ThisOne said:

XxAxX said:

you got a new look? haircut?

Actually I did ! But that's not it!

you got a new job??

You've solved Pi?

the earth really IS hollow?

Cloudbuster said:

Your man hole leads to Narnia?

You discovered how great

Are?

ThisOne said:

Oh and any ladies on here that r in abusive relationships Trust me Believe me Listen to me I know and understand!!!! Things don't get better It's not good to stay for the sake of your kids - it's best to leave for their well being He will never change - he will only find different ways to hurt u So Open the door and run as fast as u can and never look back At the beginning yes it's hard, very very hard But then things actually do get easier

ThisOne said:

Ok there r actually a few things . But no one got any . One is blues by 18 !!! The other is I bought an 8 pack of chupachumps and when I opened it there were 9 to suck on ! And lastly it's my 3 year anniversary of freedom - for 3 years now no one has physically hurt me or made me feel worthless and depressed Freedom for 3 years ! [Edited 6/17/14 5:43am]

congratulations!!!!!

ThisOne said:

Oh and any ladies on here that r in abusive relationships Trust me Believe me Listen to me I know and understand!!!! Things don't get better It's not good to stay for the sake of your kids - it's best to leave for their well being He will never change - he will only find different ways to hurt u So Open the door and run as fast as u can and never look back At the beginning yes it's hard, very very hard But then things actually do get easier

Even though my class was already finished, one of my students called me up. Crying and in dispair.

I feel so bad for her. It sounds like she is in an abusive relationship and that she can't let him go.

I adviced her to read the book. And participate in groups.

This she mailed that she loves the book and that she is going in relationship therapy.


I sooooo hope she will not cling to him and thinks that this therapy can suddenly turn him into a kind, loving and emotional available man.

But, everybody has their own path.


And I guess I should be glad that apparently, my class had a huge impact on her, and that she is making some big changes in her life.


Thank you for showing that freedom is so good. And can be achieved.

ThisOne said:

Thank u everyone ! And dJJ u r amazing! Helping others like u do and the times we spoke u always gave me very good advice which really made a difference - so thank u so much !

Thanks. I should take my own advice for once.