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I’m trapped in love with a woman who’s engaged Now, let me start this off by saying going after and chasing a woman who is engaged or really serious with their partner is morally wrong. Unless of course the relationship is toxic and clearly about to end. That’s the only exception, but don’t interfere until you know for sure what the situation is.
Now, this girl i met at work. I was interested in dating other girls at the time and i had just learned that she’s engaged so i just wanted her and i to be friends. Felt i’d only like her as a friend anyways We met last year, started talking a lot around September. We went to a movie together. Lately we talk a lot Anyways, so the point is over time i just developed feelings for her. There’s things about her I can’t help but love. I feel deep down inside she feels something too. She has teased me a lot But yeah it hurts because i know it’s healthy and common sense to just go after single girls, but at the same time i just finally wanna go after her and i know i can’t. I wanna continue being friends with her but ik know as time goes on the pain will just get worse and worse... and the “wait and see” mindset seems unrealistic Idk what to do. She’s one of the best friends i ever had. She truly understands me. | |
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Are you sure you are in love, knowing someone a year is not long enough. Attraction, lust - definitely. Both of you are co-workers, that can cause problems. |
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wtf??!! 
Ohh purple joy oh purple bliss oh purple rapture! REAL MUSIC by REAL MUSICIANS - Prince "I kind of wish there was a reason for Prince to make the site crash more" ~~ Ben |
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that is a good point. it could be because i talk to her the most | |
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"Music gives a soul to the universe, wings to the mind, flight to the imagination and life to everything." --Plato
https://youtu.be/CVwv9LZMah0 | |
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I think you should end it cause it’s not good for your well being long term. I’m sure you’ll meet someone else later | |
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You are in control of your mind, not trapped in anything. | |
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“The thing that is blind is not love but attachment. An attachment is the state of clinging that comes from the false belief that something or someone is necessary for your happiness.” Good night, sweet Prince | 7 June 1958 - 21 April 2016
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As with all addictive behaviors... Time keeps on slipping into the future...
This moment is all there is... |
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VOTE....EARLY | |
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Nothing but heartache......or worse at the end of this rainbow. FOOLS multiply when WISE Men & Women are silent. | |
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So her fiance was ok with you taking her out to a movie? Yeah, I call BS on that ... www.filmsfilmsfilms.co.uk - The internet's best movie site! | |
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Why is she going to the movies with another man if she's engaged? And if she feels the same toward you how could you ever trust her? If she cheats on her fiance to be with you, eventually she will cheat on you. That's how this works. | |
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I read this as 'enraged'. Sorry, as you were. MY COUSIN WORKS IN A PHARMACY AND SHE SAID THEY ENEMA'D PRANCE INTO OBLIVION WITH FENTONILS!! | |
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"Music gives a soul to the universe, wings to the mind, flight to the imagination and life to everything." --Plato
https://youtu.be/CVwv9LZMah0 | |
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Graycap23 said: Nothing but heartache.....or worse at the end of this rainbow. Indeed. Let this one go. | |
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"if you can't clap on the one, then don't clap at all" | |
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full of something besides avocados. There was another long heartbreak thread with the woman he works with at the grocery store who went back with her ex right before Christmas yada yada yadaSeriously, I think you need to feel comfortable in your own skin with being on your own. It’s almost as though you feel validated by being with someone unavailable to you, and that can’t be good for your self esteem long term [Edited 6/15/20 16:25pm] | |
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