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Reply #30 posted 05/20/03 2:11pm

AzureStar

Anji said:

AzureStar said:

I want more children... why? Selfish reasons... one being that I loved being pregnant.

Anji... careful when you toss the balloon... smile
Babooney! So, did you look sexy when you were pregnant?! And did you have any cravings?

(I'm being careful. Are you?) lol


I don't think I looked sexy... no. But, I loved it more than anything. smile

Cravings? Yes... with my son I craved those Ding Dons or whatever they are (chocolate cakes with cream filling) and with my daughter I craved Kit-Katt candy bars... and I don't like chocolate too much!

Am I being careful? Unfortunately, no. eek
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Reply #31 posted 05/20/03 2:13pm

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MrBliss said:

cause i need a band that'll play what the hell i tell them to

Hopefully you'll fine them when they flub a riff,
and not play favorites. Nepotism sux cajones.
This post not for the wimp contingent. All whiny wusses avert your eyes.
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Reply #32 posted 05/20/03 2:14pm

Anji

JaneyPoos said:

Anji said:

JaneyPoos said:

Anji said:

I understand why many people have children, and what makes them feel that their lot are an invaluable source of happiness, but what happens if you're already happy? Why would you want to have children then? Aren't they just an incredible drain? Don't get me wrong; I like cute, fat, sumo-wrestler style babies, but that's not the point.

eek


I think it'd be kinda sweet mushy

Though not yet...

shake Good God no shake

I do also share in part the same theory as minneapolis- so u are not alone when u are older... sigh

But other than that general I get on really well with my family we are always there for each other and are close... not many people i know share this type of bond with their families...

I want (obviously in many years time) to create a family likewise- generally supportive and caring...

Saying this as long as u are in love and happy with a person I don't suppose this matters shrug
Yo Janey, you wanna have babies?! Now that's funny, monkey! lol


biggrin yay i did a funny batting eyes

I don't mean i want kids right now!!! Hell no!!! Infact i wasnt too keen at all it was jus'at the weekend i had to look after my nephew(5) and niece(3) and i loved it the way they looked up to me and craved my love and attention... biggrin

they are little shits most of the time though rolleyes

lol

not many perks really i spose shrug
See, now this is it. I've always loved the idea of kids but I'm bloody glad when they're out of my hair. Being responsible ALL the time must get really tiresome. Don't y'all just wanna have some fun, like when you were free? Sometimes??

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Reply #33 posted 05/20/03 2:15pm

JaneyPoos

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MrBliss said:

cause i need a band that'll play what the hell i tell them to


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Reply #34 posted 05/20/03 2:15pm

Anji

langebleu said:

Anji said:

I don't think it's good enough a reason to have children just because that's what everyone else is doing. So what is?
I agree.

The reason that I decided to try to become a parent was because both myself and my wife felt we wanted to share our love and happiness with the responsibility of any new life with which we were blessed.
Wow, I can see this happening to me. Right now, I guess I'm not involved in any long term, committed relationship.

woot!
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Reply #35 posted 05/20/03 2:16pm

2the9s

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I craved those Ding Dons or whatever they are


"Ding Dons"?? wtf??

They're called Ring Dings for crying out loud!!

disbelief
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Reply #36 posted 05/20/03 2:17pm

Anji

AzureStar said:

Am I being careful? Unfortunately, no. eek
Damn, who's the lucky man Babooney?! lol
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Reply #37 posted 05/20/03 2:17pm

AzureStar

2the9s said:

AzureStar said:

I craved those Ding Dons or whatever they are


"Ding Dons"?? wtf??

They're called Ring Dings for crying out loud!!

disbelief


No... they aren't. Ding Dongs or King Dons! That is what they're called! King Dons!

Ring Ding? What's a Ring Ding?
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Reply #38 posted 05/20/03 2:18pm

AzureStar

Anji said:

AzureStar said:

Am I being careful? Unfortunately, no. eek
Damn, who's the lucky man Babooney?! lol


His name is Jason and he won't be very lucky if we slip up one of these times... smile
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Reply #39 posted 05/20/03 2:19pm

Anji

AzureStar said:

2the9s said:

AzureStar said:

I craved those Ding Dons or whatever they are


"Ding Dons"?? wtf??

They're called Ring Dings for crying out loud!!

disbelief


No... they aren't. Ding Dongs or King Dons! That is what they're called! King Dons!

Ring Ding? What's a Ring Ding?

lol
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Reply #40 posted 05/20/03 2:19pm

JaneyPoos

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[This message was edited Tue May 20 14:22:10 PDT 2003 by JaneyPoos]
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Reply #41 posted 05/20/03 2:20pm

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2the9s said:

AzureStar said:

I craved those Ding Dons or whatever they are


"Ding Dons"?? wtf??

They're called Ring Dings for crying out loud!!

disbelief

stfu
This post not for the wimp contingent. All whiny wusses avert your eyes.
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Reply #42 posted 05/20/03 2:21pm

Anji

AzureStar said:

Anji said:

AzureStar said:

Am I being careful? Unfortunately, no. eek
Damn, who's the lucky man Babooney?! lol


His name is Jason and he won't be very lucky if we slip up one of these times... smile
What's he like, Babooney? Is he cool? smile
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Reply #43 posted 05/20/03 2:21pm

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AzureStar said:[quote]Am I being careful? Unfortunately, no. eek

:OMFG: Woman what is wrong with you? spank

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[This message was edited Tue May 20 14:21:52 PDT 2003 by sag10]
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Reply #44 posted 05/20/03 2:21pm

Anji

JaneyPoos said:

Anji said:

See, now this is it. I've always loved the idea of kids but I'm bloody glad when they're out of my hair. Being responsible ALL the time must get really tiresome. Don't y'all just wanna have some fun, like when you were free? Sometimes??

biggrin


I know exactly what u mean i like 'em but i'm damn glad when i can give 'em back lol

One of my friends soul ambition in life is to have children and loads or 'em and i mean anytime shes the same age as me as well...

She wants (this may come out wrong but i don't mean it, sorry every1- I'm nice really) every colour she can. Shes thinking like fashion accessories or something disbelief and the names she thought of eek LORD HAVE MERCY!
Names, please! biggrin
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Reply #45 posted 05/20/03 2:22pm

AzureStar

sag10 said:[quote]Anji said:[quote]

AzureStar said:

Am I being careful? Unfortunately, no. :eek

:OMFG: Woman what is wrong with you? spank


Sometimes I don't think... I know, I know. At least I'm not the only one not thinking... he's to blame, too.

confused
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Reply #46 posted 05/20/03 2:23pm

sag10

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AzureStar said:[quote]sag10 said:[quote]

Anji said:

AzureStar said:

Am I being careful? Unfortunately, no. :eek

:OMFG: Woman what is wrong with you? spank


Sometimes I don't think... I know, I know. At least I'm not the only one not thinking... he's to blame, too.

confused


Oh no you don't... You need to take full responsibility... who is the older one?
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Reply #47 posted 05/20/03 2:24pm

xenon

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Anji said:

ufoclub said:

mmm... the only purpose of life on earth is to propogate itself until the our cycle's time is up...

everything else we do is just a complication or repression of the urge to reproduce and keep our thing going...

Are you devoid of emotion, dude? eek



I have to say, I agree with ufoclub.


btw I'm extremely drunk so if you want me to explain myself, please give me questions that only have yes or no answers. :fallingdowndrunk:
Some people are like Slinkies...

They're good for nothing but they still bring a smile to your face when you push them down the stairs.
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Reply #48 posted 05/20/03 2:25pm

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I am adopted and I always wanted someone who was a part of me. someone I could look at and know we had the same blood. I love my parents and my brothers but it was different when I had my first baby..she came from me.

Now that she is older and I have another daughter I realize that continutity is a big thing for me. Although now with the state of the world I worry about my children, my grandchildren to be the future. I feel more attached now, more like a citizen of the world because there are pieces of me walking around..does that make sense?
butterfly
We all should know that diversity makes for a rich tapestry, and we must understand that all the threads of the tapestry are equal in value no matter what their color.
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Reply #49 posted 05/20/03 2:26pm

JaneyPoos

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Anji said:

JaneyPoos said:

Anji said:

See, now this is it. I've always loved the idea of kids but I'm bloody glad when they're out of my hair. Being responsible ALL the time must get really tiresome. Don't y'all just wanna have some fun, like when you were free? Sometimes??

biggrin


I know exactly what u mean i like 'em but i'm damn glad when i can give 'em back lol

One of my friends soul ambition in life is to have children and loads or 'em and i mean anytime shes the same age as me as well...

She wants (this may come out wrong but i don't mean it, sorry every1- I'm nice really) every colour she can. Shes thinking like fashion accessories or something disbelief and the names she thought of eek LORD HAVE MERCY!
Names, please! biggrin


well as i said her fascination with darker skins... she has choosen American "comedy" names and jus' blokes she fancies...

so anyway... girls names i can remember off hand...

Kashesha (God knows how its spelt i was going for phoenetics (sp?))
Moesha
Kelsie


boys names (and where they come from for those who don't know)

Kian (Westlife- crap boyband in the UK, he is white with girly hair)
Bradley (one out of S CLUB 7 (crap group in the UK)
Usher

And i swear to u this is truth eek
JaneyPoos used to be it... then they changed what it was. Now what I am isn't it and what is it is strange and frightening to me...


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Reply #50 posted 05/20/03 2:26pm

AzureStar

Anji said:

AzureStar said:

Anji said:

AzureStar said:

Am I being careful? Unfortunately, no. eek
Damn, who's the lucky man Babooney?! lol


His name is Jason and he won't be very lucky if we slip up one of these times... smile
What's he like, Babooney? Is he cool? smile


What's he like? Hmmm... funny, calm, honest, dedicated, shy, will do anything for his mother, gentlemanly in a boyish way which cracks me up... doesn't put on airs and doesn't try to impress... down to earth. He opens doors for me... lol, which I think is cute.

Wonderful to lie next to, cuddly, and has the most gorgeous chest I've ever seen on a man, and I don't usually like much about a man's chest... maybe that's just because he's young. I am in lust. It is true. lol
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Reply #51 posted 05/20/03 2:29pm

AzureStar

sag10 said:[quote]AzureStar said:[quote]

sag10 said:

Anji said:

AzureStar said:

Am I being careful? Unfortunately, no. :eek

:OMFG: Woman what is wrong with you? spank


Sometimes I don't think... I know, I know. At least I'm not the only one not thinking... he's to blame, too.

confused


Oh no you don't... You need to take full responsibility... who is the older one?


I am not taking full responsibility for anything... no way. He should know better anyway... I know, I know... AnotherLover isn't quite sure what to do with me, either... I'll go buy some junk later and have it on hand. Okay?

It's just... I don't know.
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Reply #52 posted 05/20/03 2:31pm

Anji

AzureStar said:

Anji said:

AzureStar said:

Anji said:

AzureStar said:

Am I being careful? Unfortunately, no. eek
Damn, who's the lucky man Babooney?! lol


His name is Jason and he won't be very lucky if we slip up one of these times... smile
What's he like, Babooney? Is he cool? smile


What's he like? Hmmm... funny, calm, honest, dedicated, shy, will do anything for his mother, gentlemanly in a boyish way which cracks me up... doesn't put on airs and doesn't try to impress... down to earth. He opens doors for me... lol, which I think is cute.

Wonderful to lie next to, cuddly, and has the most gorgeous chest I've ever seen on a man, and I don't usually like much about a man's chest... maybe that's just because he's young. I am in lust. It is true. lol
Yeah, but is he any good? lol
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Reply #53 posted 05/20/03 2:33pm

Anji

AzureStar said:[quote]sag10 said:[quote]

AzureStar said:

sag10 said:

Anji said:

AzureStar said:

Am I being careful? Unfortunately, no. :eek

:OMFG: Woman what is wrong with you? spank


Sometimes I don't think... I know, I know. At least I'm not the only one not thinking... he's to blame, too.

confused


Oh no you don't... You need to take full responsibility... who is the older one?


I am not taking full responsibility for anything... no way. He should know better anyway... I know, I know... AnotherLover isn't quite sure what to do with me, either... I'll go buy some junk later and have it on hand. Okay?

It's just... I don't know.
Get protected. No need to have to resort to abortion, if it can be helped. Just getting serious on you now, Babooney.

eek
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Reply #54 posted 05/20/03 2:34pm

sag10

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AzureStar said:[quote]sag10 said:[quote]

AzureStar said:

sag10 said:

Anji said:

AzureStar said:

Am I being careful? Unfortunately, no. :eek

:OMFG: Woman what is wrong with you? spank


Sometimes I don't think... I know, I know. At least I'm not the only one not thinking... he's to blame, too.

confused


Oh no you don't... You need to take full responsibility... who is the older one?


I am not taking full responsibility for anything... no way. He should know better anyway... I know, I know... AnotherLover isn't quite sure what to do with me, either... I'll go buy some junk later and have it on hand. Okay?

It's just... I don't know.


It will make me feel better if you take responsibility for your life, and actions. Didn't you read that book?
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Reply #55 posted 05/20/03 2:34pm

AzureStar

Anji said:

AzureStar said:

Anji said:

AzureStar said:

Anji said:

AzureStar said:

Am I being careful? Unfortunately, no. eek
Damn, who's the lucky man Babooney?! lol


His name is Jason and he won't be very lucky if we slip up one of these times... smile
What's he like, Babooney? Is he cool? smile


What's he like? Hmmm... funny, calm, honest, dedicated, shy, will do anything for his mother, gentlemanly in a boyish way which cracks me up... doesn't put on airs and doesn't try to impress... down to earth. He opens doors for me... lol, which I think is cute.

Wonderful to lie next to, cuddly, and has the most gorgeous chest I've ever seen on a man, and I don't usually like much about a man's chest... maybe that's just because he's young. I am in lust. It is true. lol
Yeah, but is he any good? lol


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Reply #56 posted 05/20/03 2:35pm

AzureStar

Anji said:[quote]AzureStar said:[quote]

sag10 said:

AzureStar said:

sag10 said:

Anji said:

AzureStar said:

Am I being careful? Unfortunately, no. :eek

:OMFG: Woman what is wrong with you? spank


Sometimes I don't think... I know, I know. At least I'm not the only one not thinking... he's to blame, too.

confused


Oh no you don't... You need to take full responsibility... who is the older one?


I am not taking full responsibility for anything... no way. He should know better anyway... I know, I know... AnotherLover isn't quite sure what to do with me, either... I'll go buy some junk later and have it on hand. Okay?

It's just... I don't know.
Get protected. No need to have to resort to abortion, if it can be helped. Just getting serious on you now, Babooney.

eek


Oh, I wouldn't do the abortion thing... but, yeah... I will go and get something. *sigh*... I just don't wanna!
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Reply #57 posted 05/20/03 2:36pm

AzureStar

sag10 said:[quote]AzureStar said:[quote]

sag10 said:

AzureStar said:

sag10 said:

Anji said:

AzureStar said:

Am I being careful? Unfortunately, no. :eek

:OMFG: Woman what is wrong with you? spank


Sometimes I don't think... I know, I know. At least I'm not the only one not thinking... he's to blame, too.

confused


Oh no you don't... You need to take full responsibility... who is the older one?


I am not taking full responsibility for anything... no way. He should know better anyway... I know, I know... AnotherLover isn't quite sure what to do with me, either... I'll go buy some junk later and have it on hand. Okay?

It's just... I don't know.


It will make me feel better if you take responsibility for your life, and actions. Didn't you read that book?


Yes, I read the book... but it is hard for me to do certain things I guess... and, a lot of times I just don't think or do what I should do, you know?
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Reply #58 posted 05/20/03 2:36pm

Blackcat

Anji said:

I understand why many people have children, and what makes them feel that their lot are an invaluable source of happiness, but what happens if you're already happy? Why would you want to have children then? Aren't they just an incredible drain? Don't get me wrong; I like cute, fat, sumo-wrestler style babies, but that's not the point.

eek


Well who's gonna take care of you when you become old, nasty, hateful, and too decrepit to wash your own butt? Only a child loved will love you in this phase. Or you could cross you fingers and wish for a smile from the nursing home staff.

Incredible drain? Well, yes, but the joy that comes from "Mommy, I love you and you're the best mom" out of the blue and for no reason other than cooking their favorite meal is well worth the drain of any physical or emotional energy. nod
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Reply #59 posted 05/20/03 2:38pm

sag10

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AzureStar said:[quote]sag10 said:[quote]

AzureStar said:

sag10 said:

AzureStar said:

sag10 said:

Anji said:

AzureStar said:

Am I being careful? Unfortunately, no. :eek

:OMFG: Woman what is wrong with you? spank


Sometimes I don't think... I know, I know. At least I'm not the only one not thinking... he's to blame, too.

confused


Oh no you don't... You need to take full responsibility... who is the older one?


I am not taking full responsibility for anything... no way. He should know better anyway... I know, I know... AnotherLover isn't quite sure what to do with me, either... I'll go buy some junk later and have it on hand. Okay?

It's just... I don't know.


It will make me feel better if you take responsibility for your life, and actions. Didn't you read that book?


Yes, I read the book... but it is hard for me to do certain things I guess... and, a lot of times I just don't think or do what I should do, you know?


Yes, I know... Just promise me you will get protected..I would hate for my dear friend to get some kind of disease or another child... Enough said.
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