Natsume said:

Not so much having balls. . .it just sort of happens. . .if you're lucky.

... and to think I was embarrassed about my "sex toys & porn" thread

CalhounSq said:

Prude!

Next time somebody asks you if you've ever had a menage-a-trois (what, doesn't everybody have these conversations?), look confused, and then ask, "What's the French word for six?" Gawd, that's my favorite.

No, no WAIT, that would be a FREEDOM FUCK!

ROTFLMAO

tackam said:

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!

well, congratulations... i had mine a few years back (my first one). i'm not that fond of orgies, but indeed, when they happen 'out of the blue', that's the best thing to it. organised happenings are ever so boring.
i did a few, not that much though, but still i prefer one on one.
for me it's sometimes too much leggs and arms...
but hey, it's all good!
did one a few weeks ago here in brussels, and it was also a non expected pleasure! ) it was a dinner party at someone's place.. but we all ended up drinking a bit too much, and all of a sudden we discovered two people in the bedroom, so before you know it, everyone started to wonder why, especially when those two who were discovered, didn't mind at all, that we were peeping. so they asked to join them.. and the good thing was, those who didn't like it at all, left and went home, and we guys, stayed up all night, had a great time, and even slept together (all seven of us) and then in the morning had a great brunch on the roof terrace in the sun. getting to know eachother better.. cause i only knew the host and his boyfriend. kindof a discovery in fact! i tell ya. ))

i was always afraid of orgies, before i tried it. i strongly recommend it to people who feel that they would like to try it. but try never to think about the fact of whom is going to participate, etc... leave it up to the moment itself. The organised orgie parties were such a letdown, believe me. it's full of wankers and muscle shemales, hairless, or are all dressed up for the party in the most outragious things! )) it only makes me laugh and keeps my dick down.

ayone in for an orgie on Prince music only? naaah, just kidding!
cheers people!
Make love NOT war! and one mo' question; will Sadam and George finaly have sex together after they found eachother? i wonder... kind of a peace fuck! ))

Well...it is all about where you are mentally. Most first time orgies can really fuck up a head. All the orgies I have participated in have been great because I set them up. But you have to just let it happen, you can't force the action or participation, but I like to have like-minded people around me that have no hangups about anything sexual or exhibitionism. Have some drinks, conversation and let the night or day go as it goes...

Lawd...did i stumble into the right thread or what?......Well my first Orgy was about a year ago...some friends (5) and i were at a bar...nothing of interest there...so we decided 2 just get a hotel room and party there...oddly one of the guys with me picked up someone at the bar who turned out to b the biggest fuckin exhibitionist on the face of the earth... think we played ring toss with his penis and a belt?.....but anyway...it was interesting...Alex had up to that point been a strickly one on one kinda guy...but everyone was safe and we all had fun...I agree that you can never worry about who is gonna b at the orgy...it is always YOUR choice as to participate or not...but in the 4 or 5 that i have had since then i always end up finding one or two ppl that hold my attention and we slink away to somewhere a lil mo private......but yes...if you have always wanted to participate and never had the balls...then i suggest that you find a couple of ppl that u can feel comfortable with...**NOT FRIENDS** and try it out... btw...www.lemaisonchat.cjb.net...check it out

All I am thinking of is that orgy scene in Summer of Sam. I think orgies I think disco/cocaine/1970's (well...and the ancient Romans). I don't think I'd ever be into it...but sounds like you guys had fun.

This is like the "Dear Playboy" column...but gay.

althom said:

Dear PlayGurl...

So when is the Org Orgy taking place?

I had literally countless group and random 1-on-1 encounters in my younger days of whoredom. Formally planned, impromptu, in hotels, private homes, offices, hot tubs, blue-collar, white-collar, mechanics, athletes, college dudes, doctors, lawyers, business travelers, a couple of local millionaires, straight, gay, bi, married, single, different ethnicities, guys from six continents, ages 19 to 50, well-endowed, hung like hamsters, vanilla, kinky, yada yada yada…

Group sex can be really interesting from an experiential standpoint. Being with an intriguing, unexplored new partner is like taking a vacation to an exotic land. Still, when you start to require more than sex-as-sport, this sort of thing just doesn’t do it for you anymore. Not to mention the fact that this sort of behavior can be downright suicidal. I still talk a good game (where’s that Dutch cutie Fhunkin!?!? ), but I’d never go back to that lifestyle, or trade a faithful, monogamous and mutually loving partner for the legions of hotties out there.
[This message was edited Tue Mar 25 9:54:41 PST 2003 by Lammastide]