U know for sure that they will never find out. Unlikely I know, but let's imagine. So u know they will never be hurt. In a random encounter the opportunity arises for a wild night with a very cute guy/girl who wants to go to bed with u, what do u do?



Hmmm...


Do u think u'd be capable of cheating if given the right (wrong) circumstances?

Do u think u would be strong enough to resist?

Have u ever done something like this?

No and never!!!

Not only would you be cheating on your partner, but yourself too and the relationship. I have never done and never would!

nickandmon said:

Not worth it under any circumstances...
If ya truly love your partner.
It would never occur. I believe. smile... 8)

If he knows, is it still cheating ?

Nope...

Not a Chance!!

nickandmon said:

No. The guilt would bother me, even if she didn't know.
Also, I don't think I'll ever need to. If she's my lover, it's because I chose her as one, which means I'm more than satisfied with what she offers and don't need to look elsewhere.

nickandmon said:

I do not believe in cheating and I have done it once in my life and I had issues with it... knowing that what I was doing was wrong, but convincing myself it was okay because of the circumstances. No, obviously I wasn't strong enough to resist, because I did it, right?

However, I do know that I won't do it again. I don't have it in me to cheat and should't have done it in the first place and I knew better.

Edit: I have not and would not do it in a situation like you suggested... a random encounter.


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[This message was edited Fri Mar 21 5:49:41 PST 2003 by AzureStar]

No. There is no temptation for that sort of stuff. I've never cheated, and never will. The relationship would have to be over first, and then I do as I please.

justanotherasshole said:

Hmmm...

How could u be flaming on here?

Anyway, I must say, u seem a very decent lot.

Not too many adulterers here.

You're not getting any ideas are you.

No

Yes.
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Just kidding. I don't need to cheat. It's the best.

IceNine said:

Why not?

What a bunch of goody-two-shoe liars

I have to say... maybe. All high morals aside, you never really know how you'll react in a situation like that until it actually happens.

Anyway clearly nickandmon is looking for us to give him the all clear on this issue, so I say do it and just feel like shit afterwards

Ian

The most important human of all would know, ME

Never! I could not cause untold damage to myself! If im so unhappy I need to work on it or move on!

Further more: I could NOT be involved with a man who was with someone else at the time either! ( What? I think im special and he would not do the same thing to me one day? )


I love having my feet planted firmly in reality. My reality!

Hell yea, I would!

But first I need to change my respect for karma!

WHUT CHEAT???
SHE SAY IT'S COOL FOR ME TO EXPLORE MY
CURIOSITIES AND APPRECIATIONS FOR THE FINER THINGS IN LIFE

nickandmon said:

or there are just a bunch of liars... ...


that said, my answer is no... ...

ian said:

No, if this was likely to happen to me I wouldn't feel brave enough to make a thread about it. That would be too close to the bone. The only reason I made the thread was because I feel contented enough to write about this, completely free from immoral desires.

I'm happy to see that most say 'no' and some are quite vociferous about it.

Good stuff.

Ian, I'm disappointed in u. I was expected a firm, solid 'NO'. None of this 'never really know until...' stuff.

Must do better.

ian said:

:LOL:... good thing you were never a guidance counselor...

"ahh, go ahead and shoot up a few times and see if you get anything out of it..."

Dudes, when I really think about it, and if I was in a really shitty relationship that I was stupid enough to stay in, then I just might. I do know that I would probably feel really shitty afterwards, because I would obviously still love my actual boyfriend- even if we were going through that much shit.

I've been cheated on once before, and I've had several chances to do it but never could. I wouldn't just do that with someone I didn't know.

No. Cheating is wrong. You can never get away from it for absolute certain, because your conscience will always know.

INSATIABLE said:

dudes... :LOL:...

EllisDee said:

I just want to add I'd never even dream of doing this- even if my relationship was having major problems. It would take a lot for me to have to go do naughty things with someone else- and I wouldn't even let myself be in a relationship that messed up. So as you see, it's pretty much impossible.

INSATIABLE said:

INSATIABLE said:



... ... duuude?




dudely edit...
[This message was edited Fri Mar 21 9:42:43 PST 2003 by EllisDee]

EllisDee said:

In my best Sean Connery voice:
"Damn you and your Daily Doubles, Trebek!"

INSATIABLE said: