Please read the contents of this thread:
http://www.prince.org/msg...&tid=47884
Was I in correct in taking these statements offensively, as I also did on DigitalLisa's previous thread about bisexuality: http://www.prince.org/msg...&tid=40623 , which I posted a response thread to? http://www.prince.org/msg...&tid=40756

Also based on my debating on the above "curiousity..." thread I would like to know if I could join the ranks of the esteemed and powerful Org Gay Mafia.

edited to provide additional url's
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Why would you want to be part of any kind of Mafia?

Can't you stay individual?

I get lonely gooey...and that's not the main question I was asking dammit! just kidding I love

Well...

Are you hot?

I tried to read the threads you linked, AprilMichelle, really I did. But I got so fucking ill I had to stop. I find the type of ignorance on display so fucking offensive to my delicate fucking sensibilities. And as people who are that hardcore-ignorant can't be reasoned with, I've quit trying for the most part, and just try to be happy.

I agree with you 100 percent on the fluid nature of human sexuality. I much prefer women, but I couldn't in all honesty call myself absolutely gay and nothing else. I've loved men before and there are men I find attractive. There are very few people who, if they were capable of complete honesty, could be classified as 100 percent gay or 100 percent straight.

Yes I was very offended too....I justwanted to make sure I wasn't the only one who found something offensive in the statements made.

As for my being hot.....Dammit Funkmistress that wasn't the issue I was getting at either lol
but there's a pic in my profile I'm the blonde obviously.
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AprilMichelle said:

I find it interesting and pathetic. Digital Lisa makes it sound like gay men are just waiting around for the straight boys. As if we're just there waiting around to serve blow jobs to hard up straight boys whose girlfriends won't put out...my take is this...if these boys are in gay clubs for the sole purpose of a blow job...then there is a good possibility that they might be bisexual...

AprilMichelle said:

AprilMichelle, I think DigitalLisa is just being inquisitive. I know it's a touchy subject, but I have to admit I had the same questions she had when I started to come out.

I hooked up with several "straight" guys. In retrospect, some were genuinely straight and only looking for head, others became full blown homosexuals a few years later and stepped out of the closet, and some were genuinely bi. In fact I shot wedding pictures last year for one of my Ex's (long story..).

I took her posts as being light hearted, silly, but full of questions. If everyone feels like their gonna get their head ripped off for asking questions about homosexuality unless they are super careful to make every last word PC, they may not ask the questions at all.

I kind of skimmed over the threads between you and her so maybe i missed something but it sounds like you two are just misinterpereting eachothers posts.
[This message was edited Fri May 9 8:49:53 PDT 2003 by Tom]

I don't think Lisa is trying to be offensive. I think she is genuinely curious.

That said, I wish straight guys were hanging out at gay bars for BJs. I'd be more than happy to oblige Truthfully, this aint happening where I live and doubt it is anywhere else.

As for the Bi thing, I don't doubt for one second that Bisexuality exists but I do know that I also claimed to be bisexual when I first came out. It seemed to lessen the shock of it all. I'm not even 1% attracted to women sexually... I think a lot of people say they are bi because at least they can lay hold to the claim that they are half "normal"...

like SUPA said, i beleive she is curious.

but there's a difference between being curious and asking QUESTIONS and making a (rather dumb) STATEMENT that all BI people are ALL the way gay.

THAT is like saying All priveleged white kids like the ones we recently saw on dateline are prone to savage behavior.

(both presumptuios naive statements)

Maybe she has lived a sheltered life.

Cant really hate her for that.

Anyway, as a self proclaimed BI person I would like to let DLisa know that yes, we do exsist and yes we ARE real.

I don't really feel I have a need to limit myself to one sex. As far back as I can remember I've always been attracted to both.

I've had relationships that lasted for YEARS with both.

Currently I am "involved" with one of each sex.

Yes they know about each other. She thinks it's a turn on to watch.

For him it was the first time ever being with a woman.

I've never been so satisfied in my ENTIRE life i must say.

That being said, Dlisa: come to NY and live alittle.

OR get out of the house more.

OR go online and chat in a BI room.

I think a more ACURATE thing to say is that maybe we are
more attracted to one sex than the other.

Pimpdoutt, that was your 69th post!

FunkMistress said:

the irony of it all...

I think it's just really hard for straight people (and probably some gay people) to understand how gender can be, for some of us, not really relevant. But yeah, she asked her questions in a way that made it seem that she had already more or less made up her mind.

I'm way happy to entertain all manner of questions, even ones that sound really dumb to my ears, but it is nice if people ask like they really want to know, rather than like they just want a chance to say what they think.

In any case, the 'bisexuals are just confused' bit that is so common is. . .well, old. We may be confused, but we're confused with lots of options. Come on over here and let me kiss you, and maybe you too can be confused!

It is a misunderstanding y'all, cuz I will go to a gay club before a straigt club in a minute, at least I don't have to worry about some dude I don't want to talk to hit on me all night and plus gay clubs have the best music to dance too

DigitalLisa said:

open mouth, insert foot :LOL:

you know, I quit, this is really not fun anymore

DigitalLisa said:

You better not quit. Learn to hang, i'm effin witcha. But i will leave you alone if it's too much for you :LOL:

SuperC said:

I gotta take this azz whipping cuz if I don't I will have to go home 2 face my mama and I don't want none of that
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