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PrintableJDINTERACTIVE said: I usually push people away from me. Although Ive never cheated on any1 in my life. So I guess my opinion is wortheless.
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I suppose what really matters, is what the expectation is from a relationship. If you expect nothing and have a detached way of relating, then I think it works. | |
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It means my view is a little skewed towards the negative about long term commited relationships(marriage). I have a cynical view of it. I believe it can work, but i just think the chances are slim of finding that lifelong loving mate. My parents are still together, my grandparents are still together. But then they were born in a totally different generation. Hey j-j-jaded edit [This message was edited Fri May 2 23:55:24 PDT 2003 by SuperC] I think ur problem is r lookin at everyone else and judging ur relationship on what could have beens, when the real point of it is how good were u guys 2 gether, and if it just couldnt go on no longer, then it couldnt go on no longer. How old r u anyway? Straight Jacket Funk Affair
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SuperC, I have shared this with many people here at the Org so this is for you.
Reason When someone one is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed Outwardly or inwardly. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up or act out and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled; their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and it is now time to move on. Season When people come into your life for a SEASON, it is because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They may bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real. But, only for a season. Lifetime LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons; things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person, and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship clairvoyant. ^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^
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SuperC said: What can make two people who said the wanted to die together, all of the sudden want to kill each other? I have my opinion and i'm jaded as phuck. I want to hear your opinion.
Quite simply, they are JUST relationships when it all comes down to it. We put the label of "marriage" on it, and it becomes a pressure point in the relationship to actually work. Marriage is no different than any other relationship, except for the bullshit societal pressure bestowed upon it by those idiot "sheep" that seem to think that getting married is the final solidifying moment, when in REALITY...people grow apart, ideals change, reassessing takes place. There are a plethora of reasons that relationships fail or just don't workout...to place so much pressure on a marriage just makes it even harder to stay in one! Relationships fail, marriages fail...move on! The man who does not read good books has no advantage over the man who cannot read them. -- Mark Twain.
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SuperC said: What can make two people who said the wanted to die together, all of the sudden want to kill each other? I have my opinion and i'm jaded as phuck. I want to hear your opinion.
Just don't let it stop you from getting close to another... The man who does not read good books has no advantage over the man who cannot read them. -- Mark Twain.
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pejman said: JDINTERACTIVE said: I usually push people away from me. Although Ive never cheated on any1 in my life. So I guess my opinion is wortheless.
Your opinion is never worthless JD!!! Thanks 4 all this free advice. Hopefully I wont fuck up next time around. | |
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sag10 said: SuperC, I have shared this with many people here at the Org so this is for you.
Reason When someone one is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed Outwardly or inwardly. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up or act out and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled; their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and it is now time to move on. Season When people come into your life for a SEASON, it is because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They may bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real. But, only for a season. Lifetime LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons; things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person, and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship clairvoyant. That was very well said.  | |
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