Ok..why is it that wherever I go, people are constanly trying to match me up with women? Like there was a older middle age guy (50s) at my job who's always asking me about girls and he seems to think i can have any woman I want. There was a lady who happen to see me and another girl talking everyday about work related stuff. She wanted me to give her my number and ask her out.

But see, the thing is, I'm not even that good looking but they've tried to match me up with the most BEAUTIFUL women. Women that every dude wants.

You see, I'm kind of quiet and shy but there's plenty of guys who were like me, yet somehow I got all the women. The women may show some interest but it never last. Usually they lose interest about a month or so.

But there must be something about me that people can see but girls cant. I dont know what it is.

Maybe they think you look lonely? Or insecure because of your self-proclaimed mediocre looks so they want to hook you up with attractive women as some kind of ego boost for you?

I dunno, people are weird.

This is either one of those lame-ass "humble brag" things or OP is wishful thinking and really looks like this:

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daingermouz2020 said:

Lol, on the subject of a humble brag. I use to work with this dude who would always put himself down as far as looks. But he was extremely good looking. None if us were as handsome as he was but we didn't let that kill our night we did ok. But as time went on we noticed he'd only down himself when we were around girls so they could tell him how gorgeous he was. I always found it funny. It was like clock work.

I would think it was great if folks would match me up with somebody. Especially if he is pretty. What is the problem?

bigboy784 said:

But there must be something about me that people can see but girls cant. I dont know what it is.

You know that girls are people too huh?

nextedition said:

bigboy784 said:

But there must be something about me that people can see but girls cant. I dont know what it is.

You know that girls are people too huh?

It seems that all girls have to like him and want to go out with him, other wise he has to endure the horrifics of a rejection.

Something many people have to face now and then. But some boys think they should not be part of that crowd, they should not have to face rejection.

For some mysterious reason, a lot of boys think they are entitled to be admired by every girl they want to go out with. If the girl doesn't validate his ego, she can be dismissed as bitch or worse. Sometimes, the no of the girl will not be understood or heard.

But hey, poor guy, who does not get attention of girls, even though he doesn't goes out, right?

Y! E! S!

No matter how much I experess the type of guy I'm attracted to, anytime I've been fixed up on a blind date I ask my friends if they are freakin blind!

in my experience, engaged or married people and single people DON'T mix

I have nothing against engaged or married couples...I just stay the FUCK away from them

guitarslinger44 said:

This is either one of those lame-ass "humble brag" things or OP is wishful thinking and really looks like this:

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This does look like a guy who would ask something like "Do black people like Huey Lewis and the News" or "What are some white artists that black people like"......in other words, girls are not the only thing this guy is clueless about.

JoeTyler said:

in my experience, engaged or married people and single people DON'T mix

I have nothing against engaged or married couples...I just stay the FUCK away from them

Yep. Me too. That goes for friends as well. As soon as they link up with somebody, I dump their asses. Always wanna invite me as a third wheel, just so I can watch them make out, talk like babies to each other, call each other pet names all damn night...I don't want to hear that gay shit.

ScarletScandal said:

JoeTyler said:

in my experience, engaged or married people and single people DON'T mix

I have nothing against engaged or married couples...I just stay the FUCK away from them

Yep. Me too. That goes for friends as well. As soon as they link up with somebody, I dump their asses. Always wanna invite me as a third wheel, just so I can watch them make out, talk like babies to each other, call each other pet names all damn night...I don't want to hear that gay shit.

it's actually worse when they invite you as a third wheel because they THINK/FEEL I must feel so lonely...

excuse me?? yeah, I'm single, NOT alone, and very happy, thank you very much

JoeTyler said:

All projection my friend. Sometimes when we want something or wish we did something differently in the past, we unconsciously project it onto other people. I used to take great offense to this, but now I realize it's only human and I've done the same thing to people, but not with matching up, with career related things. And the intentions may not be bad as they feel in the moment.

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alphastreet said:

All projection my friend. Sometimes when we want something or wish we did something differently in the past, we unconsciously project it onto other people. I used to take great offense to this, but now I realize it's only human and I've done the same thing to people, but not with matching up, with career related things. And the intentions may not be bad as they feel in the moment.

This is deep.

You know, I saw a very profound thing in documentary about a guy who was anxious about having a small dick. (I'm not saying this is your issue but, bear with me for a minute. )

This guy had been rejected by his girlfriend when he proposed to her, and that was mentioned to him as a reason why. And he had a complex about it.

After literally flying around the world, trying to find an enlargement process that would "actually work" he gave up and talked to my fave advice columnist, Dan Savage. And Dan told him, "I once had a bf with a small one. That didn't bother me, the sex was fine. But what did bother me, is that he wouldn't shut up about it, kept bringing it up and how awful he felt about it, and every little problem we had in the relationship ended up in a conversation about his small dick."

Dan said he got so exasperated he had to let the guy go. It wasn't the small size. It was the guy's inability to be comfortable in his own skin.

So what I'm saying, if you have insecurities about your looks, well hey, that's only human. But maybe you can find a way to stop calling attention to those feelings.

As a guy who has dated many women that I once would have thought "out of my league" I have to say - we are not always our own best judge. The other thing I would say, if you find yourself doing this with success, that's when you REALLY need to let it go. Don't beg the women for constant reeassurance. Nothing is more un-sexy to most women than a lack of confidence.

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bobzilla77 said:

You know, I saw a very profound thing in documentary about a guy who was anxious about having a small dick. (I'm not saying this is your issue but, bear with me for a minute. )

This guy had been rejected by his girlfriend when he proposed to her, and that was mentioned to him as a reason why. And he had a complex about it.

After literally flying around the world, trying to find an enlargement process that would "actually work" he gave up and talked to my fave advice columnist, Dan Savage. And Dan told him, "I once had a bf with a small one. That didn't bother me, the sex was fine. But what did bother me, is that he wouldn't shut up about it, kept bringing it up and how awful he felt about it, and every little problem we had in the relationship ended up in a conversation about his small dick."

Dan said he got so exasperated he had to let the guy go. It wasn't the small size. It was the guy's inability to be comfortable in his own skin.

So what I'm saying, if you have insecurities about your looks, well hey, that's only human. But maybe you can find a way to stop calling attention to those feelings.

As a guy who has dated many women that I once would have thought "out of my league" I have to say - we are not always our own best judge. The other thing I would say, if you find yourself doing this with success, that's when you REALLY need to let it go. Don't beg the women for constant reeassurance. Nothing is more un-sexy to most women than a lack of confidence.

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He's tripping. In the gay world, he would just be a bottom and have NO.TROUBLE. being with someone lol

3rdeyedude said:

guitarslinger44 said:

This is either one of those lame-ass "humble brag" things or OP is wishful thinking and really looks like this:

[img:$uid]http://images1.wikia.nocookie.net/__cb20120715223323/uncyclopedia/images/thumb/9/94/Neckbeards.png/200px-Neckbeards.png[/img:$uid]

This does look like a guy who would ask something like "Do black people like Huey Lewis and the News" or "What are some white artists that black people like"......in other words, girls are not the only thing this guy is clueless about.

bigboy784?????????

kpowers said:

This does look like a guy who would ask something like "Do black people like Huey Lewis and the News" or "What are some white artists that black people like"......in other words, girls are not the only thing this guy is clueless about.

bigboy784?????????

That guy with the pony tail and glasses must have killed himself after being used for so many mean spirited memes all over the internet.

Hudson said:

That guy with the pony tail and glasses must have killed himself after being used for so many mean spirited memes all over the internet.

Yeah, that's pretty cruel.