Heterosexuals.... have you ever been tempted, or open to a same sex experience? As a gay man, I've been with "straight" guys that never went further than me giving them head...I know it doesnt make them gay (just like me eating a girl out...wouldn't make me straight) I've been kind of thinking about it (i'm 47, a virgin to women) but lately I've met and have been drunkenly seduced by some pretty hot gals. I'm comfortable with my sexuality...and will check the gay box...but I'm curious about the DL guys...or guys that would be open to doing it...without guilt, shame or labelling....would you?

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My answer is no.

I'm past the shame or labeling, so I would honestly say if I had, but no I've never been tempted & since gay porn doesn't do anything for me I would say that I'm not "open" to it either.

No.

Empress said:

Graycap23 said:No.

WTF does that mean?

"Curious" maybe, thought about it, but not to the point of being tempted to go through with it. It's been offered once or twice and was not something I had to struggle with to make a decision.

I do believe that "fexibility" exists on a spectrum and it sounds like you are discovering that you are not as far to one side as you might have believed.

I got bitten on my neck by this gay goth kid in a club once..

oops I forgot to answer your question... I'm not really inclined. I've had a few awkward moments when I was in college and just out of college when I used to get pass-out hammered daily.. but sober if ever i sensed something a little too friendly, flirtatious or awkward with another guy I tend to wander off or say I forgot I had to do something really urgent and leave.

Three hetero men that I had major relationships with admitted to at least one homosexual encounter (one a trannie mistaken for a woman lol). Experimentation on both sides of the fence is a pretty common occurence...and sexuality exists on a continuum between heterosexuality and homosexuality in real life.

no

Romantic relationship? absolutely not...I can feel empathy and loyalty towards a man (straight or gay), but NEVER love

Sex? I don't (and never will) like to penetrate a man OR be penetrated by a man (straight or gay), and I'm totally against the idea of receiving head (or kissing a man in the mouth), but for some reason, I can totally give head to a man if the time/circumstances is-are right (mostly with a woman watching/being there/participating) = it doesn't happen often, but it has happened...it hasn't happened often because being in a threesome with a true bisexual man is not common-easy to find, or a woman willing to get in bed with two men, one of them being bi (or maybe 100% gay)...

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Straight guys are boring as hell. Ive never understood the gay fetish for straigh guys. The ones I did things with when I was figuring out my sexuality laid there like cold fish.

No. If you want to do it by all means do it.

benjaminira said:

Heterosexuals.... have you ever been tempted, or open to a same sex experience? As a gay man, I've been with "straight" guys that never went further than me giving them head...I know it doesnt make them gay (just like me eating a girl out...wouldn't make me straight) I've been kind of thinking about it (i'm 47, a virgin to women) but lately I've met and have been drunkenly seduced by some pretty hot gals. I'm comfortable with my sexuality...and will check the gay box...but I'm curious about the DL guys...or guys that would be open to doing it...without guilt, shame or labelling....would you?

Ive never been tempted or really thought about(in detail)having a same sex experience. I have been hit on quite a bit(mainly when i was younger)by persons of the same sex. I'm from San Francisco so, in a way, that is to be expected. I used to get offended by it but then i realised that it wasn't no big deal and nothing to get upset over.


One thing i will say is Ive seen some transsexuals who look extremely good and if i was on a island (or in prison for life)with no women around, i would probably do it(have sex with a tranny).

If i was in prison for life or on a island, would i do it with a regular looking man, nope.

The thing is, Penises don't turn me on, so it would be extremely hard for me have sex with someone who has one.





Also I'm attracted to femininity so that would be another block that would probably keep me from engaging in a same sex relationship.

benjaminira said:

Heterosexuals.... have you ever been tempted, or open to a same sex experience? As a gay man, I've been with "straight" guys that never went further than me giving them head...I know it doesnt make them gay (just like me eating a girl out...wouldn't make me straight) I've been kind of thinking about it (i'm 47, a virgin to women) but lately I've met and have been drunkenly seduced by some pretty hot gals. I'm comfortable with my sexuality...and will check the gay box...but I'm curious about the DL guys...or guys that would be open to doing it...without guilt, shame or labelling....would you?

The hell it doesn't. Maybe not full fledged gay but definitely bisexual because straight men don't engage in any type of sexual activity with a man whatsoever. That's why bastards like these are the biggest gay bashers in the world and think they can enjoy the pleasure we give them and still continue to bash us. I say, knock the motherfuckers down to size. Tell their wives and girlfriends what they're doing and let's just see how "straight" they think they are.

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Giving these bastards pleasure and still letting them think they're above us is like a black woman sleeping with a Ku Klux Klan member and still letting them go around with their bashing. And as a gay man who slept with a few women years ago because that's what I was "supposed" to do, it's a little different. Sleeping with the same sex has never been the acceptable norm as what you're "supposed" to do. These bastards are doing it because they enjoy it. They're not doing it to be trying to live a "normal" life like we've done in our closet years by sleeping with the opposite sex. But if someone wants to label me as a bisexual because I've slept with a woman before, I'm fine with that. But these motherfuckers won't even admit to being a bisexual and refuse to acknowledge that they're anything other than "straight". That's so they can continue to bash us. They actually hate us but they still want the pleasure we can give them. Hell, they seek it out by coming down to our known clubs and cruising spots trying to pick us up. I've never gone to straight areas trying to get a man, they've come to my areas so it's not a matter of...."Oh, it just happened one night". They know what they're doing and they are a huge part of why we have been bashed because they bash us themselves. These bisexual men in denial are what we have called "trade" for years and I absolutely hate the ground they walk on.

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vainandy said:

No.

Although last summer a hot chick suggested me that I could join her and her husband for a threesome. I stared her with a blank face and asked her "so you mean I have to fuck your husband in order to get to fuck you?". She said "yes". I was really drunk but I think I did consider it an option for a moment just because I wanted a chance to get to be with her. What wouldn't men do for sex with hot chicks anyway.

novabrkr said:

No.

Although last summer a hot chick suggested me that I could join her and her husband for a threesome. I stared her with a blank face and asked her "so you mean I have to fuck your husband in order to get to fuck you?". She said "yes". I was really drunk but I think I did consider it an option for a moment just because I wanted a chance to get to be with her. What wouldn't men do for sex with hot chicks anyway.

wow, man, you find interesting people...

andykeen said:

Yes. I've just got into prostate massagers as well.

Is that some type of thing?

lezama said:

andykeen said:

Yes. I've just got into prostate massagers as well.

Is that some type of thing?

Hell to the yeahhhh.