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Thought I'd bring things down to earth a little. Keep things a little more realistic.

And besides, I deserve it.

No sex for 4 months now, which also obviously means no ejaculating at all.


What's the longest you've gone without sex?


(since losing your virginity of course, don't anybody say 16 years or something)


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[This message was edited Fri Mar 21 13:52:07 PST 2003 by nickandmon]

nickandmon said:

Oh so the little wifey was rationing out the juice, good for her!

Paisley said:

huh?

nickandmon said:

You dont get it do you? you dont know what juice is?

Paisley said:

I get that part. It's rationing I'm struggling with. Help me out here.

The longest? I've only had 1 1/2 partners, but...

I've been 15 months sex-free now!

And I feel great!

nickandmon said:

Haven't you heard the old saying, "rationing water"? or maybe I'm spelling it wrong, but I doubt it.

Paisley said:

Nope, rationing. To ration. I get the meaning. I don't get the implication.

INSATIABLE said:

I think she ment to use the emotion there somewhere.

nickandmon said:

Nevermind, it's something only a woman could understand.

Paisley said:

Yeah, maybe. Or maybe it was just wrong?

I guess she was rationing the juice by not getting on a plane with me to England and staying home in Thailand instead.





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[This message was edited Fri Mar 21 14:05:21 PST 2003 by nickandmon]

althom said:

Nope... proper emoticon use- I'm loving celibacy. I could go my whole life without sex.

INSATIABLE said:

You really need to go out on a date, Jana!

althom said:

What's so wrong with being single?!

And how do you know I'm not dating?! Do all of your dates end with sex? :O

INSATIABLE said:

Good for u. Personally I alternate between being a horny bastard and not really needing sex at all. I can understand how it's perfectly possible to live happily without sex. Whatever makes u happy. Best to keep an open mind and go with how u feel.

nickandmon said:

Definitely.

I can see myself changing, but with my lifestly right now, it suits me just fine. I'm not fond of relationships.

INSATIABLE said:

Seeing that it's my wife that I go out with...




YES!

althom said:

you know what I meant, Alli!

althom said:

Marriage is very underated.

nickandmon said:

Speak for yourself!

<--- fine with me! My cat wouldn't let anyone share our bed anyway

INSATIABLE said:

It's true. I don't get why guys especially seem to make 'marriage' a dirty word. It doesn't mean u stop having fun and stop having sex.



Surely u marry someone u think is the sexiest thing u've ever seen and u get to bang her several times a day every day of the week.

Right?

Marriage is good.

Oh and all the commitment stuff, and love itself of course. It's all wrapped up in the package.

nickandmon said:

For fuck's sake, I am a 21 year old woman. (althom, I need to get my next picture on my avatar!) And marriage IS a dirty word right now, to me. It's good. I am too young to do that anyway!

I have the ultimate respect to those who took the vow. All I can say is WOW.

nickandmon said:

I want to have sex with your wife too
[This message was edited Fri Mar 21 14:21:08 PST 2003 by Heavenly]

Haven't you ever heard the term, "She's put you on rations"?

And how would we know that your wife is in Thailand?

INSATIABLE said:

No, I still don't get it. I'm only 21 too. I wouldn't have thought age would have anything to do with it. U could meet someone special at any time. Obviously if that happened to be when you were 10 years old it might not work, but why are people so scared of marriage.

U only think about it when u really love somebody, and when u really love somebody why would u be scared and wary?

minneapolisgenius said:

Because I'm always banging on about it?

Well, it'd be pretty bad if we were living together right now and she was doing that.

That's a violation of human rights isn't it?

What kind of a wife would ration out sex? A mentally unhealthy one I'd warrant. That's just strange.

nickandmon said:

Age doesn't matter. I've got friends younger than I that are married and even have a child. I'm not ready for something like that, I won't be for a little while... everyone's different. I AM afraid of marriage. Commitment isn't why... but in my life, all I've known is broken marriages, etc. Everyone in my family, up to my great grandparents, all of my of my aunts, uncles, cousins (I'm the youngest)- they've all been divorced at least once. It's overrated to me. Happiness exists without marriage, and I don't see myself changing anytime soon.

INSATIABLE said:

Okey doke. I can understand from what u've said. I guess I've experience the complete opposite.

Well, best of luck anyway.

nickandmon said:

Excellent!



Uh, thanks?

nickandmon said:

You finally said something