I'VE HAD A FRIEND FOR 15 YEARS WE DID JUST ABOUT EVERYTHING TOGEATHER. AS WE GOT OLDER THINGS CHANGED BETWEEN US, BESIDES THE EVERYDAY NORMAL STUFF. OVER THE PAST 8 YEARS I STAYED AWAY KEEPING A DISTENCE BETWEEN US BECAUSE OF THE PHYSICAL RELATIONSHIP WE ONCE HAD, I EXPLAINED THAT I WAS'NT INTERESTED IN HAVING A RELATIONSHIP WITH THEM, OTHER THAN A REGULAR FRIENDSHIP AFTER THE FACT THAT WE HAD BEEN INTIMATE. THIS PERSON DOES'NT UNDERSTAND THAT I'M NOT INTERESTED IN THEM IN THAT WAY ANYMORE, NOW THIS PERSON'S IN SOME SORT OF RELIGION WHERE EVERY THING THEY DO, HAS TO BE APPROVED BY A CRYSTAL IN WHICH THEY SPEAK TO THERE "HIGHER POWER". THEY USE THIS CRYSTAL EVERYDAY FOR WHATEVER THEY NEED TO KNOW AND THERE TRYING TO GET ME TO BE AROUND THEM MORE OFTEN. I EXPLAINED THAT I HAD NO INTEREST IN WHATEVER IT IS THAT THERE DOING, NOW I'M THE ONE THAT'S NOT BEING A "FRIEND" ANYMORE AND THE TIME THAT ONCE WAS SHARED BETWEEN US I TREAT LIKE IT MENT NOTHING. NOW COME ON YALL, I'M GROWN, TELL ME THIS DOES'NT SOUND LIKE SOME SORT OF CULT. I THINK MY FRIEND IS BRAINWASHED BY THE "LEADER" IN WHICH THERE IN A INTIMATE RELATIONSHIP WITH AND THERE MAD AT ME BECAUSE I'VE MOVED ON WITH MY LIFE AND I'M NOT GIVING THEM AN OPPORTUNITY TO TRY AND BRAINWASH ME, SO THAT THE'LL HAVE ME INVOLVED IN THERE LITTLE CULT/SEXCAPAIDE. WHAT DO YOU ALL THINK SERIOUSLY???

are you dating prince?

DAG!!! THAT'S DOGGED. BUT FUNNY.

yes, this is a cult! sounds like a very strange situation! i don't know if you believe in Jesus or not, but i would try and tell your friends about him.

peace to you, and i hope it all works out!! i know it's hard to be shut out by your friends.

Christopher said:

that's funny! hehehe!

Eyuridice73 said:

eheh i was just kidding

break that boys crystal!

It sounds like something I'd totally avoid. If you are worried about your friend, I'd just do you best to try to counself them out of this thing they've gotten involved in.

Eyuridice73 said:

Live your "own" life and let his life go the path he chooses for it...if they can't respect your wishes with YOUR life...YOU need to simply let them go.

DexMSR said:

Exactly, well said Dex

Hey,guys thanks for the advice that's exactly what I felt, I believe in God. I don't even want to know what goes on over there with them, I don't call this person because of the fact that I've moved on years ago, this persons just comming out of a long relationship with someone that they say they never truley loved and there feelings for me are true ect..., I feel that there only trying to reach out to me again to find something to hold on to because there confused. They constintly call me asking why we have to end the relationship completely, I told them I'm not comfortable with your situation and you can't take the fact that I'm not longer interested in the relationship they want. Supposedly I'm the only one who this person is still in contact with out of all the people they once had around them I wonder why???, anyways I'm just going to change my number.