How many of us has insecurities, can a person ever be fully confident within there own selves without seeming to arrogant or coincided? When a person says I don't care what other people think, do they really mean it, or is just a excuse to hide the true feel

I definitely have insecurities but it's more about body image. It doesn't matter what a person says about how I look, I definitely an issue with how I view my body.


so believe most people have some insecurities about something.

Rhondab said:

Exactly! I dont care what

anybody else thinks however,

I care what I think! My issues

are mine because of me not because

I care what people think.
[This message was edited Sun Mar 23 18:40:27 PST 2003 by luv4thepurple1]

i never had time 4 arrogant people...they r so rude and full of shit!

I dont completely not care..thats impossible for anyone not to care to soem extent but I bet any amount of duckets I care less about what people think more than anyone on the Org.

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[This message was edited Sun Mar 23 18:54:12 PST 2003 by rdhull]

DigitalLisa said:

Conceited? Yes, people can come across as confident without coming across that way.


Everybody cares what somebody else thinks. But everybody doesn't care what everybody else thinks.
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[This message was edited Mon Mar 24 11:40:49 PST 2003 by Supernova]

DigitalLisa said:

Sometimes you say you don't care and mean it. Other times, it is a way of protecting your feelings. It depends on the situation.

I care too much, it's one of my biggest weaknesses

CalhounSq said:

I love your honesty!

Lleena said:

Lleena!!

DigitalLisa said:

I think it's just only natural that people have some kind of insecurity on some level. The hardest part of it for me is to be totally honest with myself and admitting to myself what insecurities are within me. Knowing what those are I can begin to confront them.

But it is a struggle because acknowledging to myself that there is a weakness in my character is scary. But I also believe that if you're aware of your strengths as well as your weaknesses, you are much better off and more equipped to handle life.

So it is said that if you know others and know yourself, you will not be imperiled in a hundred battles; if you do not know others but know yourself, you win one and lose one; if you do not know others and do not know yourself, you will be imperiled in every single battle.
Sun Tzu-The Art Of War

CalhounSq said:

pointing, gigglin, and snickerin at CalhounSq

insecure edit
[This message was edited Mon Mar 24 16:02:14 PST 2003 by chickengrease]

I don't care.