Hi! My wife left 11 days ago &...please give advice!Thanks!

no warning? At all? Even from friends?

Miko said:

My husband left me (and our 2 year old son) out of the blue. That was 4 years ago. There is no advice for that. It fucking hurts. Let it hurt. Go through it. Don't force yourself to get "over it." One day it will start to hurt a little less. It never dies, but it becomes so faint that it barely exists. And you will love and appreciate the next love more for having gone through it. These things I can promise. I'm sorry, guy. I truly, truly am.

Well you obviously did something wrong.

Yes! Paisley i did the worst thing anyone can -Love & Trust someone unconditionally! My mistake!

Miko said:

lol

rdhull said:

you cold blooded, he could be in pain rd

No one will ever be able to give you advice that is right for your situation, since you and only you have lived through this and only you and her know the whole truth about what happened.

I'm sorry for your loss.

give the guy a break rdhull or is it rod hull??

(where's emu?)

Seriously, I wish you luck and hope you get some correspondence from her so you understand at least why she has gone.

peace

so sorry that happened...i don't know if you believe in God or not, but he is a great help in times like these.

bless you
[This message was edited Wed Apr 23 22:09:12 PDT 2003 by kimrachell]

Did you tie her up and then sleep for 12 hours? Do you have a friend named crazyhorse?

Blackcat said:

he's lying! This is Bliss or Shaus! I know it is!!

rdhull said:

not guilty... for real

Scott Peterson, Jr. here...

Imma get to the bottom of this by hook or by crook! Icenine put that brainiac noggin of yours to good use and find out about this joker!

rdhull said:[quote]Imma get to the bottom of this by hook or by crook! Icenine put that brainiac noggin of yours to good use and find out about this joker It's real as real can get rdhull - all i'm looking 4 is some good advice what to do

I am not sure if you are being serious or not??!!

If you are, are her things gone?



are you serious edit
[This message was edited Wed Apr 23 22:44:19 PDT 2003 by luv4thepurple1]

thanks 4thepurpleone!I looked around & some of her stuff was gone please E-mail if u would want to continue this...

Miko... that is the name of my roommates cat

It's the name of one of my former cats-MBGITW

in all seriousness... if this is true... hang in there dude

I don't know the circumstances or the reasons as to why she left and it's none of my business. But if she left because you had been abusive in some way, then I can see where it is justified. You do deserve it.

However if she left because she was screwing around with another guy or something to that effect, then my friend you are MUCH better off having that bitch go. You'll have to realize that she didn't really love you or she wouldn't have done something like this. You are not to blame, she is.

I hate that double standard. When a man leaves a woman, he's no good and a dog. All sympathy is with the woman. But if a woman leaves a man, then the man "must have done SOMETHING wrong" to cause her to leave. If the same thing is said to a woman, "Well you must have deserved it, you must have done something wrong", the ya-ya sisterhood would be in an uproar...

Man just hang in there. Like I said if you were an asshole to her then you DO deserve it and I have NO sympathy for you. But if she just up and left for no reason, then she is a worthless bitch. If you want a bitch in your life get a dog. If you want a woman in your life, be a man and love her.

Don't know about U, but my friend stayed on his so much hugging and his org girlfriend that he
did not know his wife was gone until his computer crashed and the house started to smell bad.

SensualMelody said:

rdhull, you are such an ass

Miko said:

Miko, you should have loved and trusted your wife instead!

Miko said:

Miko I am so sorry to hear this I wish I could help you and I mean that sincerely

Miko said:

1) THERE ARE ALWAYS 'WARNING SIGNS' YOU JUST DIDN'T PICK UP ON THEM.

2) IF YOU DIDN'T PICK UP ON THEM, YOU PROLLY DIDN'T PAY
ATTENTION TO A LOT OF THINGS IN THAT RELATIONSHIP.

3) I HAVE NO IDEA WHUT IT MUST FEEL LIKE TO BE IN YOUR SHOES.

4) YOU SHOULD OF CALL THE COPS AFTER 24 HOURS, JUST TO
KEEP YOURSELF IN THE CLEAR...

JUST KEEP SINGING "I GOT ALONG WITHOUT YOU BEFORE I MET YOU
I CAN GET ALONG WITHOUT YOU NOW!!!"

If you still care about her, my advice is get her back. Do whatever you have to do and work on why she left.

Slave2daGroove said:

YEAH... AFTER ONE HAS FUCKED UP, OR NOT FUCKED UP,
THE DOOR-MAT APPROACH IS ALWAYS GOOD.
THERE'S NOTHING LIKE WALKING ON EGGSHELLS IN ONES OWN HOUSE
WAITING FOR THE NEXT FOOTFALLS