some of y´all probly think this is kinda risky in these days of rona but yall dont know that this been going on for a while now....our relationship started pre-rona....so I´m in this relationship with my girlfriend she in her 30s her dude kinda flexible but he dont know about me yet but it kinda hurts because I think I´m falling in love with her but she dont want to leave him because he works at a college and is kinda smart and rich.

it s not like she wants an MFM threesome tho I think she wouldnt say no either cause they kinky like that but she dont want him to know about me so she asks me to be extra careful ....

which is aight butt she kinda paranoid and wants me to use his fragrance so she dont smell like me so I kinda smell like her smartass hubby and its been kinda messing with my mind lately maybe it´s the age difference maybe it´s because she is a Leo.. . she dont want him to know about me saying she dont want to hurt his feelings but what about me? friends tell me to break up with her but like my man Prince said they dont know the things she does when we´re all alone.

so now I´m smelling like her dude so he dont know about me but it also kinda turns her on and she always wants me to hit it raw but I´m feeling conflicted about this

she dont respect my feelings

You wearing her man's cologne, you already a sucka.

NEVER be the other one. Don't be the other man, the other woman, just don't do it. Don't be an interloper, a homewrecker or anything like it. Sure, it's her decision to cheat or do whatever it is she's doing, but you don't have to be part of that.

If you do choose to be part of it, ya get what ya get. It's a stupid move. So... don't be stupid here.

TrivialPursuit said:

You wearing her man's cologne, you already a sucka.

NEVER be the other one. Don't be the other man, the other woman, just don't do it. Don't be an interloper, a homewrecker or anything like it. Sure, it's her decision to cheat or do whatever it is she's doing, but you don't have to be part of that.

If you do choose to be part of it, ya get what ya get. It's a stupid move. So... don't be stupid here.

some of my colleagues especially the females at work kinda make fun of me because dude´s cologne is so not my style and I smell like an old man these days ....but I´m not even sure if she wants me to smell like him cuz she dont want him to find out about us because he might leave her or whoop her ass or because she dont want to hurt his feelings or simply because it turns her on

she pacifically wants me to wear dude´s cologne on certain weekdays and she kinda loves the way I smell after a couple of hours but I think it just stinks and shit is fucking up my sinuses as well

she also dont want me to wear Nike sneakers when I´m with her because she cant stand Michael Jordan

TrivialPursuit said:

sometimes she wants me to hit her raw after he hit her raw or go downtown after dude jizzed in her but I find that gross but she thinks it´s aight cuz she got the vaccine

alphastreet said:

TrivialPursuit said:

You wearing her man's cologne, you already a sucka.

NEVER be the other one. Don't be the other man, the other woman, just don't do it. Don't be an interloper, a homewrecker or anything like it. Sure, it's her decision to cheat or do whatever it is she's doing, but you don't have to be part of that.

If you do choose to be part of it, ya get what ya get. It's a stupid move. So... don't be stupid here.

Agree with this

but I´m not stupid at all I´m having a good time with her and her husband probly aight with all this it´s just that my feelings for her are getting stronger so why some of yall so uptight ? folks get down in so many ways these days.......

but I appreciate your feedback

I really do

but the passion is just too strong

you have no idea...she is really really hot...a true raven.,,,vixen....femme fatale. scarlett lady

I always end up in situations like this around this time of the year when summer ends and the leaves fall .....

yall probly been in similar situations too.

sometimes wanting is better than having

onlyforaminute said:

You are whipped.

maybe so but she so hot.

and for all intensive purposes he´s the one being cheated on.....and I think he´s aight with that but I am not so sure...she is very vague about it but she dont want me to use my own cologne and she is concerned about his feelings......he kinda old and unpredictable but I have this feeling that he knows whats going on but it kinda turns both of them on.

sure nuff feeling used but she is so passionate....

it´s better than being lonely and masturbating all the damn time

never thought I´d be catching feelings tho.

but she hot like that.

PJMcGee said:

She's controlling. & you're controllable.

maybe so

but I´m just worried that if I give her an ultimatum she might prefer him over being with my broke ass in the long run and then I end up being lonely again...this whole isolation thing when the rona first came up messed with my mind big time so I thought I´d be aight with this current scenario.....little did I know I´d develop feelings for her. If he wasn´t sexing her raw I guess I´d be aight with it but I feeling kinda like a side chick here and it grosses me out

but then again who really wants to be lonely?

I´d rather be controlled and pussy whipped than having another jerkathon winter

and like I said....she´s a Leo and you know what they say about Leo women as far as sex is concerned.

Arnold is a Leo, too.

Kylie Jenner, too.

PJMcGee said:

The lights go out, the smell of doom Is creepin' into your lonely room The bed's on fire Your fate is sealed And you're so tired And the reason is Camille-mille, Shockadelica The girl must be a witch She got your mind, body, and soul hitched, Shockadelica

unfortunately that´s exactly my situation....she´s so hot...so passionate....so kinky

All my partners ask me why I take so much abuse
Why am I so faithful, honey, why are you so loose?
Why am I the one who never gets to take you home?
They don't know the things you do to me when we're alone

If I had, I wouldn't tell you...

By the way, I've had many menage a trois. Some with married couples, some with just two friends. It was all consensual and all incredibly fun.

Phase3 said:

Could you have sex with her with her man being naked with his big dong out in front of you? I know I couldn't

Hey bro, ignore the doubters on here.

Yeah you might get burned but that's life right ?

And you know what could happen if he finds out...

the guys always do I'm just telling you.

Some people (being PC here ) don't know technology like their spouse,

and some dudes put spyware on their spouses' phones no matter what app they're using.

Just be careful #1 and more importantly - be careful with your heart.

If you're falling for her - she's probably not going to leave him, ever, especially if there are kids involved.

RufusRawfield said:

sometimes she wants me to hit her raw after he hit her raw or go downtown after dude jizzed in her but I find that gross but she thinks it´s aight cuz she got the vaccine

What??!!

Not my bag. I'm one on one type.

Abdul said:

RufusRawfield said:

sometimes she wants me to hit her raw after he hit her raw or go downtown after dude jizzed in her but I find that gross but she thinks it´s aight cuz she got the vaccine

What??!!

i know right?

and i know it sounds nasty but she says it´s ok if I just hit dat clit, nahmean?

like, lick it in circles, around it, without going in too deep so that I dont get to lick his jizz, plus she kinda cleans her vajayjay but still grosses me out

she kinda feels sorry for him

I´m kind of an inbetween snack for her. she likes the sexxxin and says he aint as creative as I am but he do be packin but then again, his erections aint as firm as mine (her words, not mine).

he kinda uptight, too.

she aint that worried about him finding out and going berzerk, she is more concerned about him feeling sad and broken if he finds out

dude already hinted at doing MFM DP DVP threesomes but I dont want to rub dick with him cuz I barely know homie

I aint prejudiced but most of those academic folks kinda kinky and into threesomes on the downlow

if she wasn´t so hot and passionate I´d just let go and find someone else but this fucking rona thing kinda fucked up my chances of finding a quality female so I gotta get in where I fit in.

beggars cant be chosers is what they say

but still

I only human and I got feelings, too.

But then again I cant spend another fall season all by myself watching porn

she is so hot and beautiful.

but Im starting to hate dude´s perfume

makes me feel old and uncomfortable

just not my kinda scent

kewlschool said:

Not my bag. I'm one on one type.

i used to be like that, too but these days ....I gotta compromise