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Reply #30 posted 03/19/03 2:52pm

nickandmon

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Reply #31 posted 03/19/03 3:10pm

REDFEATHERS

I know a couple of women, who have gone through 'similar' kinds of things...


They may dress nice and sexy and go out cos their friends 'egg' them on..and tell them to, but they are really putting on a 'show' to what they are really feeling inside and men may misjudge them..for who and what they are, and as I say, vice/versa...people need to get to know who they are talking to and respect people and maybe the people we judge as happy and run of the mill aren't necessarily so, so lets be a bit more open minded and respect all individual lives, we havent lived them and that is what makes us unique and whom we are ..

May God Love Us All...
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Reply #32 posted 03/19/03 6:14pm

ScarLett

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EvilWhiteMale said:

That's why castration needs to be given to these evil fucks.



once i agreed with this sentiment, now i know that even if u castrate them its still in their minds and they find "new" toys to fulfill such fantasies, there is no real rehabilitation for them other than slapping them on the wrist as so many yrs have passed hefty probabtion periods OH and that lovely sex offender for life title...

but who cares really does that bring back what innocence has been stolen from their victims... does it give back their right to choice or their right to life and happiness... no and thats why many need to make the courts understand that this is in direct violation with a peron's civil and constitutional liberties as now they do not persume it so.
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Reply #33 posted 03/19/03 7:08pm

CandyEyce

It's wonderful you are so concerned for your friend. I recommend the book "The Courage to Heal" by Ellen Bass and Laura Davis, it has a lot of good information for Survivors of Child Sexual Abuse. Also if you can help her find a Counselor who specializies in working with Victims of Sexual Assult or a support group for Survivors of Sexual Assult.
All of these things helped me a great deal. I'm still just really getting my life back on track, but I'm much better than I used to be before I faced all the memories.

It can be really hard to face the reality of Sexual Abuse, but it is worth it.
Peace
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