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13 yeard old Jahi McMath can really use your thoughts and prayers
Here in the SF Bay Area Jahi's situation has been a top story.
Having just lost my mother to somewhat similar circumstances(complications from surgery, cardiac arrest, possible hospital negligence), Jahi's story hits home.
Positive thoughts and prayers are needed 4 Jahi. Judge rules that teen should stay on ventilator until after reevaluation
[Edited 12/23/13 23:47pm] Rest in Peace Bettie Boo. See u soon. | |
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How incredibly sad. Truly heartbreaking. | |
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yeah, that was just hard... i am KING BAD!!!
you are NOT... STOP ME IF YOU HEARD THIS BEFORE... | |
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I hope they sue the fuck out of that hospital. | |
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Why would it be the doctors choice to turn off the respirator??? That should always be up to the family They are obviously not ready to let go And their feelings and the situation they are in should be respected I really do hope she lives and has a good life - the hospital has a lot to answer 4 To Jahi - god bless u . mailto:www.iDon'tThinkSo.com.Uranus | |
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In reading about the McMath family tragedy, and from my own personal experience, Hospitals can come off as being extremely insensitive 2 a family's suffering. I know that doctors and nurses deal with death on a daily basis, but they need to be sensitive to the fact that having a loved one die can be heartbreaking.
The general population doesn't regularly have to deal with death and some Hospitals could do a better job of realising that.
Find out the type of complaints that the hospital has received and if they were found 2 be substantiated or unfounded. California's Department of Public Health looks into grievances against hospitals in California and I'm sure that each state has its own department of health that does the same. By NBC Bay Area Staff and Wires| Thursday, Dec 26, 2013 | Updated 8:40 PM PST
Children's Hospital Oakland cast doubt Thursday evening whether a 13-year-old girl declared brain dead earlier this month could be transferred to another facility, despite the family announcing earlier that they had found another facility in the Bay Area willing to keep her on life support. Jahi McMath's uncle, Omari Sealey, said the family is "still hoping for a miracle" and "may have gotten one" by finding another facility to take Jahi and "give her another fighting chance to wake up." But Children's Hospital shot back a statement an hour later, saying that the family's attorney has said that multiple surgical procedures will be necessary to move Jahi and that he has not specified the facility they hope to transfer her to. "Children's Hospital Oakland does not believe that performing surgical procedures on the body of a deceased person is an appropriate medical practice," chief of pediatrics David Durand said. Doctors at Children's declared Jahi to be brain dead on Dec. 12, three days after she went to the hospital for what her family said was supposed to be a routine tonsillectomy to cure a sleep apnea problem that made it difficult for her to sleep. A judge earlier this week ruled Children's Hospital Oakland could remove McMath from the ventilator keeping her body functioning. The family has until 5 p.m. Monday to file an appeal. Chris Dolan, an attorney for Jahi's mother, Nailah Winkfield, on Thursday said they were able to find another care facility willing to keep the girl on life support. "A Bay Area sub-acute care facility has indicated that they can accept Jahi and provide her with all the nutrition, ventilation support and other care that she needs to stabilize her and to assist her in reaching maximum medical improvement," Dolan said in a statement. "I have been in contract with the plan administrator for Jahi's insurance who indicated that it appears that this transfer could work." Dolan, however, added Jahi would need additional medical equipment and treatment before she would be accepted into the other facility. He reached out to Children's Hospital to help in the possible move. "I am hoping that they will cooperate," Dolan said. "It is clear that they want Jahi out of the hospital...the family agrees, they want her out of there too, but they would prefer that she leave while her heart is still beating and she has vent support." Alameda County Superior Court Judge Evelio Grillo ruled just before Christmas Eve that the hospital could remove Jahi from the ventilator. Durand, the hospital's chief of pediatrics, on Thursday released the following statement in response to the family's request:
[Edited 12/27/13 3:07am] Rest in Peace Bettie Boo. See u soon. | |
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To JoeyC & family. You have my heartfelt sympathy. B1130 ==== I'll ♥️ "LemonDrop" 2DN 💋 your "Sugar"
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Thank you miss Boriqua1130. Positive thoughts and words mean a lot 2 me.
Even though my mother passed away in august, I'm still grieving. I'm trying not 2 get on the pity pot but its kinda hard. Especially around these darn holidays. Anyways God Bless u and everyone who commented on the thread that i made a few months ago(about my mothers death) ...Heck, bless everyone Rest in Peace Bettie Boo. See u soon. | |
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Hospitals can cure you or kill you. This story happens daily. The Most Important Thing In Life Is Sincerity....Once You Can Fake That, You Can Fake Anything. | |
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it's a terrible story and there will have to be an enquiry. i feel for the family but i do hope they will allow her some dignity soon, there is nothing anyone can do for her now. they could consider donating her organs though, in time that might bring them some peace | |
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Because it is the doctor's who have determined she is brain dead. Always up to the family? Who pays for it? The family? Medical care is still going to be about money. You are still asking for something that has to be paid for by somebody. That's the sad reality. Although there is insurance, the insurance company will not pay to maintain life support indefinitely. The family will then have this same fight again trying to force the insurer to keep paying. [Edited 12/28/13 12:29pm] I don't want you to think like me. I just want you to think. | |
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Because it is the doctor's who have determined she is brain dead. Always up to the family? Who pays for it? The family? Medical care is still going to be about money. You are still asking for something that has to be paid for by somebody. That's the sad reality. I had a cousin in the same situation - it was really really sad and heartbreaking When the announcement was made by the doctors It was the family's choice - they said ok when they were ready - they received support and counselling in the process of making that choice - it took them about a week to come to terms with the loss of such a young child It's the family's choice - Australia has Medicare and insurance - I am sure that would have taken away some of the $$$ burden in this situation Anyway as for Jahi well I understand the medical situation in the USA would be much different to ours but in this particular situation the hospital would and should be liable for all costs and they should allow this family time to accept the loss of their beloved child and money should never even be a reason why it's not - I am sure that in time the family will agree - a forced decision seems heartless to me mailto:www.iDon'tThinkSo.com.Uranus | |
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Why should the hospital be liable for all costs? Those costs are at this point indeterminate. Money should never be a reason?! Again, who pays? The hospital? Medical care is not free in the U.S. It is not single payer (government), so someone has to pay. When the insurance stops paying, who pays then? [Edited 12/29/13 9:45am] I don't want you to think like me. I just want you to think. | |
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SUPRMAN said:
Why should the hospital be liable for all costs? Those costs are at this point indeterminate. Money should never be a reason?! Again, who pays? The hospital? Medical care is not free in the U.S. It is not single payer (government), so someone has to pay. When the insurance stops paying, who pays then? [Edited 12/29/13 9:45am] The hospital should be liable because Jahi experienced complications following a tonsillectomy so the doctors obviously did something wrong - these things don't just happen and giving a family time to accept the loss should not be a cost issue I guess where I come from the health system makes it easier for people and it's just my opinion but for a world leader like the USA who r constantly spending billions in military and weapons and space exploration - the health system really sucks mailto:www.iDon'tThinkSo.com.Uranus | |
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That does not establish that the hospital is liable. Complications can happen during any procedure. Doesn't mean the doctors are at fault. Giving a family time to accept the loss is not a cost issue? When is it not? An autopsy isn't free. Neither is burial.
So where you are from? Is being on life support indefinite? When the family is good and ready, even after someone is pronounced dead?
I get the emotion and theatrics, but it ignores fact and reality, which we're just supposed to go along with because emotion is involved. I don't want you to think like me. I just want you to think. | |
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SUPRMAN said:
That does not establish that the hospital is liable. Complications can happen during any procedure. Doesn't mean the doctors are at fault. Giving a family time to accept the loss is not a cost issue? When is it not? An autopsy isn't free. Neither is burial.
So where you are from? Is being on life support indefinite? When the family is good and ready, even after someone is pronounced dead?
I get the emotion and theatrics, but it ignores fact and reality, which we're just supposed to go along with because emotion is involved. I'm not being theatrical - my family was in a similar situation and a week makes a difference and allows loved ones to accept their loss - it's not easy especially for parents of young children In our situation the parents received counselling and support - I don't think cost should be an issue because the loss of a child impacts the lives of parents forever To you cost is an issue because of your health system - if and when I have taken my children to see a doctor or to hospital i have never worried about $$$$$ I live in Australia And to me 'complications' means someone stuffed up [Edited 12/29/13 14:40pm] mailto:www.iDon'tThinkSo.com.Uranus | |
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Wasn't calling you theatrical. That was a reference to the publicity and posturing by attorneys etc.
Cost is an issue. Because the family isn't paying out of pocket costs, the care is being covered through taxes. So you are fine with others ponying up to pay the bill. You may not worry about it, but somebody has to. It's emotional because it's the finality of death. But the cost doesn't go away because of grief. I don't want you to think like me. I just want you to think. | |
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Supposedly there were two facilities that were going to take Jahi but both seem 2 have fell through.
[Edited 12/29/13 23:03pm] Rest in Peace Bettie Boo. See u soon. | |
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This is a big story here in the Bay Area.It's so sad and tragic | |
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SUPRMAN said:
Why should the hospital be liable for all costs? Those costs are at this point indeterminate. Money should never be a reason?! Again, who pays? The hospital? Medical care is not free in the U.S. It is not single payer (government), so someone has to pay. When the insurance stops paying, who pays then? [Edited 12/29/13 9:45am] I'm not sure how your health system works - but I guess ultimately the account will need to be paid - in full Either the hospital or the family - I would like it to be the hospital but sadly it may be the family It is not going to be easy for them in more ways than one mailto:www.iDon'tThinkSo.com.Uranus | |
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Right now there is a court ordered stay until Jan 7.
In this case, I doubt the family will have to pay, but the hospital isn't changing the diagnosis of death.
Because of the publicity, the hospital will probably eat the cost to avoid further negative publicity.
I side with the hospital. Every procedure doesn't turn out perfect and no one is necessarily at fault because it doesn't.
I understand where the family is coming from, but when and if they move her from the hospital, who pays for her care then? My guess is they try to make the hospital do it. Doubt a lawsuit brings that about.
Wonder how the family would feel if a lawsuit forced the hospital to close? I don't want you to think like me. I just want you to think. | |
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After a judge extended a court order keeping her 13-year-old brain-dead daughter on a ventilator in an Oakland hospital, Nailah Winkfield remained defiant to medical experts, insisting that Jahi McMath is alive. “My daughter is breathing,” Winkfield told reporters Monday after an Alameda County judge issued the temporary restraining order through Jan. 7. “She moves. When I go in there and touch her, she moves her whole body, her legs, her shoulders. How can you possibly say my child is dead if she responds to my voice?” The family has been trying to find a facility that will take Jahi in while at the same time fighting in court to keep her on a ventilator at Children's Hospital Oakland, where she was declared brain dead on Dec. 12 -- three days after a complex tonsillectomy surgery.
Sam Singer, a public relations consultant retained by the hospital, said the family must find an outside physician willing to insert breathing and feeding tubes, a way to transport Jahi and a nursing care facility that is willing to accept "a deceased person." "The hospital continues to give its deepest condolences to the family, and we hope they can come to terms with the death of Jahi McMath," Singer said outside the hospital. The case has tugged at the hearts of people across the country who are sympathetic to the family's pleas that Jahi be given a chance to live. Experts in law and medical ethics, meanwhile, say she is legally dead with no chance for a change in her condition. Jahi suffered heavy bleeding, cardiac arrest and "whole brain death" — defined as an irreversible cessation of all functions of the entire brain, including the brainstem — on Dec. 12. Two hospital physicians and three outside doctors requested by the family deemed her brain-dead, court records show, and the county coroner was notified. But the family protested the hospital's intention to remove Jahi from a ventilator. Tests by an independent physician named by the court also determined that the girl is legally dead. They showed no blood flow to the brain, an inability to breathe on her own and no sign of electrical activity. There is broad medical and legal consensus that whole brain death constitutes one of two legal definitions of death. A Harvard Medical School panel first put forth the standard in 1968, and in 1981 a presidential council proposed that a uniform statute be adopted nationwide. It was published as the "Uniform Determination of Death Act." Another presidential council reaffirmed in 2008 that "whole brain death" is legal death. However, in her petition for an emergency stay in the state court of appeal, Winkfield contends that the act violates her freedom of religion and privacy under the California Constitution.The temporary restraining order initially issued by Alameda County Judge Evelio Grillo on Dec. 20 had been set to expire at 5 p.m. Monday. The family attorney, who sought the original restraining order and the extension, is appealing Grillo's determination that Jahi is brain-dead and filed a separate case in federal court. Singer said hospital attorneys plan to fight all three. The McMath family lawyer has said three facilities have expressed a willingness to accept Jahi, but Singer said "this hospital has had no substantive conversations with any of them." Two West Coast facilities withdrew their offers, family members said, but they maintained Monday that a New York facility is willing to accept the girl. Omari Sealey, an uncle of Jahi, said the family has a contract with the facility and has arranged for medical transport. But Singer countered that the hospital has questions about the documents that purportedly confirm the New York facility's commitment.
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Brain-dead girl Jahi McMath released from California hospitalupdated 2:03 AM EST, Tue January 7, 2014
(CNN) -- Jahi McMath is no longer inside the hospital where doctors declared her brain-dead after tonsil surgery last month. But family members won't reveal where they took the 13-year-old after Children's Hospital & Research Center Oakland released her Sunday night. "We're very relieved that she got safely to where she needed to be, because we were all very afraid, given the fragile condition as she wasted away at Children's, that she might not make it," attorney Chris Dolan told reporters Monday. The move ends one chapter of a weeks-long struggle between the hospital, which sought to remove Jahi from a ventilator after doctors and a judge concluded she was brain-dead, and her relatives, who fought in court to keep her on the ventilator and contended she showed signs of life.
![]() "As a family, we are definitely relieved that she's no longer at Children's Hospital, but we're all emotionally drained," Omari Sealey, the girl's uncle, told CNN's Piers Morgan Live on Monday night. "This has been an incredible roller-coaster ride of emotions." He said so long as his niece's heart is beating, Jahi is alive. "She's moving a lot more. She responds to audio and touch, and more compelling evidence is the fact that she can move her head and neck," Sealey said. The hospital released Jahi on Sunday to the Alameda County coroner, who then released her to her mother's custody, said Dr. David Durand, the hospital's chief of pediatrics. The hospital had previously said it needed the coroner's consent for the transfer because Jahi was legally dead. Jahi -- who was declared brain-dead December 12 after post-surgery complications that her family says included severe bleeding and cardiac arrest -- was moved from the hospital Sunday accompanied by a critical-care team. She was attached to a ventilator, but with no feeding tube in place. On Monday, Dolan said Jahi was being given antibiotics to fight infections and nutritional support. "They're giving her everything that a person who would have a chance to live would be getting," he said. He declined to provide details about the type of facility, citing privacy and security concerns. "She's where she's going to be for a while," he said. "She needs to be medically stabilized, medically treated." On Sunday, the president of a rehabilitation center in New York told CNN that the facility would gladly accept Jahi. But Dolan said the family has no plans to give more details about her location. "We've had people make threats from around the country. It's sad that people act that way," Dolan said. "So for Jahi's safety and those around her, we will not be saying where she went or where she is." At least five different facilities that originally offered to care for Jahi fell through, he said. But ultimately, the family chose from a number of offers. "There were other facilities that still had their hand extended," he said. "But we took the first one that we knew would pull us in."
McMath attorney: Jahi's family aren't fools; they deserve better than ignorant attacks
Self-interest alone should lead most Americans to thank Nailah Winkfield, Jahi's mother, for her courage.I am the attorney who answered a call for help from Jahi McMath's family in December. I have represented them for free — starting 10 hours before the first order to turn off Jahi's ventilator at Children's Hospital Oakland — as they have fought for their right to make medical decisions for a beloved child. Despite the incendiary, hateful public rhetoric that has surrounded this case, I believe that self-interest alone should lead most Americans to thank Nailah Winkfield, Jahi's anguished mother, for her courage. It has been amazing to see how many people think they have a right to an opinion about this child, this mother, this family and the issues in this case. Self-righteous commenters and commentators who have no firsthand knowledge of the facts or the people involved pretend they can somehow know not only what's best for Jahi but what's best for society in such situations. They take it upon themselves to proclaim what will relieve or prolong the family's suffering, what will desecrate Jahi or honor her, and they feel justified in sharing it with the world in mean-spirited terms. For the most part, those who have attacked Jahi's family argue these simplistic, uninformed points: The family is either stupid, misled by their lawyer or trying to exploit the system. Why can't they simply accept the doctors' decrees? Why should they be different? What happened to Jahi at Children's Hospital Oakland will most likely be a matter of litigation. But if you were Jahi's mother, would you want the doctors and hospital authorities you believed had contributed to — or even caused — your child to be declared "brain dead" making final decisions about her? Over my legal objections, Nailah Winkfield was cruelly made to go to the Alameda County Registrar of Births and Death to get a "death certificate" in order to move Jahi out of the hospital to a site where she could receive care. It required the intervention of the coroner because, at first, even the official at the agency didn't want to issue the certificate — after all, Jahi was connected to a ventilator and her heart was still beating. Those who condemn Jahi's family appear to have no idea that doctor-decreed "brain death" is not sufficient as a declaration of death everywhere in the United States. Rest in Peace Bettie Boo. See u soon. | |
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