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Reply #30 posted 10/06/16 7:55am

KingBAD

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I LOVE YOU!!!

but now that i love you i have to unlove erbody else.

i loved you when you were alive NOW i have to love

the one that lives.

i loved you for thirty years, now i love another and have no love for you.

as my mother i have love for you BUT when i get a wife i'll only love her

and when she has kids i will love each of them as they come but only the

last will have my love...

lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol

i am KING BAD!!!
you are NOT...
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Reply #31 posted 10/06/16 7:59am

NinaB

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KingBAD said:

I LOVE YOU!!!


but now that i love you i have to unlove erbody else.


i loved you when you were alive NOW i have to love


the one that lives.


i loved you for thirty years, now i love another and have no love for you.


as my mother i have love for you BUT when i get a wife i'll only love her


and when she has kids i will love each of them as they come but only the


last will have my love...


lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol


Alright, even tho I don't talk 2 u no more, I do agree. Once I deciphered it that is!
lol
"We just let people talk & say whatever they want 2 say. 9 times out of 10, trust me, what's out there now, I wouldn't give nary one of these folks the time of day. That's why I don't say anything back, because there's so much that's wrong" - P, Dec '15
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Reply #32 posted 10/06/16 10:30am

QueenofCardboa
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Connected said:

QueenofCardboard said:

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It is called "Walking Marriage".

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Walking Marriages - Mosuo

mosuoproject.org/walking.htm
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The Navajos practice this type of marriage too.
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It sounds ideal to me.
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I wish main stream America would adopt this type of family structure.
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Very interesting - thanks!

I can see the appeal of this - possibly where the "it takes a village to raise a child" comes from

I do feel sorry for the poor sod who never gets an invite though!

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Yeah,

But he is the same poor sod that never gets the invite in our culture too.

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Reply #33 posted 10/06/16 11:14am

JustErin

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Physical

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Reply #34 posted 10/06/16 12:12pm

KingBAD

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NinaB said:

KingBAD said:

I LOVE YOU!!!

but now that i love you i have to unlove erbody else.

i loved you when you were alive NOW i have to love

the one that lives.

i loved you for thirty years, now i love another and have no love for you.

as my mother i have love for you BUT when i get a wife i'll only love her

and when she has kids i will love each of them as they come but only the

last will have my love...

lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol

Alright, even tho I don't talk 2 u no more, I do agree. Once I deciphered it that is! lol

batting eyes

i am KING BAD!!!
you are NOT...
evilking
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Reply #35 posted 10/06/16 1:10pm

214

JustErin said:

Physical

Yes, i love sex just for that, well not... but most for that than for the other.

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Reply #36 posted 10/06/16 1:11pm

NinaB

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KingBAD said:



NinaB said:


KingBAD said:

I LOVE YOU!!!


but now that i love you i have to unlove erbody else.


i loved you when you were alive NOW i have to love


the one that lives.


i loved you for thirty years, now i love another and have no love for you.


as my mother i have love for you BUT when i get a wife i'll only love her


and when she has kids i will love each of them as they come but only the


last will have my love...


lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol



Alright, even tho I don't talk 2 u no more, I do agree. Once I deciphered it that is! lol

batting eyes


... batting eyes ... dammit! hmph!
"We just let people talk & say whatever they want 2 say. 9 times out of 10, trust me, what's out there now, I wouldn't give nary one of these folks the time of day. That's why I don't say anything back, because there's so much that's wrong" - P, Dec '15
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Reply #37 posted 10/06/16 1:46pm

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I view it as physical, but some ladies on the receiving end must get a spiritual connection, becasue they keep shouting ' Oh God!'. Sorry, couldn't resist. lol

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Reply #38 posted 10/06/16 2:26pm

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SquirrelMeat said:

I view it as physical, but some ladies on the receiving end must get a spiritual connection, becasue they keep shouting ' Oh God!'. Sorry, couldn't resist. lol

lol lol lol that was great.

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Reply #39 posted 10/06/16 3:02pm

EmmaMcG

I don't believe in spiritual connections or anything like that so I'd have to say it's purely a physical thing.
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Reply #40 posted 10/06/16 3:24pm

KingBAD

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NinaB said:

KingBAD said:

batting eyes

... batting eyes ... dammit! hmph!

well?

Well??

WELL???

batting eyes

go on and say it....

i am KING BAD!!!
you are NOT...
evilking
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Reply #41 posted 10/06/16 3:34pm

214

EmmaMcG said:

I don't believe in spiritual connections or anything like that so I'd have to say it's purely a physical thing.

Why, girl you are so cold.

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Reply #42 posted 10/06/16 3:38pm

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214 said:

EmmaMcG said:

I don't believe in spiritual connections or anything like that so I'd have to say it's purely a physical thing.

Why, girl you are so cold.

cause she don't know me... wink

i am KING BAD!!!
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Reply #43 posted 10/06/16 3:40pm

NinaB

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KingBAD said:



NinaB said:


KingBAD said:


batting eyes



... batting eyes ... dammit! hmph!

well?


Well??


WELL???


batting eyes


go on and say it....



lol eek but what's the "it" you're asking me 2 say?! boxed hmph!
"We just let people talk & say whatever they want 2 say. 9 times out of 10, trust me, what's out there now, I wouldn't give nary one of these folks the time of day. That's why I don't say anything back, because there's so much that's wrong" - P, Dec '15
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Reply #44 posted 10/06/16 4:06pm

214

KingBAD said:

214 said:

Why, girl you are so cold.

cause she don't know me... wink

I should have known better, right?

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Reply #45 posted 10/06/16 4:54pm

HuMpThAnG

a good fuk is a good fuk [mic drop]

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Reply #46 posted 10/06/16 5:20pm

babynoz

NinaB said:

KingBAD said:

well?

Well??

WELL???

batting eyes

go on and say it....

lol eek but what's the "it" you're asking me 2 say?! boxed hmph!



Get. A. Room. lol

Prince, in you I found a kindred spirit...Rest In Paradise.
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Reply #47 posted 10/06/16 5:22pm

babynoz

HuMpThAnG said:

a good fuk is a good fuk [mic drop]



Y'all stoppit. lol

Prince, in you I found a kindred spirit...Rest In Paradise.
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Reply #48 posted 10/06/16 5:26pm

NinaB

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babynoz said:



NinaB said:


KingBAD said:


well?


Well??


WELL???


batting eyes


go on and say it....



lol eek but what's the "it" you're asking me 2 say?! boxed hmph!



Get. A. Room. lol



falloff
"We just let people talk & say whatever they want 2 say. 9 times out of 10, trust me, what's out there now, I wouldn't give nary one of these folks the time of day. That's why I don't say anything back, because there's so much that's wrong" - P, Dec '15
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Reply #49 posted 10/06/16 8:38pm

KingBAD

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NinaB said:

KingBAD said:

well?

Well??

WELL???

batting eyes

go on and say it....

lol eek but what's the "it" you're asking me 2 say?! boxed hmph!

you luuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuh me and you knoooooooooooooow it!!!!

biggrin biggrin biggrin biggrin biggrin biggrin biggrin biggrin biggrin biggrin biggrin biggrin biggrin biggrin biggrin biggrin biggrin biggrin

i am KING BAD!!!
you are NOT...
evilking
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Reply #50 posted 10/06/16 8:40pm

KingBAD

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babynoz said:

NinaB said:

KingBAD said: lol eek but what's the "it" you're asking me 2 say?! boxed hmph!



Get. A. Room. lol

you ain't gotta be all jelly

i believe in polygamy...

lol lol lol lol lol lol lol

i am KING BAD!!!
you are NOT...
evilking
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Reply #51 posted 10/06/16 8:42pm

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HuMpThAnG said:

a good fuk is a good fuk [mic drop]

Image result for fist bump

come on.... pound that shit!!!

i am KING BAD!!!
you are NOT...
evilking
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Reply #52 posted 10/06/16 8:46pm

HuMpThAnG

highfive

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Reply #53 posted 10/07/16 4:49am

Connected

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lol You lot are a bunch of jokster mofos! lol

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Reply #54 posted 10/07/16 4:56am

Connected

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I think the sheer fact that you are questioning this relationship, for whatever reason, this early on would suggest that long term, however interesting and attractive she may be, this might not be someone that you could tolerate for decades to come.



In order to sustain a long term monogamous relationship one has to be prepared to accept and even learn to appreciate the others foibles. It seems to me that a quirk at the beginning of a relationship either grows into a constant irritation or something accepted and even embraced.



A lack of physical exertion in the bedroom is nothing new - work commitments, stress and numerous other reasons can all be components of a lack of enthusiasm in the bedroom. What you need to ask yourself is, if your first lady was better in the bedroom and this lady more mentally stimulating, then would you be better trying to find a combination of the two?



To be slightly pessimistic. I think there are always compromises to be made in order to sustain a relationship. I'm not so sure that even the seemingly happiest of couples are happy all of the time. The question always is, do I accept the things I hate about the person and celebrate the things I love about them or am I consumed with the things I hate and struggling to see the things I love? I confess that there have been times when I have struggled to be the former and have drifted towards the latter but communication is everything. Maybe you need to have an honest and frank conversation with her, see what happens?


Hey Maple - not spoken for a while - hope you are well!

Tis very true and sound advice - we are out tonight...so maybe a few bottles of wine to loosen up and see if things lead to shennanigans with more abandon

~Shakalaka!~..... ~Mayday!~
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Reply #55 posted 10/07/16 4:58am

Connected

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214 said:

You go too far with sex, it's just about physical satisfaction most of the time, don't put much thought on it, first,first. Then of course it becomes a spritual connection, but that is afterwards, and not always, sometimes is just about physical satisfaction. But as Prince said: "In lust we will suffer, in love we will grow".


I like this - this line is new to me...one for the toolbox!

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Reply #56 posted 10/07/16 5:04am

Connected

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Connected said:



Well if I wasn't old and settled already and you weren't all the way across the pond I would solve all your problems for ya... biggrin

Seriously though, you sound like a great guy and nice looking too. Getting to the question of the lady who is somewhat sheltered, that isn't necessarily deal-breaker unless she is not open minded about sex. Is she prudish or just inexperienced? Because the latter situation can be remedied if she likes you enough to let you turn her out?

If you attempt to have the intimacy and there is little physical compatibility then you run the risk of going off the reservation again. I have always been strictly a one man woman, so it is crucial for my guy and me to be on the same page physically.

I would hold out for intimacy and good in the sack because I think it's possible to have both. Find out if your pedestrian lady friend is willing to work with you. There are ways to do that without it being awkward.


BabyNoz - if your circumstances ever change - let me know wink!

Yes sound advice...I think I forgot that to have both is possible...maybe still haunted by the past looong-term experience

This lady is really nice - so will be a bit more patient and see if things can become more free...she's just seems to be too damn tense!

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Reply #57 posted 10/07/16 5:06am

Connected

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SquirrelMeat said:

I view it as physical, but some ladies on the receiving end must get a spiritual connection, becasue they keep shouting ' Oh God!'. Sorry, couldn't resist. lol


Aaaah that's where I'm going wrong - I only date atheists lol

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Reply #58 posted 10/07/16 5:25am

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KingBAD said:



NinaB said:


KingBAD said:


well?


Well??


WELL???


batting eyes


go on and say it....



lol eek but what's the "it" you're asking me 2 say?! boxed hmph!

you luuuuuh me and you knooooow it!!!!


biggrin biggrin biggrin biggrin biggrin biggrin biggrin biggrin biggrin biggrin biggrin biggrin biggrin biggrin biggrin biggrin biggrin biggrin



falloff Alright! u bloody lunatic! I love u! Happy now?! lol lol lol
"We just let people talk & say whatever they want 2 say. 9 times out of 10, trust me, what's out there now, I wouldn't give nary one of these folks the time of day. That's why I don't say anything back, because there's so much that's wrong" - P, Dec '15
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Reply #59 posted 10/07/16 8:12am

QueenofCardboa
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NinaB said:

KingBAD said:

you luuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuh me and you knoooooooooooooow it!!!!

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falloff Alright! u bloody lunatic! I love u! Happy now?! lol lol lol

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That was all very touching. touched

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