SexGod said:

Don't touch it!!

Cyber sex is cheating...period. If it comes to you only getting a groove thang with your cyber partner, then you spending to much time in cyber and not enough time trying new and inventives ways to get the real deal.

Whhat thhe fuck, I've gott sttickyy fingerrs and stticky keeys.

It crosses the line when it is done on the sly or sneakily and hidden from your signifigant other

silkyspread said:

Why do you think we have orgnotes?

SexGod said:

I told you not to touch it silly.

It's not just a fantasy, though, when the person cybering believes they're interacting with another LIVE individual. Just looking at pics and wanking isn't cheating, imo, but I do believe that interacting with another person online--chatting, trading photos, sex play/talk--when you have a partner you've agreed to be monogamous with is cheating. Ask the thousands of couples who've broken up/divorced over just such a thing...

NegaTIVity said:

when semen blows through the isdn line like bubblin crude

what chu talkin bout willis

Cheating is when you do something that you know your partner wouldn't like and you can't be honest about it with him/her. Each relationship has its own boundaries.

Cybersex is just like a real affair--It's something you indulge in when your REAL relationship has completely broken down, either communativly (is that a word?) or sexually.
Cybersex isn't cheating in the normal sense of the word yet, because it's relatively new. But in a few years, it will be accepted as being unfaithful.