SeventeenDayze said:

Have any of you ever been convinced you had a "type" only to cave later and have sex with someone who didn't fit what you normally go for? For those of you that have dated or only dated people of a certain race for a while did you find yourself having sex with someone of the same race suddenly?

Don't know what happened to the quote, the fonts got smaller randomly.

Anyway,,,,

I used to be only attracted to Arabs/Latinos only because of the cultural aspect. I falsely assumed that the communication line would always be effortless, but people are people, you'll find the chill type & the drama queens, both categories exist in every culture.

There was a time when I thought I wouldn't be attracted to white guys, I could understand the appeal then but they haven't done anything for me, until these recent years.

I guess what I'm trying to say is, no I don't think I have a type anymore. A pair of beautiful eyes with laid back personality and some facial hair will win me over anytime

SeventeenDayze said:

Beautifulstarr123 said:

SeventeenDayze said:

Actually, we have been actively calling and texting each other still.

Well,good luck with that. One night stands rarely work because usually they're not looking for anything more and because of trust issues.

Yeah it was hard to resist LOL. I was in a bit of a dry spell when it happened He's a bit wacky but I like him for some strange reason. Hopefully we'll meet up again soon. He says he wants to visit me.

alphastreet said:

Yay to a new relationship, hope it works out

Thanks I hope it works out too!!

Hamad said:

SeventeenDayze said:

Have any of you ever been convinced you had a "type" only to cave later and have sex with someone who didn't fit what you normally go for? For those of you that have dated or only dated people of a certain race for a while did you find yourself having sex with someone of the same race suddenly?

Don't know what happened to the quote, the fonts got smaller randomly.

Anyway,,,,

I used to be only attracted to Arabs/Latinos only because of the cultural aspect. I falsely assumed that the communication line would always be effortless, but people are people, you'll find the chill type & the drama queens, both categories exist in every culture.

There was a time when I thought I wouldn't be attracted to white guys, I could understand the appeal then but they haven't done anything for me, until these recent years.

I guess what I'm trying to say is, no I don't think I have a type anymore. A pair of beautiful eyes with laid back personality and some facial hair will win me over anytime

Damn, you're hot!

vainandy said:

Hamad said:

Don't know what happened to the quote, the fonts got smaller randomly.

Anyway,,,,

I used to be only attracted to Arabs/Latinos only because of the cultural aspect. I falsely assumed that the communication line would always be effortless, but people are people, you'll find the chill type & the drama queens, both categories exist in every culture.

There was a time when I thought I wouldn't be attracted to white guys, I could understand the appeal then but they haven't done anything for me, until these recent years.

I guess what I'm trying to say is, no I don't think I have a type anymore. A pair of beautiful eyes with laid back personality and some facial hair will win me over anytime

Damn, you're hot!

Thank you, sir

I think Israeli men are absolutely georgeous.

Never been with one though.

After being with what I do NOT want, I now know what I DO want
If I settle for less than what I want, then I feel guilt, depression, sadness...then comes the cheesecake binging

TD3 said:

Your account (lack of erotic details) doesn't muster up any motivation to grab a cigarette, I stopped smoking 20 years ago. Paintedlady you are not!

I don't think "race" ( a made up term by human beings) has ever played a major factor in determing whether a man could br or is a good fuck.. Some me are very at good fucking and some men aren't (lazy men) the latter can be showed and taught. But that's how I see thangs.

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truth

ScarletScandal said:

After being with what I do NOT want, I now know what I DO want
If I settle for less than what I want, then I feel guilt, depression, sadness...then comes the cheesecake binging

Yeah that's one thing about wisdom, it allows you to narrow down your search because you know what you want

ScarletScandal said:

NinaB said:

ScarletScandal said:

After being with what I do NOT want, I now know what I DO want
If I settle for less than what I want, then I feel guilt, depression, sadness...then comes the cheesecake binging

Cheesecake

nursev said:

missfee said:

I'm just attracted to men period. I've seen attractive men of all different races but I've never dated outside my race. It definitely has not been on purpose as I'm very open to it. The opportunity just hasn't presented itself...as of yet.

There's always tomorrow Oh, see if you can find a guy who doesn't speak English! That's always and adventure

Horsefeathers said:

You know the old saying. Once you go black, you never go back. Because your family and friends totally disown you. No? Just me? Worth it.

SeventeenDayze is Black-American

OldFriends4Sale said:

Horsefeathers said:

OldFriends4Sale said:

SeventeenDayze is Black-American

But I'm not! I, too, am a part of this conversation. Relevance, schmelevance.

Maybe I'm not understanding your previous comment. When you said 'You know the old saying, Once you go balck, you never go back' That tends to be directed at a non-Black person. I thought you assued SeventeenDayze was not black.

Horsefeathers said:

I didn't. It was just a really random comment.

Horsefeathers said:

Horsefeathers said:

Family, yes. That part was true.

That sucks.

Does he got a big... u know or is just a stereotype?

214 said:

EmmaMcG said:

214 said:

Does he got a big... u know or is just a stereotype?

In my experience, that is just a stereotype. But size is not as important as some people believe.

absolute stereotype... just like a man being tall or having big feet....

I had a man with a 2" dick and he was over 6ft tall... and black.

paintedlady said:

EmmaMcG said:

214 said: In my experience, that is just a stereotype. But size is not as important as some people believe.

absolute stereotype... just like a man being tall or having big feet....

I had a man with a 2" dick and he was over 6ft tall... and black.

Maybe you ladies dated men with Pigmy heritage

Ok so the race issue... I dated outside my culture... prefer it... I grew up with African Americans mostly so I relate to those I grew up around so I tend to date men I can relate to. I really can not tolerate my Latino male counterparts, they tend to be cheaters... even though all men have the ability to cheat (not saying all do, because they don't), I am convinced men of my culture never have to go far to find a willing victim to lay with

Dated men... of all shades, sizes, and some "exotic-need papers" types... yeah... no.. I tried

Never dated a white guy... wanted to... they just never approached me. Found out on 3 different occassions that a friend crushed on me but never actually told me they liked me until I was with a guy. I was actually cussed out once by a white male friend, he was upset that I started dating a black guy.

Him: "Can't you see that I like you?!"

Me: "No, muthafukkah if you like me then just tell me!"

Him: *long whiny rant cussing me out*

Me: *quietly not giving one single fuck*

And for the record, Johnny White ... I would have really fucked the hell out of you because I thought you were hot... but you fucked that nasty chick that would reach in her panties and scratch her pussy then smell her fingers... yeah, you had sex with her and then I knew you had the cooties. Eww yeah... UNDATABLE! Chris, I would not have had sex with you, but your boy Tommy... oh hell yes, Tommy was fine! And Jeremy... white bread, bland looking Jeremy... so middle America, easily ignored... gosh I would have humped him anywhere... but he never tried. Oh well...

White men... if you like a lady, just tell her, shit! BTW all that happened in the 90's like before most of you were born so....

Now in my 40's I am like "Here throw your pants back on, OK bye..." his dick will dry by the time he gets in his car, slams door and locks it! No lingering, not even a glass of water...