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Saving U'rSelf 4 Marriage... Hmmm... i had a previous xperience that led me 2 ask the Orgez this Quesion...
is there anything u won't do with a Lover becuz u'r waiting til u get Married 2 do it? Peace ... & Stay Funky ...
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PurpleLove7 said: Hmmm... i had a previous xperience that led me 2 ask the Orgez this Quesion...
is there anything u won't do with a Lover becuz u'r waiting til u get Married 2 do it? tell him i really a man... actually, i probably won't wait, i'll tell him before the wedding on the Jerry Springer Show Power tends to corrupt; absolute power corrupts absolutely. - Lord Acton | |
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Religion aside...Isn't it smart to have sex before marriage? What happens if you wait until marriage and the sex sucks?! Some people cannot be taught to be good sexual partners. I have tried with some guys and sometimes it's to no avail.
Despite what people say, sex is a major part of a successful, fulfilling and happy relationship. 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: Religion aside...Isn't it smart to have sex before marriage? What happens if you wait until marriage and the sex sucks?! Some people cannot be taught to be good sexual partners. I have tried with some guys and sometimes it's to no avail.
Despite what people say, sex is a major part of a successful, fulfilling and happy relationship. Yes, but the other side to that is those that have never had sex before dont know what is good and what is bad... He calls me "Holi" cuz he says everyday w/ me is like a Holiday... | |
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: Religion aside...Isn't it smart to have sex before marriage? What happens if you wait until marriage and the sex sucks?! Some people cannot be taught to be good sexual partners. I have tried with some guys and sometimes it's to no avail.
Despite what people say, sex is a major part of a successful, fulfilling and happy relationship. good point but any & every1 has the potential 2 b a Gr8 Lover. u have 2 teach the person what u like & u have 2 go all out with that person. if the other lover is a VIRGIN then u have 2 find out what they like & so 4th. i wish i waited til i was Married but Mastubation would've been a key factor 2 me not goin Crazy...  Peace ... & Stay Funky ...
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: Religion aside...Isn't it smart to have sex before marriage? What happens if you wait until marriage and the sex sucks?! Some people cannot be taught to be good sexual partners. I have tried with some guys and sometimes it's to no avail.
Despite what people say, sex is a major part of a successful, fulfilling and happy relationship. MAYBE BUT IF THEY GOOD IN BED FIRST TIME THEY PROBABLY PRACTICE ON LOT OF PEOPLE! PLUS PRACTICE MAKE PERFECT GRRR SQUEAK! P o o |/, P o o |\ | |
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ummm...too late.
nope...i try to give myself completely in every intimate relationship. there are few things i won't do but marriage won't change that!!! you're only as old as you feel..............so how old do i feel 
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lillith said: ummm...too late.
nope...i try to give myself completely in every intimate relationship. there are few things i won't do but marriage won't change that!!!  | |
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damn some of y'all just don't have self discipline, lol
have u ever thought about, besides religion that saving ur self can be a way to prove ur strength and weaknesses, especially when it comes to love... sex weakens the mind... after u have it ... u tend to think u need it, which is not the case at all, when u not having sex it's not on ur mind all the time, u have better things to think about... all in all the morale to this story is... self discipline, stop thinking about the spur of the moment, and try to maintain urself u animals, cuz remember it takes one night to catch something u have to live with for a lifetime  [This message was edited Mon May 5 18:26:43 PDT 2003 by DigitalLisa] | |
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DigitalLisa said: damn some of y'all just don't have self discipline, lol
have u ever thought about, besides religion that saving ur self can be a way to prove ur strength and weaknesses, especially when it comes to love... sex weakens the mind... after u have it ... u tend to think u need it, which is not the case at all, when u not having sex it's not on ur mind all the time, u have better things to think about... all in all the morale to this story is... self discipline, stop thinking about the spur of the moment, and try to maintain urself u animals, cuz remember it takes one night to catch something u have to live with for a lifetime
[This message was edited Mon May 5 18:26:43 PDT 2003 by DigitalLisa] Are you talkin about babies or infections? | |
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Paisley said: DigitalLisa said: damn some of y'all just don't have self discipline, lol
have u ever thought about, besides religion that saving ur self can be a way to prove ur strength and weaknesses, especially when it comes to love... sex weakens the mind... after u have it ... u tend to think u need it, which is not the case at all, when u not having sex it's not on ur mind all the time, u have better things to think about... all in all the morale to this story is... self discipline, stop thinking about the spur of the moment, and try to maintain urself u animals, cuz remember it takes one night to catch something u have to live with for a lifetime
[This message was edited Mon May 5 18:26:43 PDT 2003 by DigitalLisa] Are you talkin about babies or infections? either or ... | |
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DigitalLisa said: Paisley said: DigitalLisa said: damn some of y'all just don't have self discipline, lol
have u ever thought about, besides religion that saving ur self can be a way to prove ur strength and weaknesses, especially when it comes to love... sex weakens the mind... after u have it ... u tend to think u need it, which is not the case at all, when u not having sex it's not on ur mind all the time, u have better things to think about... all in all the morale to this story is... self discipline, stop thinking about the spur of the moment, and try to maintain urself u animals, cuz remember it takes one night to catch something u have to live with for a lifetime
[This message was edited Mon May 5 18:26:43 PDT 2003 by DigitalLisa] Are you talkin about babies or infections? either or ... Well if a woman has her tubes tied or a man has his thang cut you dont have to worry about babies and as far as infections go, use protection. | |
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DigitalLisa said: damn some of y'all just don't have self discipline, lol
have u ever thought about, besides religion that saving ur self can be a way to prove ur strength and weaknesses, especially when it comes to love... sex weakens the mind... after u have it ... u tend to think u need it, which is not the case at all, when u not having sex it's not on ur mind all the time, u have better things to think about... all in all the morale to this story is... self discipline, stop thinking about the spur of the moment, and try to maintain urself u animals, cuz remember it takes one night to catch something u have to live with for a lifetime
[This message was edited Mon May 5 18:26:43 PDT 2003 by DigitalLisa]  This post not for the wimp contingent. All whiny wusses avert your eyes. | |
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Paisley said: DigitalLisa said: Paisley said: DigitalLisa said: damn some of y'all just don't have self discipline, lol
have u ever thought about, besides religion that saving ur self can be a way to prove ur strength and weaknesses, especially when it comes to love... sex weakens the mind... after u have it ... u tend to think u need it, which is not the case at all, when u not having sex it's not on ur mind all the time, u have better things to think about... all in all the morale to this story is... self discipline, stop thinking about the spur of the moment, and try to maintain urself u animals, cuz remember it takes one night to catch something u have to live with for a lifetime
[This message was edited Mon May 5 18:26:43 PDT 2003 by DigitalLisa] Are you talkin about babies or infections? either or ... Well if a woman has her tubes tied or a man has his thang cut you dont have to worry about babies and as far as infections go, use protection. Do you know how much it cost to get ur tubes tide, you know how much the american spends on contraceptives within a yr, it's a billion dollar industry and damn I swear I'm broke, why pay money when all you have to do is keep ur legs crossed in the first place  Beside Condoms doesn't prevent 100%,Condoms break and condoms can't prevent you from getting herpes and sometimes you tubes can come unloose after the operation, I know cuz a friend of mines still had a baby even though she so called had her tubes tide[This message was edited Mon May 5 18:50:20 PDT 2003 by DigitalLisa] | |
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DigitalLisa said: Paisley said: DigitalLisa said: Paisley said: DigitalLisa said: damn some of y'all just don't have self discipline, lol
have u ever thought about, besides religion that saving ur self can be a way to prove ur strength and weaknesses, especially when it comes to love... sex weakens the mind... after u have it ... u tend to think u need it, which is not the case at all, when u not having sex it's not on ur mind all the time, u have better things to think about... all in all the morale to this story is... self discipline, stop thinking about the spur of the moment, and try to maintain urself u animals, cuz remember it takes one night to catch something u have to live with for a lifetime
[This message was edited Mon May 5 18:26:43 PDT 2003 by DigitalLisa] Are you talkin about babies or infections? either or ... Well if a woman has her tubes tied or a man has his thang cut you dont have to worry about babies and as far as infections go, use protection. Do you know how much it cost to get ur tubes tide, you know how much the american spends on contraceptives within a yr, it's a billion dollar industry and damn I swear I'm broke, why pay money when all you have to do is keep ur legs crossed in the first place Beside Condoms doesn't prevent 100%,Condoms break and condoms can't prevent you from getting herpes and sometimes you tubes can come unloose after the operation, I know cuz a friend of mines still had a baby even though she so called had her tubes tide
[This message was edited Mon May 5 18:50:20 PDT 2003 by DigitalLisa] Well it's a chance you have to take. | |
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sex is an important part of a romantic relationship but it can also cloud judgement as well. Some people fall in love with the sex and will overlook huge relationship flaws that they wouldn't if they were in a nonsexual situation. So saving yourself for marriage or not, it's important to really know the person who you are in a relationship with before adding sex into the mix. Unless you're just looking for a one nighter. | |
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is it possible 2 stay with some1 even if the sex ain't so good? Love would have 2 b the Key Factor, ofcourse... Peace ... & Stay Funky ...
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PurpleLove7 said: is it possible 2 stay with some1 even if the sex ain't so good? Love would have 2 b the Key Factor, ofcourse...
Trust me it's very hard 2 do...but if u love enough and u have other things in common u do.and u get really good at pleasing ur self  [This message was edited Tue May 6 9:56:04 PDT 2003 by Sweeny79] In spite of the cost of living, it's still popular. |
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DigitalLisa said: damn some of y'all just don't have self discipline, lol
have u ever thought about, besides religion that saving ur self can be a way to prove ur strength and weaknesses, especially when it comes to love... sex weakens the mind... after u have it ... u tend to think u need it, which is not the case at all, when u not having sex it's not on ur mind all the time, u have better things to think about... all in all the morale to this story is... self discipline, stop thinking about the spur of the moment, and try to maintain urself u animals, cuz remember it takes one night to catch something u have to live with for a lifetime
[This message was edited Mon May 5 18:26:43 PDT 2003 by DigitalLisa] I do have self discipline it's just that right now is not the time to control my urges. I'm leaving somethings for when I get married like putting a man's name on my body, meeting his parents, catching it or swallowing, starting a family and I will be staying with him for more than 4 years. There are other things,but I forgot my DADDY reads this stuff and I don't want to hear his mouth. I'm BAD's FIRST BORN Baby Girl
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Paisley said: DigitalLisa said: Paisley said: DigitalLisa said: Paisley said: DigitalLisa said: damn some of y'all just don't have self discipline, lol
have u ever thought about, besides religion that saving ur self can be a way to prove ur strength and weaknesses, especially when it comes to love... sex weakens the mind... after u have it ... u tend to think u need it, which is not the case at all, when u not having sex it's not on ur mind all the time, u have better things to think about... all in all the morale to this story is... self discipline, stop thinking about the spur of the moment, and try to maintain urself u animals, cuz remember it takes one night to catch something u have to live with for a lifetime
[This message was edited Mon May 5 18:26:43 PDT 2003 by DigitalLisa] Are you talkin about babies or infections? either or ... Well if a woman has her tubes tied or a man has his thang cut you dont have to worry about babies and as far as infections go, use protection. Do you know how much it cost to get ur tubes tide, you know how much the american spends on contraceptives within a yr, it's a billion dollar industry and damn I swear I'm broke, why pay money when all you have to do is keep ur legs crossed in the first place Beside Condoms doesn't prevent 100%,Condoms break and condoms can't prevent you from getting herpes and sometimes you tubes can come unloose after the operation, I know cuz a friend of mines still had a baby even though she so called had her tubes tide
[This message was edited Mon May 5 18:50:20 PDT 2003 by DigitalLisa] Well it's a chance you have to take. SEE THAT THE THING YOU NOT HAVE TO TAKE CHANCE AT ALL! SILLY [This message was edited Tue May 6 12:27:17 PDT 2003 by POOK] P o o |/, P o o |\ | |
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I'm waiting until marriage for sex and oral sex.  Perhaps more too! | |
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i'm not 'waiting' for anything...life is too short to postpone something i want. a) i'm not religious and b) i do have control...it's been almost a year since i had sex and it's certainly not because of lack of opportunity...i haven't found the next person i would like to share myself with...i practice abstinance-by-choice frequently...
personally i don't see the point of waiting...but for me thats a mute point since i lost my virginity almost 14 years ago.. you're only as old as you feel..............so how old do i feel
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lillith said: i'm not 'waiting' for anything...life is too short to postpone something i want. a) i'm not religious and b) i do have control...it's been almost a year since i had sex and it's certainly not because of lack of opportunity...i haven't found the next person i would like to share myself with...i practice abstinance-by-choice frequently...
personally i don't see the point of waiting...but for me thats a mute point since i lost my virginity almost 14 years ago.. if u abstain could u still masturbate?? or does that Defeat the purpose of abstaining?? Peace ... & Stay Funky ...
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