to continue the dicussion of people's fantasies I found this to be helpful and true to men who are having a hard time in understanding what women wants ...


What Single Women Want From Sex
To be more correct, single women don't want sex - they want good sex. Women's sexual desires are much greater than most men realize. But, unlike men, who are just after sex, single women are looking for great sexual experiences. Single women are very discriminating and choosy in picking partners. They are only interested in having a sexual encounter with a partner that 1) sexually arouses them and 2) promises, by his manner or image or personality, to be "good in bed."

Single women want exciting, provocative, imaginative partners who will lead them through great sexual experiences. Though their sexual desire may be very high, they will pass up just any sexual encounter waiting to find the one that promises to be special.

The fact that single women are choosy about who they go to bed with is a dilemma for men, but there is one good aspect to this trait. Single women, once they do choose, tend to stay with him, and are reluctant to change partners. Women know that good sex is hard to find, so once they have it, they would rather hang on to that relationship than go back out into the market place. Keep in mind this propensity to stay in a relationship because of sex exists only as long as the sex is good.

The last thought in this section is something that we have come to realize is a cardinal rule to be used in reading single women. That is: SINGLE WOMEN HAVE SEX WITH MEN WHO THEY WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH. At first, this phrase may sound too simple and obvious to have any wisdom to it, but let us expand on it. The meaning behind it is, that if a woman decides that she would like to sleep with someone, she will pursue that person relentlessly.

And on the other hand, if a single woman has decided that she is not interested in sleeping with someone, no amount of pursuit or persuasion is going to move her. Many men have wasted their precious time and energy by ignoring this reality. We will discuss different applications of this rule in later chapters. We will show you how you can read single women well enough to know whether or not to continue interest in her, or to bow out and put your energies into women where the odds are greater.

Now Let's Dicuss

You know most women know what they want, it's just a matter of getting, it's hard to find the perfect man who's a good lover and provider, I seen alot of women who stay in bad relationship but the sex is damn good, then i see alot of women who's in good relationships but the sex is bad... as far as I'm concerned I really would like to have a sex relationship with no strings attached, to much emotions get invovled and people get hurt, so why risk a broken heart when you can remain friends with a guy and become great lovers, just make sure y'all have a understanding that sex is all what it'll be... My mama said they way you can tell how a man is good lover is how he walks If he takes his time then he's a a shoe in, Every since then I wondered if this was true

Damn I'm talking to myself again, but all well
[This message was edited Mon Mar 24 0:10:54 PST 2003 by DigitalLisa]

Please update title to FOR SINGLE STRAIGHT MEN.
Jeez

gooeythehamster said:

Chill dude! Here...have a

Cloudbuster said:

Don't smoke.

gooeythehamster said:

Spacecake?

Why pursue someone who's "receptive"
if that's not what u want?

It's irrelevant if the woman shows she is interested/not interested ...If she's
appealing to the person going after her
it's HIS job to "impress" her. If it doesn't gel then it's not right anyway...
and if she's not up for ONA then that'll be it.

It's a bitch to find someone who WANTS ME
the SAME WAY I'd WANT THEM.

DigitalLisa said:

That's just crazy talk!

ChocolateInvasion said:

Can't cook.

DigitalLisa said:

I Agree with U digitalLisa I would like 2 find the same type of relationship. Me being quite busy with my music, can't keep a relationship because of it. So a good sex only relationship would be nice. I have been told I am great in bed...but the time I spend with my music gets in the way of relationships.

Thumpinhard said:

Between work and making music too, I could ignore you on a regular basis. Treating sex like an act without something more disgusts me though. Really great sex comes when a woman has my mind along with my body. Fantasies are just that, reality is what turns me on.
[This message was edited Tue Mar 25 6:58:08 PST 2003 by Slave2daGroove]

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