Long story short, this particular female whom I have been trying to get up with, ask out on date, and get to know etc., feels like she was trying to get to know me..well, i have a female friend, just friends, who I am cool with and we hang out..nothing sexual or nothing like that..me and the friend have seen the female in particular who I like and she probably thought we're an item, but not!! So one particular day I was with a guy buddy of mine and the female in particular comes and sits right beside me and asks me where's my girlfriend or don't you have one?. and she continues to talk and laugh with me..so question males and females, was she making herself available to me? Was she trying to see what I'd do if she came over? or, was she just been friendly? Mind you she has never been close up on me like that. we just speak and say hello in passing..Am i reading too much into it?

How old are you?

All those questions you are asking us........... ask her.

LOL, yeah - what luv4u said. Ask her out. If she says "Yes" then treat her like a lady. If she says "No" then respect that and move on.

P.S.: You are not trying to "get female!!!" You're trying to see if a young lady is interested in you. Just put yourself in her shoes and ask yourself what her reaction would be if she read this thread.

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Not calling her a "female" might be a good start.

StrangeButTrue said:

Well in that case, it seems most effective to try to impersonate the average human male. I'd suggest glasses with a large plastic nose and a moustache, a cigarette, and a cheap suit.

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Or possibly an eye-catching piece of apparel that will attract your mate, such as:

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So glad to be done with this thought process now that I'm OAF (old as fuck).

Can't believe how much energy I wasted on "wondering", it's part of life I guess.

Fred just ask her directly and be nice about it. It's not the same as being pushy if you're genuine and think she may be interested.

If she says "No, I don't feel that way about you" then apologize for misreading the situation and move on, this is what friends do.

StrangeButTrue said:

Well in that case, it seems most effective to try to impersonate the average human male. I'd suggest glasses with a large plastic nose and a moustache, a cigarette, and a cheap suit.

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Or possibly an eye-catching piece of apparel that will attract your mate, such as:

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Would love to be a fly on that wall.

Trying to get a female. Sorry, but reading that title, I imagine that's what a caveman would write if he could type.

But to answer your question(s). Just ask her out and be respectful about it, wether she says yes or no.

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Lol, I thought it was a sex change thread from the title.

^ Ditto!

Lol, I thought it was a sex change thread from the title.
^Same here.

^ Ditto!

bless our hearts!

poppys said:

Lol, I thought it was a sex change thread from the title.

Me too

Of course she was trying to get close to you.

Her reason? I don't know.

But she seems pretty fast moving, so I would either get away from her (best option for protection) or get to know her slowly to see what she really wants from you.

Either way, you'll learn something.

The worst thing is the fear of not hearing. But there is nothing terrible in it, tell the truth !!! Maybe this will help you?

Well, Fred - it's been more than a week. Did you ever get female?

RodeoSchro said:

Well, Fred - it's been more than a week. Did you ever get female?

or a sex change?

TheFman said:

RodeoSchro said:

Well, Fred - it's been more than a week. Did you ever get female?

or a sex change?

It's so ambiguous, isn't it?

My biggest worry is that the only answer I'll get from Fred is "Yes", which is really no answer at all, LOL.