This is SLIGHTLY Prince related, but I also feel as though this is the only place for me to express my feelings on this!!

Is it wrong to be in love with someone who u know u can never have?? I met this guy on here, only less that 2 weeks ago, as I replied to a posting me made on here, then I Orgnoted him to ask if he was on Facebook, and he replied back saying he was and then we connected up over there, got into very DEEP conversations on there and found we connected on so many, many levels, next came the phone conversations, of which many, many hours were and still being spent in intimate conversations!! We both have helped each other in lots of ways with various life problems we have and our relationship is extremely close now!!

The reason I cant have him, is - 1) Age difference(VERY VERY BIG age difference, I am 58, he is 23), 2) He is bi-sexual, I am straight, and he has a love interest, and 3) The geographical distance(I am in the UK, he is in the USA).

I firmly beleive that the planets, stars and the Universe all came in synch the day we met on here and our friendship/relationship in some way is meant to be!!

Last night, we were both on the phone for hours to each other and after we hung up, I was laying in bed, and for some reason, I witnessed, what I can only describe as, literally, the Power Fantastic of deep love for him!!

Call me crazy, insane, whatever u like, but I know I am and will never ever be the same again!!

I agree with North but please be realistic about this. He has a partner and is much younger than yourself as well as being on the other side of the world. I'd enjoy it for what it is but don't let your heart be broken - keep your sensibilities about you. Presumably he might read this thread too. I'd alsolike to know how he feels about you! Good luck

1 and 3 are irrelevant if you love someone.

Bisexuality is irrelevant, too. I am not sure why you mentioned it at all unless you have a personal hang-up about it. Whether his current love interest is male or female is inconsequential. He's unavailable. Period.

You've known him less than two weeks? Respectfully, you're infatuated, not in love.

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maplenpg said:

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PurpleSpirit319 said:

This is SLIGHTLY Prince related, but I also feel as though this is the only place for me to express my feelings on this!!

Is it wrong to be in love with someone who u know u can never have?? I met this guy on here, only less that 2 weeks ago, as I replied to a posting me made on here, then I Orgnoted him to ask if he was on Facebook, and he replied back saying he was and then we connected up over there, got into very DEEP conversations on there and found we connected on so many, many levels, next came the phone conversations, of which many, many hours were and still being spent in intimate conversations!! We both have helped each other in lots of ways with various life problems we have and our relationship is extremely close now!!

The reason I cant have him, is - 1) Age difference(VERY VERY BIG age difference, I am 58, he is 23), 2) He is bi-sexual, I am straight, and he has a love interest, and 3) The geographical distance(I am in the UK, he is in the USA).

I firmly beleive that the planets, stars and the Universe all came in synch the day we met on here and our friendship/relationship in some way is meant to be!!

Last night, we were both on the phone for hours to each other and after we hung up, I was laying in bed, and for some reason, I witnessed, what I can only describe as, literally, the Power Fantastic of deep love for him!!

Call me crazy, insane, whatever u like, but I know I am and will never ever be the same again!!

You have given solid reasons why you should not engage in a romantic relationship. There is such a thing as loving someone from a distance and that is what you should do.

That age should not matter is a myth, it does. Maybe it shouldn't, but it does. 2. He is telling you his sexual orientation and love interest for a reason. 3. Long distance relationships are trying even under ordinary circumstances. 4. If this person is an org member then posting the information here might not be the best thing for your friendship. 5. There is such a thing as a loving, deep and abiding friendship without romance.

Best wishes.

maplenpg said:

I agree with North but please be realistic about this. He has a partner and is much younger than yourself as well as being on the other side of the world. I'd enjoy it for what it is but don't let your heart be broken - keep your sensibilities about you. Presumably he might read this thread too. I'd alsolike to know how he feels about you! Good luck

I know for a fact that if somebody talked about a situation like this that would be the end of the friendship even if they did not mention my name.

Interesting, what's his name?

babynoz said:

... perhaps I'm just getting old, but is it possible to feel that strongly for someone after less than 2 weeks of knowing them and having never actually met them?...

DaveT said:

... perhaps I'm just getting old, but is it possible to feel that strongly for someone after less than 2 weeks of knowing them and having never actually met them?...

In this day and age, any foolish thing like this is possible. People claim to fall in love on social media, but they really don't know the meaning of the word.

DaveT said:

... perhaps I'm just getting old, but is it possible to feel that strongly for someone after less than 2 weeks of knowing them and having never actually met them?...

You need some sex or jesus on a regular basis, you get sprung way too easy. I assumed this was some thread by a college youngster, but nope this is nearly a freaking senior citizen sprung by the thought of some young d***.

per OP