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nickandmon said: ian said: What a bunch of goody-two-shoe liars
I have to say... maybe. All high morals aside, you never really know how you'll react in a situation like that until it actually happens. Anyway clearly nickandmon is looking for us to give him the all clear on this issue, so I say do it and just feel like shit afterwards 
Ian 
No, if this was likely to happen to me I wouldn't feel brave enough to make a thread about it. That would be too close to the bone. The only reason I made the thread was because I feel contented enough to write about this, completely free from immoral desires.
I'm happy to see that most say 'no' and some are quite vociferous about it. Good stuff. 
Ian, I'm disappointed in u. I was expected a firm, solid 'NO'. None of this 'never really know until...' stuff. 
Must do better. Hey, I'm all for monogamy and for being faithful to your partner. However I'm just being realistic - people make mistakes. Put it to you like this - for example if your partner isn't appreciating you as much as you'd like, and things are getting stale, and you meet someone who seems genuinely to be digging you, who is attractive, willing and able... you might say "no!" but some people won't. Be realistic 
As for me personally, I like to think I've grown into a sincere and faithful guy (although I wasn't necessarily like that as a younger man!) and I doubt I'd cheat... if it came to it I'd break up the first relationship before pursuing another. But who knows? People fuck up. Rule #1 of life. | |
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ian said: nickandmon said: ian said: What a bunch of goody-two-shoe liars
I have to say... maybe. All high morals aside, you never really know how you'll react in a situation like that until it actually happens. Anyway clearly nickandmon is looking for us to give him the all clear on this issue, so I say do it and just feel like shit afterwards
Ian
No, if this was likely to happen to me I wouldn't feel brave enough to make a thread about it. That would be too close to the bone. The only reason I made the thread was because I feel contented enough to write about this, completely free from immoral desires.
I'm happy to see that most say 'no' and some are quite vociferous about it. Good stuff.
Ian, I'm disappointed in u. I was expected a firm, solid 'NO'. None of this 'never really know until...' stuff.
Must do better. Hey, I'm all for monogamy and for being faithful to your partner. However I'm just being realistic - people make mistakes. Put it to you like this - for example if your partner isn't appreciating you as much as you'd like, and things are getting stale, and you meet someone who seems genuinely to be digging you, who is attractive, willing and able... you might say "no!" but some people won't. Be realistic
As for me personally, I like to think I've grown into a sincere and faithful guy (although I wasn't necessarily like that as a younger man!) and I doubt I'd cheat... if it came to it I'd break up the first relationship before pursuing another. But who knows? People fuck up. Rule #1 of life. True. But still, not the touching affirmation it might've been. Love is blind remember. U're not supposed to be objective and realistic. U're supposed to be consumed.
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nope never cheat it is wrong. if your that unhappy that you have to cheat you may as well just leave the relationship anway JaneyPoos used to be it... then they changed what it was. Now what I am isn't it and what is it is strange and frightening to me...
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nickandmon said: ian said: nickandmon said: ian said: What a bunch of goody-two-shoe liars
I have to say... maybe. All high morals aside, you never really know how you'll react in a situation like that until it actually happens. Anyway clearly nickandmon is looking for us to give him the all clear on this issue, so I say do it and just feel like shit afterwards
Ian
No, if this was likely to happen to me I wouldn't feel brave enough to make a thread about it. That would be too close to the bone. The only reason I made the thread was because I feel contented enough to write about this, completely free from immoral desires.
I'm happy to see that most say 'no' and some are quite vociferous about it. Good stuff.
Ian, I'm disappointed in u. I was expected a firm, solid 'NO'. None of this 'never really know until...' stuff.
Must do better. Hey, I'm all for monogamy and for being faithful to your partner. However I'm just being realistic - people make mistakes. Put it to you like this - for example if your partner isn't appreciating you as much as you'd like, and things are getting stale, and you meet someone who seems genuinely to be digging you, who is attractive, willing and able... you might say "no!" but some people won't. Be realistic
As for me personally, I like to think I've grown into a sincere and faithful guy (although I wasn't necessarily like that as a younger man!) and I doubt I'd cheat... if it came to it I'd break up the first relationship before pursuing another. But who knows? People fuck up. Rule #1 of life. True. But still, not the touching affirmation it might've been. Love is blind remember. U're not supposed to be objective and realistic. U're supposed to be consumed.
... [This message was edited Fri Mar 21 15:03:24 PST 2003 by nickandmon] Do the blind thing for your first big relationship, get utterly shat on, and then approach your relationships with more pragmatism and objectivity It's not very romantic but it works | |
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ian said: nickandmon said: ian said: nickandmon said: ian said: What a bunch of goody-two-shoe liars
I have to say... maybe. All high morals aside, you never really know how you'll react in a situation like that until it actually happens. Anyway clearly nickandmon is looking for us to give him the all clear on this issue, so I say do it and just feel like shit afterwards
Ian
No, if this was likely to happen to me I wouldn't feel brave enough to make a thread about it. That would be too close to the bone. The only reason I made the thread was because I feel contented enough to write about this, completely free from immoral desires.
I'm happy to see that most say 'no' and some are quite vociferous about it. Good stuff.
Ian, I'm disappointed in u. I was expected a firm, solid 'NO'. None of this 'never really know until...' stuff.
Must do better. Hey, I'm all for monogamy and for being faithful to your partner. However I'm just being realistic - people make mistakes. Put it to you like this - for example if your partner isn't appreciating you as much as you'd like, and things are getting stale, and you meet someone who seems genuinely to be digging you, who is attractive, willing and able... you might say "no!" but some people won't. Be realistic
As for me personally, I like to think I've grown into a sincere and faithful guy (although I wasn't necessarily like that as a younger man!) and I doubt I'd cheat... if it came to it I'd break up the first relationship before pursuing another. But who knows? People fuck up. Rule #1 of life. True. But still, not the touching affirmation it might've been. Love is blind remember. U're not supposed to be objective and realistic. U're supposed to be consumed.
... [This message was edited Fri Mar 21 15:03:24 PST 2003 by nickandmon] Do the blind thing for your first big relationship, get utterly shat on, and then approach your relationships with more pragmatism and objectivity It's not very romantic but it works Ah, that's so hard. But do u regret that shatting on now or do u see at as a necessary shatting? Do u think we all need to be shat on at some point in order to recognise what isn't true love when we don't see it? | |
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nickandmon said: ian said: nickandmon said: ian said: nickandmon said: ian said: What a bunch of goody-two-shoe liars
I have to say... maybe. All high morals aside, you never really know how you'll react in a situation like that until it actually happens. Anyway clearly nickandmon is looking for us to give him the all clear on this issue, so I say do it and just feel like shit afterwards
Ian
No, if this was likely to happen to me I wouldn't feel brave enough to make a thread about it. That would be too close to the bone. The only reason I made the thread was because I feel contented enough to write about this, completely free from immoral desires.
I'm happy to see that most say 'no' and some are quite vociferous about it. Good stuff.
Ian, I'm disappointed in u. I was expected a firm, solid 'NO'. None of this 'never really know until...' stuff.
Must do better. Hey, I'm all for monogamy and for being faithful to your partner. However I'm just being realistic - people make mistakes. Put it to you like this - for example if your partner isn't appreciating you as much as you'd like, and things are getting stale, and you meet someone who seems genuinely to be digging you, who is attractive, willing and able... you might say "no!" but some people won't. Be realistic
As for me personally, I like to think I've grown into a sincere and faithful guy (although I wasn't necessarily like that as a younger man!) and I doubt I'd cheat... if it came to it I'd break up the first relationship before pursuing another. But who knows? People fuck up. Rule #1 of life. True. But still, not the touching affirmation it might've been. Love is blind remember. U're not supposed to be objective and realistic. U're supposed to be consumed.
... [This message was edited Fri Mar 21 15:03:24 PST 2003 by nickandmon] Do the blind thing for your first big relationship, get utterly shat on, and then approach your relationships with more pragmatism and objectivity It's not very romantic but it works Ah, that's so hard. But do u regret that shatting on now or do u see at as a necessary shatting? Do u think we all need to be shat on at some point in order to recognise what isn't true love when we don't see it? I think we all need to be shat on a few times A few doomed relationships are good experience I think, when you are young... to prepare you for when things can go bad. It makes you stronger. I have friends who married their first ever girlfriends... which is sweet and everything but also a bit mad. | |
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ian said: nickandmon said: ian said: nickandmon said: ian said: nickandmon said: ian said: What a bunch of goody-two-shoe liars
I have to say... maybe. All high morals aside, you never really know how you'll react in a situation like that until it actually happens. Anyway clearly nickandmon is looking for us to give him the all clear on this issue, so I say do it and just feel like shit afterwards
Ian
No, if this was likely to happen to me I wouldn't feel brave enough to make a thread about it. That would be too close to the bone. The only reason I made the thread was because I feel contented enough to write about this, completely free from immoral desires.
I'm happy to see that most say 'no' and some are quite vociferous about it. Good stuff.
Ian, I'm disappointed in u. I was expected a firm, solid 'NO'. None of this 'never really know until...' stuff.
Must do better. Hey, I'm all for monogamy and for being faithful to your partner. However I'm just being realistic - people make mistakes. Put it to you like this - for example if your partner isn't appreciating you as much as you'd like, and things are getting stale, and you meet someone who seems genuinely to be digging you, who is attractive, willing and able... you might say "no!" but some people won't. Be realistic
As for me personally, I like to think I've grown into a sincere and faithful guy (although I wasn't necessarily like that as a younger man!) and I doubt I'd cheat... if it came to it I'd break up the first relationship before pursuing another. But who knows? People fuck up. Rule #1 of life. True. But still, not the touching affirmation it might've been. Love is blind remember. U're not supposed to be objective and realistic. U're supposed to be consumed.
... [This message was edited Fri Mar 21 15:03:24 PST 2003 by nickandmon] Do the blind thing for your first big relationship, get utterly shat on, and then approach your relationships with more pragmatism and objectivity It's not very romantic but it works Ah, that's so hard. But do u regret that shatting on now or do u see at as a necessary shatting? Do u think we all need to be shat on at some point in order to recognise what isn't true love when we don't see it? I think we all need to be shat on a few times A few doomed relationships are good experience I think, when you are young... to prepare you for when things can go bad. It makes you stronger. I have friends who married their first ever girlfriends... which is sweet and everything but also a bit mad.Yeah, that's some crazy shit that. | |
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i wonder if your partners would say the same thing...
 you're only as old as you feel..............so how old do i feel 
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No. Absolutely not. Cheating makes absolutely no sense to me. I would never enter into a relationship without love first. Once you have that, you don't need anything else. | |
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no. my partner's all i need. he's who i fantasize about. | |
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