Is it me or does anyone else think bachelor/ette parties are strange affairs? Women get really out of control when theyre drunk, especially when there arent any guys around. (I know I went to a party where it was atleast 15 girls and 3 guys, me being one of them, and other situations). So I'd be much more concerned about the possibilities going on. Men are just stupid so you cant really expect too much, other than being oogling pigs. Plus a female stripper surrounded by men would obviously be more on guard and have limits, where as a male wouldnt care as much. Also I dont see the point of having an excuse to get stupid and act in a manner as if you dont have wife/husband, and like youre not getting married. If you feel you have to behave that way upon getting married than you probably shouldnt be getting married in the first place.

Getting married also an amalgam, having to sign contracts and go through a legal system just to say youre married. Then have these strange bachelor/ette partys right before then. It all seems really unnatural to me and frivolous.

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LayzieKiddZ said:

Is it me or does anyone else think bachelor/ette parties are strange affairs? Women get really out of control when their drunk, especially when there arent any guys around. (I know I went to a party where it was atleast 15 girls and 3 guys, me being one of them, and other situations). So I'd be much more concerned about the possibilities going on. Men are just stupid so you cant really expect too much, other than being oogling pigs. Plus a female stripper surrounded by men would obviously be more on guard and have limits, where as male wouldnt care as much. Also I dont see the point of having an excuse to get stupid and act in a manner as if you dont have wife/husband, and like youre not getting married. If you feel you have to behave that way upon getting married then you probably shouldnt be getting married in the first place.

Getting married also an amalgam, having to sign contracts and go through a legal system just to say youre married. Then have these strange bachelor/ette partys right before then. It all seems really unnatural to me and frivolous.

I think the parties don't need strippers to have fun. Hanging out with friends and having fun is whats important. The sexual aspect is weird and not needed. If you want to go to a strip club, take your wife or husband and go.

kewlschool said:

LayzieKiddZ said:

Is it me or does anyone else think bachelor/ette parties are strange affairs? Women get really out of control when their drunk, especially when there arent any guys around. (I know I went to a party where it was atleast 15 girls and 3 guys, me being one of them, and other situations). So I'd be much more concerned about the possibilities going on. Men are just stupid so you cant really expect too much, other than being oogling pigs. Plus a female stripper surrounded by men would obviously be more on guard and have limits, where as male wouldnt care as much. Also I dont see the point of having an excuse to get stupid and act in a manner as if you dont have wife/husband, and like youre not getting married. If you feel you have to behave that way upon getting married then you probably shouldnt be getting married in the first place.

Getting married also an amalgam, having to sign contracts and go through a legal system just to say youre married. Then have these strange bachelor/ette partys right before then. It all seems really unnatural to me and frivolous.

I think the parties don't need strippers to have fun. Hanging out with friends and having fun is whats important. The sexual aspect is weird and not needed. If you want to go to a strip club, take your wife or husband and go.

It's just typical sheeple behaviour. I used to see groups out all the time, doing the EXACT same shit. Like exactly the same. It's just another stupid western tradition that I don't get it, since it's supposed to be one last celebration before your fun, independent life comes to a complete stop.

the woman should see what the guy does at his party...then decide if she still wants to marry him

JustErin said:

kewlschool said:

I think the parties don't need strippers to have fun. Hanging out with friends and having fun is whats important. The sexual aspect is weird and not needed. If you want to go to a strip club, take your wife or husband and go.

It's just typical sheeple behaviour. I used to see groups out all the time, doing the EXACT same shit. Like exactly the same. It's just another stupid western tradition that I don't get it, since it's supposed to be one last celebration before your fun, independent life comes to a complete stop.

I think turning it to a fun night with friends is okay-turning it to an all out last sexual frenzy is wierd since (although, your not married) you are in a relationship with a person you are going to marry.

kewlschool said:

JustErin said:

It's just typical sheeple behaviour. I used to see groups out all the time, doing the EXACT same shit. Like exactly the same. It's just another stupid western tradition that I don't get it, since it's supposed to be one last celebration before your fun, independent life comes to a complete stop.

I think turning it to a fun night with friends is okay-turning it to an all out last sexual frenzy is wierd since (although, your not married) you are in a relationship with a person you are going to marry.

a friend of mine got so drunk at his stag night the stripper/hooker whatever she/it was, sodomised him with her dildo and there is video footage of it. The humiliation of that night is ongoing.

I really really don't understand how that is "fun".

ZombieKitten said:

kewlschool said:

I think turning it to a fun night with friends is okay-turning it to an all out last sexual frenzy is wierd since (although, your not married) you are in a relationship with a person you are going to marry.

a friend of mine got so drunk at his stag night the stripper/hooker whatever she/it was, sodomised him with her dildo and there is video footage of it. The humiliation of that night is ongoing.

I really really don't understand how that is "fun".

Men tend to want to up the anti on humiliation-how much can you take? How man are you? That's how those things happen, that an alcohol just adds to the frenzy. It's very high schoolish and a kind of hazing that men do to prove their manhood to others. It's BS.

kewlschool said:

ZombieKitten said:

a friend of mine got so drunk at his stag night the stripper/hooker whatever she/it was, sodomised him with her dildo and there is video footage of it. The humiliation of that night is ongoing.

I really really don't understand how that is "fun".

Men tend to want to up the anti on humiliation-how much can you take? How man are you? That's how those things happen, that an alcohol just adds to the frenzy. It's very high schoolish and a kind of hazing that men do to prove their manhood to others. It's BS.

how all the "friends" there who let it happen aren't all ex-friends now is beyond me...

ZombieKitten said:

kewlschool said:

Men tend to want to up the anti on humiliation-how much can you take? How man are you? That's how those things happen, that an alcohol just adds to the frenzy. It's very high schoolish and a kind of hazing that men do to prove their manhood to others. It's BS.

how all the "friends" there who let it happen aren't all ex-friends now is beyond me...

Agreed.