This is a mistake waiting 2 happen. Step off...............wayyyyy off. FOOLS multiply when WISE Men & Women are silent. | |
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Listen, if she's treating her fiance like shit by confessing her love to you, who's to say she won't turn around and do the same to you when she gets tired of you? You can judge a person's character by the way they treat their partners. If she shits on him, she'll shit on you, too. Don't even entertain the thought of hooking up with her. You're still young. You have plenty of time to invest in someone who really cares about you. Leave this trick alone. | |
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I don't think she is trying to hurt you, but at this point she is not good for you. She sounds terribly confused and that will only lead to trouble for you. It totally sucks to stay away from someone you have strong emotions for but that's what I would try to do. If she really means what she is saying to you now, she will still want you in her life when/if she gets out of her current situation. If not, well at least you didn't get caught up in it more. From the little you have said she doesn't really sound like an awful person at all, just unhappy and confused and looking for whatever attention she is lacking/yearning for. | |
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ThAnks for the advice everybody.I really appreciate it. She was my first love so maybe that's why it's hard for me to get over it.I think I had gotten over her during the 5 year gap but my aunt had to give her my number!!! Oh well.from now on I'll ignore her completely There's Joy in repetition | |
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If you wouldn't treat her the way she treats you (I assume you wouldn't dare do that) then why would it be okay for her to mistreat you? Loving someone doesn't mean you overlook mistreatment of yourself or others in their life by the supposed loved one.
I was madly in love with a girl who was no good for me and I ended it. I knew this girl cared far more about herself than me and every one else in her life. I cut all ties with her, it was the best way to get over her. With some time and distance I still am happy with that choice. 99.9% of everything I say is strictly for my own entertainment | |
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just find a some one hotter | |
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Well here's a update. 2 weeks ago I got a friend of mine to tell her that I couldn't talk to hurt anymore and she replied" okay". Yesterday was my birthday and today she texts my dad telling him to tell me she said happy birthday to me.she was a day late lol but oh well.I still haven't talked to her in a month There's Joy in repetition | |
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Let her go and make yourself happy. 99% of my posts are ironic. Maybe this post sides with the other 1%. | |
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someone who cares about you wont put you in this position. love someone who loves you back. | |
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