ThisOne said:

My gut feeling says no I hope so, but not feeling confident right now

Are you male or female?

RicoN said:

ThisOne said:

My gut feeling says no I hope so, but not feeling confident right now

Are you male or female?

She's female.

Why is it only on the male to stay monogamous? And moreover, why do women get the benefit of the doubt in that they're "wired differently and stay loyal"?? It's sexist, and basic bullshit. There are plenty of women pullin' up their skirts in a back room to get some at work or elsewhere, while their husband sits chained to a desk in another office somewhere trying to provide for his wife. To say that men do it more is unreasonable, and frankly unfounded.

Men are givers. That's why our dicks are on the outside, and we're hard when there's a Y in the day of the week. It's what we do - we're built to give, to propagate the species. Woman are wired to take in, to nurture, to house and to incubate. It's internal. It's not better or worse - just different.

I'm not advocating infidelity. I am stating who the players are in the game. Yes, men can stay loyal. Men are dedicated to their car, their yard, their whatever - and they can be adherent to their spouse. Some men just don't want to - and if that's a problem then those are the men you need to not date. Same goes for women folks.

We da freaks.

Of course we are.

TrivialPursuit said:

RicoN said:

Are you male or female?

She's female.

Why is it only on the male to stay monogamous? And moreover, why do women get the benefit of the doubt in that they're "wired differently and stay loyal"?? It's sexist, and basic bullshit. There are plenty of women pullin' up their skirts in a back room to get some at work or elsewhere, while their husband sits chained to a desk in another office somewhere trying to provide for his wife. To say that men do it more is unreasonable, and frankly unfounded.

Men are givers. That's why our dicks are on the outside, and we're hard when there's a Y in the day of the week. It's what we do - we're built to give, to propagate the species. Woman are wired to take in, to nurture, to house and to incubate. It's internal. It's not better or worse - just different.

I'm not advocating infidelity. I am stating who the players are in the game. Yes, men can stay loyal. Men are dedicated to their car, their yard, their whatever - and they can be adherent to their spouse. Some men just don't want to - and if that's a problem then those are the men you need to not date. Same goes for women folks.

This is the first place my mind went with this question. Men are loyal to a wide host of things so it shows they are capable of it.

Not, we are not, we are savages beings, we are despictables

yes

TrivialPursuit said:

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I'm not advocating infidelity. I am stating who the players are in the game. Yes, men can stay loyal. Men are dedicated to their car, their yard, their whatever - and they can be adherent to their spouse. Some men just don't want to - and if that's a problem then those are the men you need to not date. Same goes for women folks.

The bolded part is what makes their sexual behavior so despicable. Believeing that a car is more important than a human being- disgraceful,really. And women are catching up. I've seen women in parking lots paying more attention to their handbags than their small children.

We are the damned!!

men and woman same freaks...dont believe anything else

OL'girl definitely gotta give us more details...Is she talking about her closest Male friend, is she talking about someone that she is dating, is she talking about her Hubby, is she talking about a Friend-with-benefits or is she talking about Men being Loyal beings as we journey through this Life?

Relationship-wise if your Man is not loyal & respectful to you while you're dating then he is NOT gonna change if you Marry him...If you have NO PROOF that your Man is not Loyal then he needs to think about leaving you alone becuase you are gonna be "that Girlfriend/Wife" from Hell...If Bruh goes to Wendy's or to the Gas Station he gotta call you...Hell no....You will NOT drive me Crazier than I already am...

Just WOW to the op another man hating thread. I'm very loyal to my wife , thanks.

Plus guess what one of my ex girlfriends in the 90's was not loyal.

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luvsexy4all said:

men and woman same freaks...dont believe anything else

Exactly

If you're worth being loyal for then men can be loyal.

Chancellor said:

OL'girl definitely gotta give us more details...Is she talking about her closest Male friend, is she talking about someone that she is dating, is she talking about her Hubby, is she talking about a Friend-with-benefits or is she talking about Men being Loyal beings as we journey through this Life?

Relationship-wise if your Man is not loyal & respectful to you while you're dating then he is NOT gonna change if you Marry him...If you have NO PROOF that your Man is not Loyal then he needs to think about leaving you alone becuase you are gonna be "that Girlfriend/Wife" from Hell...If Bruh goes to Wendy's or to the Gas Station he gotta call you...Hell no....You will NOT drive me Crazier than I already am...

there are some words of wisdom in there

RicoN said:

If you're worth being loyal for then men can be loyal.

Not true at all, even that isn't enough.

RicoN said:

If you're worth being loyal for then men can be loyal.

BUllShT!! Everyone is worth being loyal to. What kind of .....SMH

gingerwildwood said:

RicoN said:

If you're worth being loyal for then men can be loyal.

BUllShT!! Everyone is worth being loyal to. What kind of .....SMH

Bullshit, not everyone is.

214 said:

ThisOne said:

214 said:

Bullshit, not everyone is.

I think I am

Well then, if the person in question isn't an arsehole, there's a good chance he will be.

ThisOne said:

My partner He went to check the footy score and I clearly saw this bitch pop up on his phone - he said that those women pop up for a chat because of the porn sites I don't know

ahhh, that sound's like a load of bollocks. If he's chatting to a girl then he might not be cheating, but if he's feeding you bullshit then I'd worry.

I've used loads of porn sites and no 'bitch' has ever popped up on me

214 said:

RicoN said:

If you're worth being loyal for then men can be loyal.

Not true at all, even that isn't enough.

I used the word can, as I know some people, boy or girl, will just fuck around, either way.

There's plenty of men out here who are loyal.

In response to the OP, if you are referring to men in a romantic relationship or marriage, even though there are some loyal men out here, I don't think it's generally in our chemistry to be loyal or monogamous. It really saddens me. As a man, I've always felt like an outsider because I am loyal and monogamous and when I bring this up in conversation with other men, I would say at least 95% of them look at me like I'm some kind of freak of nature and then proceed to brag about how they don't fall into those categories and aren't even remotely interested in doing so. I have found that men are a bit more capable of being loyal in a close friendship but, often times, even that can be difficult for them.

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I am! I have been with the same person for over 15 years and not once did I even consider straying. I have had chances and I have noticed people that if I were single I would make a 'move' on. But not ever even really tempted.

OnlyNDaUsa said:

I am! I have been with the same person for over 15 years and not once did I even consider straying. I have had chances and I have noticed people that if I were single I would make a 'move' on. But not ever even really tempted.

have you ever sent or recieved intimate pictures from someone?

Is that cheating? Why is that small?

RicoN said:

OnlyNDaUsa said:

I am! I have been with the same person for over 15 years and not once did I even consider straying. I have had chances and I have noticed people that if I were single I would make a 'move' on. But not ever even really tempted.

have you ever sent or recieved intimate pictures from someone?

Is that cheating? Why is that small?

no and to me if your SO would not approve it may be cheating