hey Org people:


I am very interested to have your opinion on the following:

Please respond to any 1 or all of the following, or simply give a general comment, based on your own experience(s) or on things you've heard.


1. What is the implication or significance of giving an undergarment-

boxers/briefs/panties/bra/lingerie/etc.

to a PLUTONIC friend of the opposite sex as a gift?


2. What do you think if a PLUTONIC friend of the opposite sex gives you an undergarment as a gift?


3. What is the expectation (if any) if a person gives his/her spouse or boy/girl friend an undergarment?


Thanks for your response(s)!

"Plutonic" implies the gift may be from the planet (or star, as you wish) Pluto.

A "platonic" gift, however, implies a friendly but non-sexual/non-romantic gesture. I wouldn't give anyone I didn't know very well such an intimate garment, but that's just me.

NegaTIVity said:

:LOL:...

That's so funny because the whole time I was reading that, I never even noticed it. That's so unlike me.

PLUTONIC =

If it isn't joke underwear (glow in the dark, inflatable, etc), then it is more-than-friendly, IMHO.

Except if you are a straight girl giving a close girlfriend undies. That's less weird.

And if you accept a gift of underwear, you are expected to model it. That's the rules.

tackam said:

really now..?


ooh... begins compiling a list of females to buy underwear for...

DAMN! you're right, Negativity!
I don't know HOW I missed that!


"And if you accept a gift of underwear, you are expected to model it. That's the rules."

Very interesting comment, tackam..
what/where do you think this "you gotta model it" rule comes from?


Thanks for everyone's imput..
looking forward to reading more!

mltijchr said:

It's just common sense that if you give somebody underwear, it's 'cause you think they'd look good in it, and you want to see!

I don't know. I don't make the rules.

thanks for your clarification, tackam;
your response fits a sort of "theory" I have about this issue..


for just a bit more clarity:

have you tackam, ever given or received such a gift?

please answer, or if you prefer, tell about someone you know who gave or received such a gift..

if some gives the opposite sex a gift of an undergarment..then yes more than just friendship is on the mind of the giver. and yes the receive is expected to model the gift...dah!!

I appreciate your comment..

but did you ever give or receive such a gift?


Apparently, undergarments-
like shoes & socks & sweaters & jeans & other articles of clothing-
when given as gifts, are expected to be.. "modeled" by the recipient..


interesting.

mltijchr said:

I have purchased some boxers for my man and i do like to see him wear them...i have also purchased teddies for myself to wear as a gift to my man...he loves my little santa outfit...it was a fun x-mas present...

mltijchr said:

I've already learned not to do this. I'll give a gift certificate from Victoria's Secret (or wherever) instead.