Hey yall, got a ? 4 U. At my job we have a gay man and I have become very good friends with him. Now I am not gay or confused but half of the office thinks I am now. Including my boss who has know me for 6 damn years. Now I am tired of the looks and whispers and I wonder what should I do. I am down to 2 options: Play along with these idiots who are not comfortable with their life or get ghetto on them. I am leaning to playing along because I get a kick out of making them look stupid. This is NOT a bashing thread but I just want some suggestions.

phuc what the others think.

I would tell them to phuck-off and mind their own damn business.

Just sleep with the guy!



Nah seriously though, I've always felt that sexual orientation and sexuality are not appropriate discussion fodder for the workplace. I wouldn't even begin to broach the subject with colleagues (regardless of what rumours are spreading in smoke-filled rooms) because it's none of their business.

That's my take anyway.

You ain't got to explain nothing to no damn body, they're the ones who has the problems... narrow minded people

One of my best friends is gay, and no we are not talking about bkw . Anyway...you do get some funny comments from people who just assume, but I wouldn't worry about it.

Handclapsfingasnapz said:

I got a friend who everyone thinks is gay. He dates more girls than anybody i know. Phuck what they think. Live life, don't recite it.

doegx said:

You got integrity right?..then your question is solved.

Thank you very much everyone. I knew U what know what to do

when i was about 19 i became really good friends with a gay dude... i'll be honest, i was a little worried by the looks etc as we lived in a pretty small community... i guess i was a little homophobic back then ... even though i didn't like to think i was... i soon got over it though... i think i really knew the last trace of homophobia had left me when i doodle whacked him at a party in front of a bunch of my straight friends ... so basically ..fuck 'em

MrBliss said:

that shit is so gay!

rdhull said:

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MrBliss said:

I am curious as to why people who know you well are thinking this even after you have told them your orientation?

Berry said:

cause people are dicks

Berry said:

I am a very quiet/shy person. I dont come in on monday talking about my dates on the weekend. Plus my office is very horny. They cannot understand the fact that I can talk to a women with big breasts and not stare. It is like a locker room with 40 yr old men who must really need some booty