i've heard that people that were BiSexual STRADDLE the Fence & r just confused. who agrees & disAgrees???
[This message was edited Thu Apr 10 11:40:28 PDT 2003 by PurpleLove7]

I don't think that they are confused... I believe that everyone should do what is right for them. If a woman likes other women, great... if a guy likes other guys, great... if they like both, great... if they only like the opposite sex, great.

People are far too worried about who other people fuck.

I had a thread about this already

DigitalLisa said:

You have had a thread about everything already!

:LOL:

IceNine said:

Except for green reptiles

I've got no idea.

First, we should decide what makes a person a member of a certain sexual orientation -- the natural inclination or the sexual act. I had a relationship with a woman (which included sex) for 10 years, yet I considered myself a closeted homosexual throughout. Did that make me functionally "bi" or just a charading homosexual? Also, while I was born gay, I have heard lesbian friends say they chose to be that way because men had previously treated them poorly in relationships. Where would they fall?

My tendency is to not ascribe a person to any sexual category, but if I were forced, I'd do so along their natural inclination (assuming they report it truthfully), not necessarily their sexual history. From that standpoint, I've been told by some bi friends that they can be wholly fulfilled by romantic relationships with either sex. I can't, but if they say so, who am I to disagree?

IceNine said:

Yes, indeedy. You hit it right on the nose.

sag10 said:

Sag is Tri-Sexual!

when I was a young queer, I was very anti-bi

I really thought these were people that just weren't able to admit to being queer

thank god I grew-up a bit, and became friends with some honestly bisexual people to realize that this is just as "legit" of a sexuality as any other...and it's REALLY none of my business what other people do with their sex life

PurpleLove7 said:

I disagree. I've known several openly bisexual people, and I don't think any of them are "confused." In fact, I think they tend to have very healthy and well thought-out attitudes toward sexuality.

it's just a "Question Of U" so 2 speak. i'm OPEN about A LOT but @ the same time i was told this by some1 who was Gay & have been since b4 i was born. i had an old CoWOrker of mine who used 2 tell me that any1 who was BiSexual was "Confused" & he was a certified/had a degree Therapist" (of some sort)...

S'pose one way to see it is they want the best of both worlds




I don't fancy it myself

Lleena said:

Yes I am... i tri-sex all the time..

IceNine said:

Let's all and then and

Being a bisexual woman, if I had to be totally honest about it: I prefer sex with a woman but have been unable to find the emotional, intellectual and spiritual connections that I find with my male counterparts. I guess I may be afraid to try to find that with a female.

No confusion here. I love sucking cock and eating pussy!!
Bisexual? Yep that's me!

Bisexuals usually decide to choose one gender over the other. Example: Elton John was bisexual for years, and even got married, but eventually decided to be gay. George Michael and Freddie Mercury also followed suit. David Bowie did the opposite. An ex of mine (a devout Bowie fan ) said that Bowie once described himself as a "closet heterosexual."

There are TRUE bisexuals, but these individuals seem to be rather rare.

sag10 said:

LMAO!

sag10 said:

I'm a TRY-sexual and proud of it, man...Whoo-boy...

XXX said:

... knew u were cheating on me...

My personal experience with Bi-Sexuals has been somewhat shakey. I had a male friend n highschool who claimed to b bi-sexual, yet could not get physically aroused by a female. But yet he said that the guys he was around couldn't provide the level of maturity that he looked for in his "dating". As I have grown a lil older I have be-freinded a lot of ppl...some bi/str8/gay/whateverwilllaydownlongenuf2bustanut. It has been my experience that a lot of these "bi" ppl are infact just what they say - "bi". I have a hard time understanding the whole "bi" topic. I have been gay since i can remember, and just can't picture how someone could b both physically & mentally attracted 2 both sexes?...and how could u b more 2 one than the other?...what kind of life would u live?...U would have sex with someone who could meet ur physical needs yet b left emotionally void?...just my opinion...it could b wrong

Bisexuality does not equate Monogamy. If you choose to cheat on someone Female or Male, then you cheat. And I am not cheating on you Alex!!! But, I have had a few offers..heheheh

XXX said:

well...i will send yo 19 chil'rens 2 live wit u then.........I been tryin 2 raise these mofo's on yo foodstamp card and all u do is leave me for some ......I can't believe it......& i thought u me...

alexnevermind319 said:

but hey...If u cheatin on me wit JD then bring him on home honey...we take care of dat 2getha............ ya _XXX_

I guess I could be considered bi, though I have pretty much given up on putting myself in a box that way. I am attracted to people, not genders. I have had physically intimate relationships with both men and women. I think I tend to have more chemistry, emotional and physical, with men, but there are exceptions. I'm open to any positive relationship. What does that make me? Damned if I know. But I don't think "confused" would be the right word.
[This message was edited Thu Apr 10 20:23:12 PDT 2003 by tackam]

I think this is just another example of segregation. Everyone wants to classify someone as something and put them into some status or class or group. How about you be honest to yourself and I'll be honest to myself and we will meet somewhere in the middle with a smile?

IceNine said:

Man, that is so true. Just keep it clean and keep it respectful, the rest is your own business!

tackam said:

Hey tackam, ever do the dreads?

I have friends who are bi...they are some of the most open-minded, coolest people I know

SonnySixkiller said:

Wasn't it David Bowie who once said that he was "trisexual...I would try anything"?