EmmaMcG said:
I ain't afraid of no ghost. Sorry, couldn't resist Personally, I don't believe in ghosts or the supernatural or any of that. I'm a big advocate for "I'll believe it when I see it" and I've never seen a ghost. Another reason why I don't believe in ghosts is that I think the idea that people have "souls' or"'spirits' is lunacy of the highest order. Also, if you were to properly investigate these so called ghost sightings I bet the only thing you'll find is a superstitious person with an active imagination. I can understand people wanting to believe in such things because it might make the passing of a loved one more bearable but for me, the whole thing is nonsense. [Edited 10/16/16 1:30am]
Even though my beliefs are somewhat different than yours, i DO understand where you're coming from. A big thanks for your input.
A couple things i do want to say though.
I think its absolutely necessary to be skeptical of anyone who claims to have seen a ghost(or claims to have had any paranormal experience).The issue i have with some skeptics(not referring to you) though, is their assumption that everyone who claims to have had a paranormal experience, is either crazy, is lying, or is misinterpreting some mundane occurrence. To me that's just as bad as someone who sees ghosts in specks of disturbed dust(so called orbs ). I'll admit that in the paranormal world, there are people who do have overly active imaginations or who are total frauds. However, there are many seemingly credible people, from all walks of life, who claim to have experienced things that can't easily be explained. We're talking about doctors, nurses, police officers, politicians, actors, etc. And taking into consideration the hundreds of thousands of everyday citizens(both young and old) who also have experienced things? Well, just because of the sheer numbers, i think we as humans should be interested in what this phenomena could be. For all we know it could be some unknown disease or something in the air or the water. Seriously though, i think there are credible people out there who have experienced some really incredible things. People who have seen human(and non human) figures materialize out of nowhere, and have actually interacted with those same entities... IDK, there's a lot to be learned about our existence, and i think it would be a shame for us humans to disregard the experiences of millions of people.
Anyway, in my original post, i mentioned that one of my aunts had a dream about my mom(her sister) who died a little over three years ago. In this dream my mom made one statement to my aunt. In a minute I'll say what that statement was. First though, i gotta give a little back story.
So back in 2013 my mom got into a car accident(she was the passenger). My mom and her co-worker were headed to work when this guy t-boned the car that they were in. And as a result, my mom had to have neck surgery(had the surgery about a month after the accident). The surgery was on a Monday, and around noon Friday she went into cardiac arrest, and died(while still at the hospital). OK, so we felt that the hospital was negligent in the care that they gave my mother, so we filed a lawsuit. And as some of you know, lawsuits can go on for years. So, after the initial legal documents, interrogatories, etc, were filed.Things got quiet. I knew it would take time so i gave the lawyer the space to do what she needed to do...
So about 9 months go by, and fast forward to about two months ago. I get a deposition time and date notice. I knew it was eventually coming, and i dreaded it. The reason i dreaded it is because it forces me to relive everything that led up to my mother's death. The accident, the surgery, the hospital stay, the last words she said to me(really sad stuff), the DAY that she died, the past, etc. Its tough to have to relive all that stuff. I've tried not to think about it. I don't even have pictures on my walls, of my mom. So... i get into this depression. For days on end, all i really think about is my mom. Specifically the conversations that, within the last few years of her life, we used to have. And even more specific, conversations about her desperately wanting to move away from the city that she was living in(a hot, depressing, boring ass city in Central California). At that time i was living in the San Francisco Bay Area, and the time of her death, my mom was in the early planning stages of moving back to the Bay Area(we lived there when i was a kid). My mom used to come visit me and she loved it. She would have fun visiting, but she also would voice her regrets. She regretted that she left the Bay Area for hell hole city(my description). Sigh, and we talked about that quite a bit....So all this stuff is going through my mind. I'm grieving all over again. And I'm filled with all this guilt and remorse.
So(sorry about all the so's) in the midst of all this emotional turmoil, my cousin calls me. He says to me, Joey, my mom told me to tell you that she had a dream about your mom. She said that your mom came to her and said, "****** !(his mom's name)...I FOUND MY HOME !".
I really don't know. Maybe(or maybe not) there was something supernatural behind my aunt's dream. My grandmother had a lot of kids and my aunt and my mother were the two oldest. And the two closet, so maybe there was a certain bond between them. Another somewhat interesting thing about my aunt is she had(actually one of her kids had the experience) a bad experience with a Ouija board. She used to play with a Ouija board with her kids, and some bad stuff ended up happening. I posted the story on here a couple years ago.
Anyway, regardless if what my aunt said was paranormal or not. I will admit that it was comforting.
Also got to admit though, that the timing and the message were pretty trippy indeed.
Feel free to share you experiences(if you feel comfortable in doing so)as well. Also i really do recommend that y'all check out that link that i posted. There's some really amazing stories on that website. Nurses deal with death every day, and boy do they have some creepy stories to tell.
[Edited 10/17/16 6:25am]
Rest in Peace Bettie Boo. See u soon.