I couldn't help but thinking the possibilty that my was-going-to-be-future wife is bisexual!

Well, first things first: I met the girl I'm talking about in Paris a year ago, thing is, I fell in love with her in a way that kept me from asking where she came from, whats her background, her family.... we just spent 2 weeks in Paris and that was the most romantic time I ever experienced.

Since then, we seperated for like 2 months, and I actually got to talk to her again via facebook, and we met a second time, she said that she never forgot what we had and she'd like to give it a second try after we thought that the week at paris will be just a memory and a thing we'll never share with our future partners.

I was intrested in being her partner, she was rich (She still is) and I saw her as this cute yet deep & convincing woman I always dreamt of meeting... so we started dating for 2 weeks and I asked her to marry me.

Thing is, as I said, I never asked her about her previous relationships, or whom she slept with in the past, she knew I been gay for the better part of my adolescence.... and she was so okay with it (A thing I like in her)

I know it sounds hard to imagine, all this loving we share, this close I am to her, how come I don't even know the nature of her background???? All I know is that her wealthy father lives in Barcelona (He's an owner of a perfume company), her mother died because of cancer, she has only a little brother whos in like 3rd grade.... and that she lives in London where she works as a painter.


I know the details of all these things, but I never met with anyone from her family, and her facebook is COMPLETELY empty (She even got one just occasionally!),, its like that I know so much about her, but little I know about HER, like,,, you can't go on with that.

Well, yesterday, we Skyped and I was planning to tell her about my desire to stop all the wedding plans and start realizing that we're too young and too damn stupid to get into ALL THAT.... I told her that I'm madly in love with her........ she gave me this very strange look, as if she was saying "Hey you're serious!"... suddenly, she said "Go take a break, honey, if you can't fuck pussy then I can!"

Well, the "If you can't have pussy" part is obvious (She probably remembered that I was gay and that all of this is because I'm gay again -- Which is not true --)

But the "I can" part?? Its not like she's going to blame it on a lesbian intercourse?? She's not that kind of girls, I can assure y'all she never does that... her uknown background just ruins it all, is she bi????

well, if the love connection is there more power to both of you. but if you have doubts then it might be best to wait a while before getting married and get to know each other better until you can sort things out. in my experience, uneasy feelings about a lifelong union are there for a reason. don't ignore your gut feelings. good luck

ummm.... errrrr

WHAT????

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MoBettaBliss said:

ummm.... errrrr

WHAT????

2/10

that's a kind of jaded response to a thread about true love, innit?

MoBettaBliss said:

ummm.... errrrr

WHAT????

2/10

^ miss you