So I have one child with my ex-wife but that child lives with my ex-wife.

My new woman has 2 kids. It's cool & all but to be honest it can mess with our dating or humping.

Now I don't mean to sound selfish or self centered but I really am interested in a future with this woman but here are 3 negs n 3 pos' about dating a woman with kids:

Positives:

1. You have a ready made family.

2. Any children you eventuallu have together will immediately not be lonely n have siblings

3. The woman has already shown herself to being a commited, strong, compassionate, caring, maternal and loving person by being a single mother. My mother brought me and my siblings up alone and I respect her more than any woman under the Virgin Mary. Single mothers are the unsung heroes of society and God will bless them for their daily love and sacrifices. Amen.

Negatives:

1. Those kids aint mine and are a constant reminder that my beau slept with other men. I already have to deal with the stretchmarks that I had nothing to do with and now I have to look at kids that don't look like me. I guess some kind of basic instinct to sow MY genes kicks in. Like a rougue batchelor lion that comes into a pride and kills off all those little male cubs n shit. I know, I know..I am not proud of that but it's the truth

2. Those kids fuck with our fuck time

3. Am I ever really going to be their daddy? I mean I will just be waiting for the day when her picky headed son tries to stand up to me talking bout' "You aint my daddy" n shit. I'll put that lil mofo up 4 adoption before you can say "It's a hard knock life Mr Warbucks"

Maybe I need a clean break. A woman without kids. Maybe a woman with kids will mature me. Maybe I just need to be on my own and fuck around for a while..Man, I don't know, Life's a bitch.

ThisOne said:

She is not your ex wife yet!!!!

Ok. That was neither funny nor did it make any sense.

Lemme give you a word of advice junior, Yo ignant posts make sense to no1...but yo' self

guess what???????????????????????????????????

i am always right!!!

the reality is.....

you are still married - you are not divorced

you r moving tooooooooo fast with this whole situation and because of that u come accross as fake!

i dont even read your posts anymore - just the heading says it all.................................

bla bla bla bla bla ME ME ME ME ME........................

Oh and one more thing...... STERIODS make your penis shrink which is why both your wives have cheated on u and THIS ONE WILL 2

I try to avoid single moms, but I've made a few exceptions. If her kids are grown, maybe.

uPtoWnNY said:

I try to avoid single moms, but I've made a few exceptions. If her kids are grown, maybe.

why?

uPtoWnNY said:

I try to avoid single moms, but I've made a few exceptions. If her kids are grown, maybe.

I'm a single mom and I can totally understand why some men want to stay away.

I myself stay far away from single dads. I have no interest in baby mama drama.

But in my experience, kid free guys that I've known haven't had an issue with me having a son.

JustErin said:

uPtoWnNY said:

I try to avoid single moms, but I've made a few exceptions. If her kids are grown, maybe.

I'm a single mom and I can totally understand why some men want to stay away.

I myself stay far away from single dads. I have no interest in baby mama drama.

But in my experience, kid free guys that I've known haven't had an issue with me having a son.

ThisOne said:

guess what???????????????????????????????????

i am always right!!!

the reality is.....

you are still married - you are not divorced

you r moving tooooooooo fast with this whole situation and because of that u come accross as fake!

i dont even read your posts anymore - just the heading says it all.................................

bla bla bla bla bla ME ME ME ME ME........................

Oh and one more thing...... STERIODS make your penis shrink which is why both your wives have cheated on u and THIS ONE WILL 2

Thank you for your input. I am actually a vegan and I do not put any chemicals into my body at all. Even the creatine and protein shakes I use are organic and natural not synthesised.

I am actually planning to go raw this year but was b12 deficient for a bit o am recovering 1st.

As for the size of my thing. I have never had any complaints. I am , I think, bigger than average down there and that is probably due to me being so tall, in proportion and healthy with good circulation. Maybe I am smaller than you as you obviously are well endowed. I measured just over 22CM. Not sure what that is in inches. I can, as you can see, type all day so anything else you want to know just ask.

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[Orgnote the mod that dealt with you. Mod bashing snip - luv4u]

I tohught your new love was perfect.

Stymie said:

I tohught your new love was perfect.

It's useless to address this person.

But how do you feel about dating a single dad?

22 cm = 8.66142 inches

What with your org name, the pic & quote on your profile page, the thread where u called a female orger a cunt (that has been removed) & the rubbish u wrote in your 3 previous threads on your 'personal' life - i decided to not post on any of your threads.

So i am just going to say this one thing & then i'm done..

I really didn't think u could get anymore dumb, ignorant & cliched but you really did yourself proud with your list of negatives.

I also hear u said some fckd up shit on your (now deleted) thread about why u believe Prince should work with white people.

Mixed up mf

JustErin said:

Stymie said:

I tohught your new love was perfect.

It's useless to address this person.

But how do you feel about dating a single dad?

I have no problem with it as long as he is taking care of the kid.

only real mofo on this mofo is Kingbad. At least bruh keeps it real.

I notice myself & the king are the only 2 ppl who even posted our real photos n shit

NinaB said:

What with your org name, the pic & quote on your profile page, the thread where u called a female orger a cunt (that has been removed) & the rubbish u wrote in your 3 previous threads on your 'personal' life - i decided to not post on any of your threads.

So i am just going to say this one thing & then i'm done..

I really didn't think u could get anymore dumb, ignorant & cliched but you really did yourself proud with your list of negatives.

I also hear u said some fckd up shit on your (now deleted) thread about why u believe Prince should work with white people.

Mixed up mf

Thanks Nina but Would u, have u or do u date/marry a man with kids?

Almost every orger has posted their pic on here at one time or another or has themselves in their avatar but nice try.

Frisky2Times said:

Mandingo said:

ThisOne said:

Oh and in answer to your question.....

If u really love someone the 'baggage' that they come with should never b an issue.....

The fact that u have a list of negatives is a real concern!!!
!!!
In a long term relationship that is not only based on sex the children become a focal point and being the mature adult you would acknowledge the importance of their welfare and up-bringing and not worry about the petty issues that u raised... Your love for their parent should extend to them!!!!

Having a list of negatives indicated irresponsibility as a so called grown up

U can actually grow as a person if you spend a bit more time working on your morals as opposed to your body.....

If I met someone like u.... I'd hug the kids - give them my number - tell them to call me when they need help..... And run real fast!!!


Everything I say is based on the shallow and conceited statements that u have made! And like I said b4 - u come accross as a real fake!!!


[Edited 1/23/14 10:11am]

OK, I'm done giving my opinion and commenting on "ManDjango's" (Negro, pleaseb ) threads . I will proably read them, but it is obvious he is not really looking for answers. He's seeking attention and does come off rather narcissistic.

Mandingo said:

ThisOne said:

Oh and in answer to your question.....

If u really love someone the 'baggage' that they come with should never b an issue.....

The fact that u have a list of negatives is a real concern!!!
!!!
In a long term relationship that is not only based on sex the children become a focal point and being the mature adult you would acknowledge the importance of their welfare and up-bringing and not worry about the petty issues that u raised... Your love for their parent should extend to them!!!!

Having a list of negatives indicated irresponsibility as a so called grown up

U can actually grow as a person if you spend a bit more time working on your morals as opposed to your body.....

If I met someone like u.... I'd hug the kids - give them my number - tell them to call me when they need help..... And run real fast!!!


Everything I say is based on the shallow and conceited statements that u have made! And like I said b4 - u come accross as a real fake!!!


[Edited 1/23/14 10:11am]

Yes.But I do come across. I would rather ur hate than ur indifference

Shyra said:

I have had sex several times with different women with kids (divorced or single)

contrary to popular belief, those women barely mentioned the possibility of settling down with me; single/divorced women with kids are not always trying to get a new man in their lives, it's a rather silly/unfair stereotype

ThisOne said:

guess what???????????????????????????????????

i am always right!!!

the reality is.....

you are still married - you are not divorced

you r moving tooooooooo fast with this whole situation and because of that u come accross as fake!

i dont even read your posts anymore - just the heading says it all.................................

bla bla bla bla bla ME ME ME ME ME........................

Oh and one more thing...... STERIODS make your penis shrink which is why both your wives have cheated on u and THIS ONE WILL 2

Mandingo said:

only real mofo on this mofo is Kingbad. At least bruh keeps it real.

I notice myself & the king are the only 2 ppl who even posted our real photos n shit

thanks for the props BUT BRAH,

i told you you gotta post some pics

yo name and some shit.

i still think you a lil kid somewhere wihin you

could wear 'big boi' pants

you alright, BUT you gotta make history

'round this spot to claim REAL.

as a matter a fact, i like yo humor on some shit

you got POTENTIAL!!!

i was in class one day when some one wrote (as part of a class topice on sex)

"i'm not tryin to brag, but i have a six inch penis. is it true what they say about size matters?"

to this the professor says "the average size of a penis 'is' six inches"

to which i responded " what was it when they measured them erect???"

and she said...................... wait on it................

"that was erect" BWAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA