I started a new job today. New position, same company. I met with my new boss last week to go over some stuff. I noticed his eyes kept darting below my neck, but since I was wearing a v-necked shirt and a little of my tattoo was showing, I figured he was trying to figure out what it was without asking. I get that all the time. However, after the glances, they usually ask.

I met with him again today, wearing a big cowl-neck sweater, no skin showing whatsoever, and his eyes kept doing the same thing! I was maintaining eye contact through the beginning of the conversation, and eventually kept looking away, cause I got a little annoyed with his furtive glances at my bosom.

It wasn't in a sleazy old man way, in fact, he's really very nice and in all other respects, I'm really excited to work for him. But it was just so obvious. I don't even think he even realized he was doing it.

So bizarre.

Ladies, any of you experience this?

Post a pic and we can see if he has a reason to stare. :LOL:

SuperC said:

Ditto!

Beat me to it! (again)

SuperC said:

Stick a large banana down your pants tmrw, I am sure he will stop looking at your boobs immediately..

I should have seen that coming...

REDFEATHERS said:

That's wrong, but it will work. Unless he switch hits. :LOL:

CarrieMpls said:

Next time he does this, out of the blue in front of all the other employeers grab your breasts and thrust them towards him and jiggle. Then say real loud "do you like what you see!"

REDFEATHERS said:

hahahahaha!!!

or a hair piece between your breasts.

Tom said:

Eh, it's not to that point yet. But if it continues, I'll consider it.

Tom said:

i was going to say something similar.. like if he does it again, circle your nipples provocatively with your fingers and say "nice, huh "

CarrieMpls said:

If i stare at them, will you do that to me? I have no shame.

My boss can't stop staring at my arms , but who can?

it's at times like this i'm glad my boss is female. that couldn't be me, i'd have 2 tell the guy 2 quit that shit... vomitrocious...

Well...they're not just for sucking anymore!

Handclapsfingasnapz said:

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What if he looked like Denzel?

DexMSR said:

shuddup, tiddee-freak

SuperC said:

i don't care if he looked like denzel, tyson beckford and p rolled into one...that's my boss, i wouldn't put up with that.

Handclapsfingasnapz said:

FREAK!...just FREAK BABY...WHAP!!

Girl...I get this ALL THE TIME...from employers, college instructors, etc, etc, etc...it makes me so mad
And, you're right...I do think that some men don't realize that they're doing it. I think that if you bend your head down to catch his gaze he'll get the idea. He might be embarrassed, but he'll never do it again.

You could also spill some milk on your top, just where your breasts are...just make it look like you have 'leaked' ... although that might not work...if he likes fresh milk..

REDFEATHERS said:

:OMG:

SuperC said:

Boring.

DexMSR said:

Supernova said:

OK, i know BAD C BAD C. But you know it's true in alot of cases, i see it happen alot. If the woman is attracted to the man she tends to "overlook" things that the normal nerd(me) would get chastized for.

applekisses said:

This ALWAYS WORKS. It's all I have to do.

MrBliss said:

Handclapsfingasnapz said:

I didn't wanna embarrass my boss on my first official day. But believe me, if it goes on, I will.

CarrieMpls said:

Just one question Carrie! You don't go to work like you are dressed in your profile do you? Because I think I know why he stares.

Put a balled up sock or something similiar in one side of your bra so that one breast is noticeably larger than the other side, and then every other day move the sock to the other side and keep switching it back and forth like that. Or, switch it around a few times just in one day.

Tell him you have a medical condition and you'd appreciate his not making you feel self-conscious about it by staring.