on the kids thing just yet If the urge to mother someone hits me, then yes I'll have them. But I think it's lame to have them just b/c you're expected to, just b/c you don't wanna be old & lonely (who's to say your kids will take care of you? lol), all the reasons people pop out kids on automatic pilot.
It's a HUGE responsibility to guide a human being through the world - am I up to the task?  I don't know, we'll see I don't think everybody takes parenting so seriously - some folks just kinda do it, it just "happens". And I think it's a fucking shame the way people who can't afford them, don't care about them & think a baby will make them "complete" continuously bring children into the world just to fuck them over (the whole multiple fathers/5 kids on welfare shit has got to GO, but that's another topic)... I wanna be ready, I have to want it for the rest of my life. To me having kids isn't about "happiness", it's about wanting to give my life over to another human being, to take on one of the most important jobs a human being can take on. That's a HUGE adjustment, I gotta be sure before I pop one out...  I never met you, but I LOVE you & I will forever!! Thank you for being YOU - my little Princey, the best to EVER do it | |
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