applekisses said:

an Org lovefest awww

Slave2daGroove said:

In my view loneliness is a state of mind which causes you to feel "lonely". Once a person realises they are not lonely, they won't feel it.

CalhounSq said:

This is so true! I just got out of my relationship of 7 years but I have been lonely for a good 5 years! Sucks to be lonely! But I hold on to fate that one day my Mr. Right will come sweep me off my feet and for once I WILL live happily ever after!!

BTW... Huge to Cborg, my org brother!!

and 's to the rest of the lonely people!!

for you to, sister Luv

thank you.

wow, all these people sending me little positive notes, thank you.
very sweet of you all.
now if you wanna make it even better, someone shoot Lammastide with a tranquilizer dart, giftwrap him and overnight him down to texas for me...

i will give like a million gold org stars to the person that can trap him for me with no damage

Do you wan't him in regular clothes or evening wear lol

zobilamouche said:

i imagine he looks like a god in a tuxedo...

but having an unconcious man come to in a tuxedo and an unfamiliar place would make me rather james bond villan, wouldn't it?

i guess i am okay with the bond thing, will just have to come up with a bond name... so yea, tuxedo.

How about "Goldengay" ???
sounds appropriate no??
is that small pic an image of him??
and CBORg; is that you on the avatar??

How about "Goldengay" ???
sounds appropriate no??



what about "GoldFaggot"?
man, now i am gonna be hearing
"GoldFaggot... WAAAH WAH WAAAH!"
in my head all day.

is that small pic an image of him??


dunno. never had the fortune of seeing a real pic of him, but i think it is either him or vin diesel. i have a mental picture of what he looks like based on his lovely personality... silly, i know.

and CBORg; is that you on the avatar??

it's a cartoon version of me, yea, and call me Chris.
it's a drawing a friend of mine did, and i love it so much i use it for the logo of my production company


"Bond villan or Bond Double agent?" edit
[This message was edited Wed Apr 30 10:35:12 PDT 2003 by cborgman]

I've felt lonely all my life but it doesn't make me feel unhappy. I reckon I just parked my spacecraft on the wrong planet. I've just never fit in. I'm not like the rest of you!

cborgman said:

Howzabout: James DONG?

Cloudbuster said:

No just like me, an Alien

:LOL:
cute, banana... wanna be my henchman?

okay, we need to quit jacking this beautiful thread with goofy james bond stuff. i am gonna start a new thread so this one gets back to it's original topic

Being lonely; or having had that feeling has one plus to it; you don't feel obliged to conform to others. If you're on your own, you might as well do as you please. same with being gay at 16 without a rolemodel; when they think your different, why even bother to be the same. So in a sense; loneliness=freedom??

Slave2daGroove said:

WA-HEY!!!

How u doin' brother?

Cloudbuster said:

I know what you mean. It's a feeling like any other, and you can just sort of accept and experience it. I enjoy intense emotions, even "sad" ones.

I'm married to my best friend and I still feel lonely sometimes. We're all ultimately stuck inside our own heads, you know? Corny though it is, I guess I think it's important to love being in your own company, and when you do, you realize that loneliness is something you can be ok with. Or I can, anyway.

tackam said:

Spot on assessment.

CalhounSq said:

Yes, I felt very lonely with my ex-husband. Even after being together for 10 years. I tried to make it work, but after I started fooling around, and liking it, I figured it was time to make for a change. I feel less lonely now that I'm single.

zobilamouche said:

Wow. That's the most insightful thing i've read on here for a while. I think loneliness can equate to freedom if you just let yourself focus on the positives.

When I was a teenager, and gay and lonely at school, it depressed me for quite a while. But once I realised that there was nothing I could do about it, I reveleed in being different, and it made me question all of my other beliefs.

That led me to question all forms of dicrimination in the world, and helped me to form the political beliefs that are central to me to this day. Without that loneliness i don't know if i'd ever have questioned things, and would have ended up a conservative like my parents.

Thanks zobi, that's a really positive contribution.

Just doing my best here
That's why I told CBORGMAN the story about me meeting my boyfriend when I decided it was best being on my own, and actually felt good about it (and not peptalking myself into it). People notice that, and find it attractive. They no longer see a guy craving for a relationship; but someone with his two feet in life and taking control of it for as much as he can. Not taking crap. It seems they find that sexy
boyfriend is not complaining

zobilamouche said:

god bless ya, zobila

Cloudbuster said:

feeling fine up here...
I'll beam you up a bit later on

zobi - i take it you're named after the song by Les Negresses Vertes?

Love that song, haven't heard it in years, must dig it out.

Yup - I just love that song! (album=mlah)
i saw them live once - very nice; but the singer overdosed; so it's all different now.
I think many orgers leave me to it because they can't make out what to make of my name

me lonely now tooo; boyfriend on small trip without me
just wait till he gets back

Sometimes I feel lonely cuz I don't have a woman currently...all I have to do is go around one of my friends who's in a rocky relationship then I remind myself of what I longed for during my shitty relationships... to be alone.

Slave2daGroove said:

In that, you're not alone .
Many in that crowd will be like you, and me too.
Though that's not what would make me feel lonely.
Now that I think of it, I almost never feel lonely. Though I'd be very lonely without my girlfriend...