1) Love for animals. If their eyes shine when they see a hedgehog in the garden or a squirell in the tree. If they have soft toys in the bedroom. No need to be a vegetarian though.

2) Success. If they are successful at something - they don't have to be famous, they just need to do (or have done) something at least a bit original or extraordinary.

3) Dark hair, black or brown. Straight, wavy, curly, kinky, long, short, I don't care.

4) Well-trimmed beard. Applicable to men only, I guess... Anything Prince-like apart from the slave era.

5) Gender bending. When a woman programs. When a man cooks. Wearing clothes designated for the "opposite" gender.

6) Sense for social justice. Standing up for more vulnerable and not expecting a cookie for it.

7) Big lips. Or at least of one them, like me.

8) Sense of humour.

FullLipsDotNose said:

brown or black hair,a big fat ass,slutty acting,acting bitchy

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dance4me3121 said:

brown or black hair,a big fat ass,slutty acting,acting bitchy

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That's me

FullLipsDotNose said:

dance4me3121 said:

brown or black hair,a big fat ass,slutty acting,acting bitchy

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That's me

yeah?! lets hook up!

Full lips and a nose.

Fishnets....black fishnets....preferrebly with a whole in the middle so they dont need to be taken off cause I like looking at them sexxxy legs in fishnets while I´m having sex. I also like a good perfume on a woman like Chanel n.5 and I also like nice breasts I used to be a tits and ass man but these days them tatas dont need to be big no more its aight if they just tight and round and firm and I like real small breasts too cuz the 90s so over ...big tatas kinda overrated anyway. I also like when she kinda digs my taste in tv shows and music and food and if shes not too uppity or uptight cuz sexually I´m kinda kinky sometimes. ha ha ha .

EmmaMcG said:

FullLipsDotNose said:

1) Love for animals. If their eyes shine when they see a hedgehog in the garden or a squirell in the tree. If they have soft toys in the bedroom. No need to be a vegetarian though.

2) Success. If they are successful at something - they don't have to be famous, they just need to do (or have done) something at least a bit original or extraordinary.

3) Dark hair, black or brown. Straight, wavy, curly, kinky, long, short, I don't care.

4) Well-trimmed beard. Applicable to men only, I guess... Anything Prince-like apart from the slave era.

5) Gender bending. When a woman programs. When a man cooks. Wearing clothes designated for the "opposite" gender.

6) Sense for social justice. Standing up for more vulnerable and not expecting a cookie for it.

7) Big lips. Or at least of one them, like me.

8) Sense of humour.

1) I love animals. In fact, I love animals more than humans! 2) I'm quite successful in that I have reached a point whereby I only work when I choose to. 3) Dang, I'm a natural blonde 4) I don't have a beard LOL 5) I'm bisexual. You don't get more gender bending than that. 6) Yup. That's me. 7) I'd say I'm about average in that respect. 8) I'm a barrel of laughs. You know, I know I had previously suggested that you and my ex boyfriend would make a perfect match but looking at these 8 points, we're actually not far off being compatible. Shame I'm engaged, eh?

so how does your fiancee feel about that?

I think I wouldnt mind if my gf had another relationship with a woman as long as that other woman is not having unprotected sex on the reg but as long as they just intimate with each other it´s aight

RufusRawfield said:

Men - Besides well-built shoulders and well trimmed beared I'd say

1. Sense of humor - as in not the "that's what she said" kind, but more of an ability to laugh at himself, and not take everything too seriously.

2. Confidence. Could usually tell by the way he carries himself. But arrogance is a turn-off.

3. Success - career-wise I suppose. And having a lot of pride in what he does.

4. Kind heart, compassion - obviously.

Women - Hard to tell. I've seen women who have pretty face with voluptuous figure yet not sexy at all. It's more to do with confidence and really boils down to whether "she's got it" or not.

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...what I didn't when I was younger!

Curvy is attractive to me ... in fact I'll take too curvy over too skinny. I don't find skinny ladies attractive (though there's a definite limit the other way as well; I don't support this 'big is beautiful' thing where they are trying to normalise obesity). A pretty face is a must, nothing too angular, sharp or severe. Hayley Atwell and Kate Winslet, those ladies are perfection to me

Beyond that, I like relaxed people. Women that try too hard are a big turn off, especially posers ... eugh Too much make-up, too much fussing over wardrobe, too much 'fake' support like massive high-heels or push-up bras ... no thanks.

dance4me3121 said:

FullLipsDotNose said:

That's me

yeah?! lets hook up!

I don't act bitchy though

EmmaMcG said:

FullLipsDotNose said:

1) Love for animals. If their eyes shine when they see a hedgehog in the garden or a squirell in the tree. If they have soft toys in the bedroom. No need to be a vegetarian though.

2) Success. If they are successful at something - they don't have to be famous, they just need to do (or have done) something at least a bit original or extraordinary.

3) Dark hair, black or brown. Straight, wavy, curly, kinky, long, short, I don't care.

4) Well-trimmed beard. Applicable to men only, I guess... Anything Prince-like apart from the slave era.

5) Gender bending. When a woman programs. When a man cooks. Wearing clothes designated for the "opposite" gender.

6) Sense for social justice. Standing up for more vulnerable and not expecting a cookie for it.

7) Big lips. Or at least of one them, like me.

8) Sense of humour.

1) I love animals. In fact, I love animals more than humans! 2) I'm quite successful in that I have reached a point whereby I only work when I choose to. 3) Dang, I'm a natural blonde 4) I don't have a beard LOL 5) I'm bisexual. You don't get more gender bending than that. 6) Yup. That's me. 7) I'd say I'm about average in that respect. 8) I'm a barrel of laughs. You know, I know I had previously suggested that you and my ex boyfriend would make a perfect match but looking at these 8 points, we're actually not far off being compatible. Shame I'm engaged, eh?

I'll dye your hair and hope your fiance(e) will leave you to me

FullLipsDotNose said:

dance4me3121 said:

yeah?! lets hook up!

I don't act bitchy though

i can take care of that

dance4me3121 said:

FullLipsDotNose said:

I don't act bitchy though

i can take care of that

stacked ..and the right attitude

luvsexy4all said:

stacked ..and the right attitude

or nice or both, I'm not picky, but the attitude thing is a must

NorthC said:

Dark eyes.

Mine are brown

RodeoSchro said:

Full lips and a nose.

FullLipsDotNose said:

FullLipsDotNose said:

Nice hair

a lady that's got her own weed, pretty feet, smiles during sex, full lips, firm ass and is full of compassion and says 'thank you' and 'i'm sorry' when she needs to.

peedub said:

NorthC said:

peedub said:

a lady that's got her own weed, pretty feet, smiles during sex, full lips, firm ass and is full of compassion and says 'thank you' and 'i'm sorry' when she needs to.

In other words, a lady that says, "yessir" and doesn't talk back.

no...not sure what you're reading that into. are 'thank you'/'i'm sorry' and talking back mutually exclusive?